Topguy

I thought I's strike up a conversation about something I seem to be finding here quite commonly. Firstly, I'm posting this link to a really well written essay on the practice and physchological aspects of Diaper Domination-ergo-using diapers to control and condition a submissive person. http://www.tampafetishparty.com/writings/d..._domination.htm It cuts off at the end before finishing (bummer)-and no one seems to know who the origional author was. By the time I had been a top for around 6 years,I'd pretty much already refined it to be along the same lines-so there are only so many ways it can be done. I found it a bit eeiry that someone had gotten it so close to my own methods (hey, I guess we all like to feel special,eh?) Anyone out there with similar experiences, from either side, care to comment on this discipline?? And if you are embarassed to ask questions in public, drop me a line...I never bite-unless asked.

I have used diaper discipline and trraining as a standard method for years as a Top...... So katy is quite correct in reffering to it as a standard regimen. Here is a good link, with an essay that deals with it. http://www.tampafetishparty.com/writings/d..._domination.htm This pretty much covers the ways and methodologies I use-enjoy!

another from seattle,moving south in the fall.

"The Changeling" with George C Scott.

Hey there lil kitty, I hope you enjoy the site!

Seem to be quite a few folks from this area-feel like talking about it?

I really don't know what to tell you. This things is still so taboo to most people. I have pretty much given up-till I find someone who's also a partial incon,or at least adventouous enough not to mind.

No doubt val..........and an open cath is just begging for an infection. Nice fantasy-very very poor reality. You do NOT want to deal with the agony of a kidney infection-it's beyond painful.

Yes, colliodal silver is supposed to carry lower risk. As for the rest,up to the experimenter,you play you pay.

I've dome this myself with too large a cath,and it hurt for weeks after. but I did at least get professional advice on aseptic proceedure-no infection.

We are not accepted by society,get used to it. Even with millions of diaper users in this country alone-it's still tabboo. Go out like that if you wish,but expect to be arrested for indecent exposure..(yes I know it sounds silly,since you are covered,but they WILL) At the very least people, are going to think you are mentally ill. And here is one last thing to consider. consent. What if children see you like that? Is it fair to expose your "kink" to them?Tthe law doesn't think so.

Firstly, get, or make, some fleece liners..This material is a napped, non woven polyester. Cut it in sizes to fit the inside of whatever diapers you are using. It must be big enough to either pin through, or stay in place otherwise. When the diaper is used,simply remove the liner and turn it poop side out,and soak it in the toilet. Flush it a few times,and then put it over a plastic bucket (five gallon) turned upside down in the shower. Then adjust the shower spray onto the diorty area,using COLd water-warm will set in stains. Close the curtain or door and come back in about ten minutes,and it will be clean enough to toss into the washing machine. This makes this task MUCH more pleasant and easy. Don't use bleach,it will harden and destroy the fabric of the diapers. Half a cup of vinger will get rid of any lingering odors. One tip-don't let him eat oily foods before using the diaper-especially meats, like pepperoni. These oils will add stains you will NEVER get out. Tell him he'll have to wash it out himself, if he does.

While I appreciate that the chat room here seems to cater to fetish needs,for the most part-it gets difficult to talk about incontinence issues here. Ive gotten into a incontinence support group, http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/incontinencesupport/ And am trying to get folks with ACTUAL incontinence issues together, to organize a scheduled chat. I have modded quite a few chat groups over the years,and I'll try too find a smaller server to host it on. Prefferably with a passworded content-so that we can have a "troll free" enviornment to have discussions in. Are you tired of feeling alone,with no sense of community? Maybe this will be of use to you. Drop me a line in this topic if interested,or drop me a line privately,and we will see what we can make happen.

I saw it posted in the ab girl gallery section on peesearch a while back,look for it there before they archive it again.

i've always been an advocate of cloth diapers. The problem being,most manufacturers are lazy,and have not updated technology from 60 years ago. I'm actually someone who sews-and I have already worked out a few simple systems that have much better potential for a burgeoning geriatric market. If you figure than an average incontinenet person goes through 8 to 10 diapers a day, with disposables at around .75 each,that's $7.50 a day. 50 bucks a week............And a whopping $2,750.00 a YEAR. Contrast that with 24 cloth diapers, at around $25.00 each $625.00 And a dozen pairs of plastic pants at 10 bucks each........ $120.00 ______ total $745 dollars Add another fifty for fleece liners etc.............round it out to $800 And you still have a net saving of $1,950 bucks overall laundering will cost less than 1.00 a load. And cloth is easier on the skin, when fleece lined-than harsh paper. The only real advantage I see with disposables is thier compartive thinnes in public,under clothes. And you don;t have over a ton of germ filled non degradable diapers per peson going into landfills-making up a huge component of the entire waste stream.

What I really liked was when the SECOND girl in diapers came in-and they both did a count down for her to pee herself-pricele ss!

So.alone or with another,what's the funniest diaper experience you care to share? I can relate a few....such as being asked by a girlfriend..."Do these diapers make my ass look big?" or a first time putting someone in them,"Daddy I don't think I'm in kansas anymore!'

Ms borg,land of liberal coffee addicts,wet, the norm.

Thanks for that list ricky,the bar video with the girl being so matter of fact, with the shocked guys, had me falling off of my chair laughing!

I have heard that the new silver coated caths greatly decrease the infection risk-even if they are more expensive..ahs anyone had experience with this type..amd does it help keep the uti risks down?

Judging by how many people miss and piss all over everything in public tiolets-they need the diapers more than WE do.

At 46 years old,now it not the time to ask this question.

We seem to have three main groups on this site. 1 AB folks who like regression,and those playing Mommy Daddy etc............. 2 fetish people who enjoy diapers without the regression dynamic-and who tie other interests to it. 3 and incontinent folks,who come here for support and community........... And all those who cross over from one, or any combination of the above. The only conflict I have seen on this whole site, to date, is this. You may have fetish people who want to talk about things that interest them in the chat room,-but then you have ab's role playing-in the same room. And it sort of throws both groups off,and ruins the fun Is there any way we could add a fetish room and assign the other for abs? It would sure be a lot more enjoyable for everyone,if it wasn't too much hassle. Let's hear some input from everyone, if this is a good,or bad idea. Respectfully, Top_guy

Thanks Phantom...........Yes,lots of different things going on, I'm sure I'll enjoy contributing to folks enjoyment here-as much as I'm already enjoying this place.

Man,what an awesome site! I am a hetero Daddy type-been into this for longer than I can remember. Just checking in and sayin hi,for now.