Ronnie

I wear diapers and have arousal all day long. I guess as far as noticable, it depends how big you are But I say go for it. Being aroused in class with your diapers while peekin at girls feels incredible. If you want the option to show you're wearing diapers, just let your sweat pants ride lower so when you are sitting at your seat your diaper is sticking out a few inches in the back. If you lean forward any girl sitting next to you can see it.

I wonder if she "borrowed" some of your diapers and discovered how wonderful they are

It sux that the people w/ the dirty-work get paid crap. This generally attracts people who shouldn't be in the business taking care of others. I guess that's a different topic.

Yea that's why I wouldn't want to be in one. Unless I could afford a good facility, I'd be worried about what care I would recieve. BUT it would be really nice to be cared for like that if surrounded by caregivers who want to help. Hence - fantasy.

Hi everyone. I would never want to be in a nursing home cause I'm afraid how restrictive an environment it may be. But one thing I found appealing was when my morning aide told me they change your diapers every two hours! Assuming that you are wet, of course. This has been creating fantasies in my head the past couple of days.

If you want to throw bed wetting in there, you can say originally you wore diapers for bedwetting, but after you stopped wetting you still enjoyed the comfort of being in diapers.

I liked diapeers since I was a kid. In my late teens a broke my neck, leaving me in a wheelchair. Still have spotty sensation, thankfully in the important areas but I have no motor control. They used condom catheters initially in the hospital, many times I'd get skin eruptions on my penis. During a particular bad one they put me in a diaper before therapy. I realized right there n then that diapers still felt nice to wear, and now I had a legit reason to! I still do a bowel program in the mornings so I rarely mess myself. Anyway, I go into it more detailed in one of my myspace blogs.

I like a soft dry diaper the best. Whenever I'm in a dry diaper things stay excited down there! Once I'm wet I usually change when I get the chance.

Errff... I hope they are not switching to a cloth like cover. blah! Read the reponses from Hirsch as you scroll down... i edited because I may have read it wrong...

Hey everyone! Does anyone know if these diapers ride up as high as Attends 10 6-tape briefs? I hope so, cause I love how they do that!

I'm so excited for you! Have u ever owned diapers before?

Unless he gets curious and tries one on! Then he's psyched!

Hey Necros, Hopefully they looked sad cause they were having a bad day or something? I'm sure for them it's a part of their life so maybe its no big deal. Don't beat yourself up too much! At least they were kind to offer support.

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I see the root of your distaste for TG/TS right there. Basically you can't stand the thought of the general public associating you with us cross dressing gender bending Jerry Springer freaks like us. Before you go touting how your condition is recognized by the medical field, don't forget that they were the same ones who changed you due to their ignorance. I'm sorry this happens to people. Horrible. Regardless, on some level there is a similarity because too many intersex people had the wrong gender chosen by medical professionals. TG/TS feel as though nature did the same to them. However, if a medical profession was the cause of my discontinuity with what was between my legs, I'd be royally pissed off too. What's the point of discussing what part of the body a vibrator is used on by which gender? Throwing in all this stuff about real vaginas and real women is just a plainly odd argument. Your emphasis on "real" just appears as an attempted hurtful jab towards what a transgendered person is sensitive about. Oh, and when someone places a vibrator on the end of their penis, it's the same thing as when a woman uses it on her clitoris. Geez, I find it difficult to even know what to say, this whole argument is retarded. I'm always amazed how there are so many biases within the "sexually abnormal" society. Anyway, this thread is supposed to be talking about feeling good in your diaper!

Hi everyone. I just wanted to share my recent experience. I've had many orgasms before in my diapers from enjoying the super soft feelings they give. I've also enjoyed the powerful orgasms given to me by using the Hitachi Magic Wand vib. For some reason I never tried them together. So last night I was about to take my diaper off to enjoy some vib fun, but instead I decided to slide the head of the magic wand under the waistband of my Attends. Still not switched on yet, I slid the wand down my tummy until it touched the head of my pee pee. Once there, I took a deap breath and flicked the switch on low. Instant pleasure! The vibrations were not only stimulating my penis, but rather the entire diaper was vibrating! Every milimeter of my genitals was being stimulated by my soft vibrating diaper. For several minutes I was teetering on the edge of orgasm. I then flicked it to high and within a minute I was having an orgasm that was extreemly powerful beyond anything I've experienced. I was able to take my hands off the vib since my waistband was holding it in place, which was great because it was as if someone was controling everything for me. If any of you own a vibrator I urge you to please try this ASAP.

