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Hi Morv. I'm a figment of your imagination! The way that this topic was hijacked by a narrow minded bigot is exactly the reason we stay quiet most of the time. I have some good friends on here. 'Diaper moustache' isn't one of them! St George got it about right when it comes to dragons!!!!!!!!!! Love, Frilly

What picture ? I see no picture!

Hi Hannah We have already chatted and found we have lots in common Hope you have fun here and get to know us all soon. See you around in chat I hope. Frilly

Thanks Paul for mentioning that it wasn't me who was pretending to be a female. My husband would be very upset - and shocked to say the least! Think I should change my name 'cos lots of people assume with a name like 'Frillylilly', I must be male. Suppose it doesn't help matters that I confess to a love of real ale! I am upset that someone should take us for fools by pretending to be a woman and posting on what was meant to be a serious issue. And I do mean US, because I for one take everyone at face value and had no idea that one of the females responding was a faker. Role-play and fantasy is one thing. But to mislead everyone to the extent of lying about your gender in a serious discussion is something else. Whoever you are, think yourself lucky that Paul is such a nice guy. I think you deserve to be named and shamed. Frilly

I long for such a day but have come to the sad conclusion that ii is unlikely to ever happen. I am glad you posted becuase just the fact that you are there gives me hope. Maybe see you around in the chatroom. Frilly

I think the point is being somewhat overlooked. Paul is looking for a like-minded soul with whom he can share his interest and have fun. One way of finding a person like that is to make contact with people on sites like these, and lets face it, where better to start looking if you want someone who is into what you are. He has been very honest and up front about what he is looking for and the problems he encounters in his quest. Yes, as a female, I too have also been approached by some right plonkers! They are easy enough to ignore. The nice people far outnumber the jerks. When I am chatting with someone for the first time, I seldom know whether they be male, female, straight, gay, incontinent, AB, DL, sissy, mommy or daddy, It doesn't matter at all. What matters is whether they are nice people or not and whether they are into mutual respect. I am DL and from my perspective, diapers serve many purposes (apart from the obvious!). For me it is a very sexual thing as well as being a comfort in times of stress. However, please take note offenders: I would NOT pm someone and say, "ASL please." Or, " Are you F?" That approach leaves me cold, so WHY DO IT? Some of you jerks spoil it for the nice guys, making them afraid to make an approach for fear of being perceived as a pervert. Paul is being honest about what he wants from a relationship. He may or may not find a soulmate this way but he will make some very good friends along the way because he is a respectful and nice person. I wish him well. Frilly

Whats your 'real life' alias (name most people call you?) - Shhh - it's a secret! What country are you in at the moment? - UK Are you Straight/bi/Gay? - Bisexual How old are you going to be on your next birthday? - 42 Are you a morning person? - I am in the week 'cos I have to be. At the weekends I'm a night owl. Do you drink or take any drugs? - Drink beer, gin and tonic - then take paracetamol!Do you live at home? - No, have my own house. AB and DL stuff Do you consider your self an AB or a DL? - DL How old were you when you stopped sleeping with a teddy as a child? - Still do! What was the earliest age you can remember that got you intrested in diapers? - It has always been with me. Can't remember when it started. Does your partner know about 'this' part of you? - Yes he does and is very comfortable with it. Does your family know about 'this' part of you? - No, there is no need for them to know for it would serve no purpose. It is a private thing. What If If you could choose not be a AB/DL/Sissy/Mommy/Daddy would you choose not to be? - No, not at all. I am completely happy with my life just the way it is. If there was something you could fix in the world what would it be? - I would want everyone to live and let live. If the world was going to end in 5 minuits what would you do? - Tell everyone important to me just how much I love them. If you could choose any age to be, what would it be and why? - I would be the age I am now because it suits me just fine. Random Questions Whats your favourite song at the moment? - That's a hard one because it all depends on the mood I'm in at the time. Could listen to Annie Lennox any time. Do you drive? - Yes. Are you in education of some sort? - No, although I am learning French. If you have a job, what is it, if you dont have a job, what do you do? - I work as an office manager for a musical instrument dealer. How does a complete reversal of the aging process sounds to you? You are born old and wrinkly, and you leave this world sucking blissfully on a breast? Maybe a bit bizarre question, but interesting in my opinion. - Sounds like bliss! What is your biggest regret in life? - That I never told my husband earlier about my fetish.

