Ccwick

I would have to agree with you Emily. Becuase, just why not?

Emily, Have him kneel on the floor, as this will get his body in a position that will take some pressure of his muscles down there. Then have him concentrate hard on those muscles which are now trained to HOLD it all in. Once he has a mental feel of those muscles tell him to try and relax them and just let all that pressure release into his diap. Sometimes it helps to (as a guy) aim your pelvis downward like you'd be peeing onto floor as it also relieves some of the pressure on those muscles down there which are being clenched tightly. It'll take a little bit but just remember the more pressure he places on that area the harder it will be to go. Hope this helps cwick

I think you just described a large majority round these parts. Not everyone mind you.

That is exactly what i was thinking when i first saw these things. Everyone was talking about privacy and crap like THAT was the big deal. The whole time I was thinking forget about f'ing privacy what about the radiation you're gonna get shot with?! Convenient they don't tell you about that huh? If they give you the option to opt out what is the point anyway then?

I don't think women really get complaints that i'm aware of. Usually the men hehe.

Did you order direct from the website? Seems there is a difference in type from there vs. othe places like xp medical which special ordered them or something. I for one LOVE xp medical they have always been great in response and accomodation, even helped me figure out shipping delivery time / day. They have my trust when it comes to these things as they have built a fine customer service. I hear great things with those that reviewed the medium size from xp medical. I'm sure i'll enjoy them. cwick

Yikes those are some close calls! Nothing worse than being caught off gaurd or unprepared. That's just gotta suck. Cwick out.

Yeah i find a nice hot shower loosens the tension. You know getting all squeeky clean. If i'm able to diaper I do but what really tends to take my mind off things is watching some movies or playing video games. YOu end up concentrating on what you are watching / doing instead of what is stressing your mind. So i find that calming. Cwick out.

ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! this is exactly what happens with abena. The newest ones i think have softer plastic but the inner absorption padding/material does break up if you're in them long enough and the tapes are still an issue with these diapers/nappies. Once you tape them on you better not retape cause they will not hold up. Still love the thickness and feel and absorption and all that stuff though.

OH dang! That sucks man. Certainly not funny like the "jackass the movie" part where the guy gets an x ray of his bum with a toy car up it. Yeah the car shows up too. Cwick out.

Clear assurance that he cares so much that he doesn't care about the diapers but cares about YOU. Bravo sir. Bravo. just hug him and go with it jenn. He's a keeper cwick out

Lol amen sister amen! Always a great moto. Cwick out.

Yeah i thnk that link was there long time sunshine. Least long as i've known. Yeah always knew he was military diapergirl80 (HIYAS btw didn't know if it was ex or active but probably got a lot to do with it. Honestly i enjoy any and all amateur contributions to our community, that's why i try to contribute sometimes. Anyway time to go catch yall on the flip side. Cwick out.

That's great Jenn! Congratulations hun I hope it all works out wonderfully. Share it up on this board i think a lot of people need to know and realize if you need to wear diapers that this can and DOES happen So for all yall that may be worried about such things cause of your diapers just look no further Cwick out.

Well people always need to have their opinions ya know digger. Often it ends up in a witch hunt LIKE scenario on these boards and goes back and froth cause people just don't like what otehrs have to say sometimes. Doesn't make them right or wrong. I just assumed let people speak what they want however they want. The witch hunt sorta thing always gonna happen i guess is what i'm saying. But its always nice to give people a chance. I would agree though, inconjennifer certainly seems genuine. Personally i find that most important. But that's me. Cwick out.

Wow man yeah that sucks. Actually coincidentally and my father would kill me if he knew i told this but he had an accident of the same caliber and he doesn't wear diapers lol. Only diff is that JUST his tummy was acting up and every bathroom he went to was locked lol. He had some meeting to go to and he couldn't wait so he stopped at a McDonalds. CLOSED. Burger King. CLOSED. Wendy's. CLOSED. Gas Station. CLOSED. Finally he just went at the meeting building and hit the mens room. OUT OF ORDER. LOL he ended up going to the woman's bathroom and still didn't quite make it hehe. he had to clean up and after all that and tryin to get the smell out he still had to go to that meeting lol. Personally I woulda skipped it myself. That' or had some extra strength diapers hehe.

Woah that's a tough situation but least the theatre is dark . Good call leaving 5 min before movie ended. Cwick

I guess I was thinking of helping directly. But friendship I can always offer Cwick Wanted to amend what I said to clarify that when I said help I meant more of being able to take away the bad stuff you have to deal with. Indeed friendship can help. I'm very loyal to my friends and care about them very much because you need to have friends you can confide in ya know. Also I know i was basically labelled ignorant for thinkin it a better course to kinda steer away from the back and forth attacks and defenses in arguements and comments etc. but I just recognize that THAT is exactly what is going to happen. Things just going back and forth and stuff. I prefer to make things positive you know, and jennifer I would HAPPILY extrend my friendship to you should you care to accept. That goes for anyone. I can't promise my time ALL THE TIME but I can promise to do my best Yeah that felt like a good post . And finish off with a nice big HUG. I like hugs. Cwick

I'm sorry you are always reminded of the bad stuff jennifer Wish i could help you somehow but alas i don't think there is much I could do. Sorry, Cwick

Interesting how people view things isn't it? Not to mention skewed and one minded. I'm surprised that more people don't learn for themselves rather than oh everyone things its pervs so must be pervs. Ridiculus. But at least you set them straight and maybe at least ONE person will know the truth. Well i'm off to work nice thread later turle, Cwick

I lost a good friend in a car crash too. I lived with him in college. We were very good friends and sometimes i think about him and wonder why him. Somedays it still hits me that he is gone and I wished i could just talk with him one more time. Just recently lost a close friend, she was a member of this community and she made everyone light up. I know i will miss them both dearly. But i'm thankful for their memories they left me. I can at least smile when i think of them and honor them with how i live my life. You're not alone jennifer.