Hi everyone... Interesting replies. I picture someone who wants to become incontinent, permanent or temporary, going about it in a way that can be reversed. In other words, if you train yourself to lose control, could you be retrained to regain it if you realize it's not for you? Even wishing this warrants strong caution from forum readers here, but I guess the tone I sensed seemed to be like "absolutely NOT, and you're a fool for even thinking of it!" When someone comes here talking about sticking needles in their prostate/bladder sphincter or mutilating themselves to attain incontinence, hell yea that's major concern. The differentiation between relinquishing control and losing control is an interesting point, however that is a relatively advanced train of thought for the person still exploring their feelings of being DL/AB and incontinence. This is why their initial posts on the subject might sound "stupid." It might be useful to merge some of the objective responses from replies to previous requests on this matter and have it pinned at the top of the incontinence forum, or wherever the moderators think it's best suited. Then people can be directed there. It could have links to a few ways to safely achieve their goal, as well as other posts expressing cautions and hazzards. I looked but couldn't find anything like this here.

Very often I see the disagreement between those who wish they were incontinent, and those who think they're foolish for wishing such a thing. I totally can see both sides as far as why they feel the way they do. I fully agree that a person should be warned to be careful what they wish for, because permanent incontinence can be very difficult to deal with. However, sometimes I feel that some of those who do not have control, and wish they did, are a bit harsh on those who wish they could become incontinent. That's along the same lines as someone bashing you for liking or wanting to wear diapers. It seems as though some here seem downright scornful. So, I'm suggesting for those who think it's insane to wish for such a thing to try looking at it in a different light. Maybe I'm wrong, or maybe I'm right, who knows. Ok, some people are into bondage, being restrained, whatever. For others who are not into that, it seems a bit weird right? But either way it's just another recognized fetish. Maybe part of the appeal to bondage is also feeling a loss of control and being restrained. To me, being incontinent is just another form of bondage. It is something that keeps you "tied down" so to speak, and you are at a loss of control. You are at the mercy and confines of your diapers. Now if your not into being restrained, you might hate it, especially if you have no choice. But some chose to give up that control. Are we in any position to judge those who want to give it up? Well, no more then those people who judge those freak nutjobs who like to wear diapers or act like babies. See where I'm going? I'm not trying to put anyone down for whats been said, I'm just trying to put it in perspective. I've been incontinent since I broke my neck over 15 years ago. Call me insane, but I have enbraced my incontinence. Sure it's a major inconvenience a few times a year, but most of the time I oddly enjoy having to be in diapers. Maybe that's cause I've had fantasies of being restrained since I was a child? Who knows. Anyway, I just read another thread and suddenly felt like sayin what I said, with all the love to my diaper wearing brothers and sisters Feel free to share your opinion. The way I see it there's no wrong or right feelings on the subject.

Sorry to hear about your stress!!! What about wearing snug fitting underwear over your diaper, it might keep everything together?

I put one on my myspace page. One is about my experiences w/ diapers, disability, and gender issues, which is rediculously long, the other was about being in the mall. It's cool to write your thoughts/experiences and share them. I've read some fascinating stuff, both about diapers as well as other things.

Awww, I'm sorry! It's sad when friends leave. It does sound like an exciting time for Jessie. I'd like to know more about the questions you asked as well! Can you share more details without revealing any personal information?

Hi Dolly, yes I could see the water, but I dunno water usually doesn't have that on me. hmmm? But I had a fun night! Dill, it was a Spirit cruise line boat here in New York. Very nice, good food, and great views through a lotta glass!

I went w/ some friends on a dinner cruise tonight. What a blast, we ate great food, had good conversation, and saw the city from a new perspective! Being that I knew we would be on the boat for a while, I catheterized myself just before leaving for the city. I also made sure that I limited my fluid intake since it would be impossible for me to change my diaper in my wheelchair. Normally this means I won't pee for 3-5 hours, so understandibly I was suprised when about an hour in the cruise I felt myself starting to pee. OK, I thought to myself, no big deal. But then 20 minutes later it happened again. About another 30 minutes, again! We were on the boat for 3 and a half hours, and I was peeing every 20 minutes. I knew my diaper was going to leak, but thankfully I didn't smell anything. Regardless I tried not to move around much cause any smells will come out easier. By the time I got in my van my wheelchair cushion was totall wet. I'm not sure why I peed so much, but it was good to get home and changed into a nice dry diaper!

I don't know if you need to have some major conversation necessarily. Perhaps just ease her into it. Maybe after she wears them again, tell her you want to try them too. Seems less intense then some 'coming out' speech. Might want to have 'regular' sex a few times in between. If she's cool about it, great for both of you! Good luck.