I spent a long time chatting with Paul the other night. A more sound, sincere and intelligent guy you couldn't wish to come across. If I weren't happily married, I would certainly want to get to know him an awful lot better! If you are a DL female out there and looking for someone with whom you can share your interests - contact this guy. He will treat you with the utmost respect and you will see that he is interested in getting to know YOU and not just what diapers you wear. I felt very safe and relaxed talking to him and he never overstepped the mark once. Although I have not been coming here very for very long, I have been pm'd by some right jerks. So much so, that it kinda puts you off taking the chance and talking to them. Please guys, talk to us a little first. You wouldn't walk into a pub, see someone that takes your interest, then dive in, drooling and ask them what underwear they are wearing and what their favourite sexual position is, would you? Or maybe you would! Same applies to chat. Get to know us gently; we like that. For 41 years I have been the way I am but it is only recently that I found this site and felt comfortable enough to participate. There must be hundreds more just like me out there. To Paul, I hope you find a like-minded someone deserving of the love and respect you have to offer. To any single DL female, I would recommend that you at least chat to this lovely guy. Frilly

Hobgoblin is to die for - I buy it by the case! It's one of the few dark beers I enjoy. Usually prefer something light and dry. Bishop's Finger, Speckled Hen, Black Sheep, Spitfire, anything from the Shepherd Neame brewery.........I could go on all night! We have lots of micro breweries here in the UK. If you ever get the chance, a trip round the Black Sheep Brewery in Masham is well worth a visit. My husband used to brew his own beer (when he had more time) and that's how I got a taste for it. Love to visit beer festivals to try out some of the lesser known beers. Long live beer! Frilly

So happy for you Baby Shelly, I hope your high lasts forever and a day. Frilly

Stressed! Do you ever have a week where everything you touch seems to crumble? I have just had one. My perfect office assistant left last week to go abroad to work. She has been replaced by a woman who talks constantly without pausing to draw breath. Her incessant ranting and cackle is driving me up the wall. The computer crashed and I lost some of my work. Then, to top it all, the VAT inspectors have announced that they are coming for a 2-day visit. I have a mountain of work to do in preparation and I can't concentrate with her constant rattle. I have felt like either jumping from the balcony or giving myself an all over massage with a cheese grater - just by way of a distraction. But now it is Friday night, I'm home and all is calm. The reason I am calm is because I have had a nice long shower, been smothered in lovely baby powder and a nappy applied. Sucking on my dummy, I am totally at peace and all the cares of the week have paled into insignificance. For me this is therapy at it's absolute best. It should be available on the National Health! What does it take for you to get rid of all your stress and be totally relaxed? I'd love to hear what works for you. Frilly

Welcom from one 'Frilly' to another! Our name is not the only thing we have in common. Guess what?......................I love nappies too!!!!!!! Frilly

Hello there littlegirl4. I am not lesbian but I am a bi female. I suppose when I origially came here, I was on a similar quest to you. Not any more though; I have come to the conclusion that it may never happen. That doesn't matter in the slightest because I have chatted to so many lovely people from all walks of life. Friendship is what really matters. People have been so welcoming, accepting and honest. I suppose that we all try and fit into little descriptive boxes in order to find like-minded souls who will make us feel comfortable and truly at ease. Since finding this site I have given up trying to understand who or what I am. I am married and bi. I wear nappies just because I want to. So that makes me a DL. On the other hand I have a bottle, dummy and frilly pants. I don't do baby talk or baby roleplay. I love to be spanked and yet I love to be cherished and fussed over. Am I confused? No, not a bit of it! Coming here has made me realise that it just doesn't matter. I hope you find what you are looking for (I hope I do too!). I believe in fate, so if it's meant to happen - it will. In the meantime I am going to enjoy talkin to all the lovely people here. Special thanks to Dee and Heather. Hope to see you around in the chat room. Frilly

Rick, If I said I liked toast for breakfast, I'm sure you'd find a way of referring to your favourite website. SPAM, SPAM, SPAM!

'Do real girls masturbate in their daipers?' This one does! 'Is it disgusting, wrong or perverted?' Never really thought about it in those terms - it seems completely natural. For me, it's a 50/50 split between on the one hand wearing for a feeling of complete and utter relaxation or on the other for sexual stimulation and gratification. Sometimes to come home on a Friday night after a particularly stressful week at work, have a long candlelit soak in a bath of strawberry bubbles, then be led upstairs and put in a nappy beats any massage or jacuzzi. Once in bed, the inevitable happens - all sorts mental scenarios are played out in my head.....arousal and gratification follow as sure as night follows day! I am married to a lovely guy who caters to my every whim and accepts me totally for what I am. Being bi, I just love pictures of girls who wear but also like to chat to the guys about our shared interest. I hope this answers your question. Frilly