I see the root of your distaste for TG/TS right there. Basically you can't stand the thought of the general public associating you with us cross dressing gender bending Jerry Springer freaks like us.
Before you go touting how your condition is recognized by the medical field, don't forget that they were the same ones who changed you due to their ignorance. I'm sorry this happens to people. Horrible. Regardless, on some level there is a similarity because too many intersex people had the wrong gender chosen by medical professionals. TG/TS feel as though nature did the same to them. However, if a medical profession was the cause of my discontinuity with what was between my legs, I'd be royally pissed off too.
What's the point of discussing what part of the body a vibrator is used on by which gender? Throwing in all this stuff about real vaginas and real women is just a plainly odd argument. Your emphasis on "real" just appears as an attempted hurtful jab towards what a transgendered person is sensitive about.
Oh, and when someone places a vibrator on the end of their penis, it's the same thing as when a woman uses it on her clitoris.
Geez, I find it difficult to even know what to say, this whole argument is retarded.
I'm always amazed how there are so many biases within the "sexually abnormal" society.
Anyway, this thread is supposed to be talking about feeling good in your diaper!