Paul61

Every once in a while I have a great dream and I just had to post this awesome one I had last night and I thought it would be cool to hear about others. Here's mine: I was in the lobby of some type of Inn or Resort that was exclusive for diaper lovers. Well, I was checking out this attractive girl who was wearing just a disposable diaper and a T-Shirt who was talking to an attendant at the front desk. Now the front desk was also by the front door and it was a nice sunny day. As I was checking out this girls' cute butt in her diaper, I noticed that the sun was causing the diaper to be somewhat transparent just like sun causing a sundress to be see through. Because her diaper was just slightly a little big for her, is was a bit droopy so there was room between her crotch and the bottom of the diaper. I could actually see her pussy lips and I thought it would be so great if she peed. Well sure enough, as she was still standing there talking to the attendant, I watched as a steady stream came from her lips and soaked into the diaper. When she finished peeing she went out side and her diaper had a great wet stain up her butt. She then sat down. The next thing I remember is trying to find the girl and I did find her wearing a type of uniform like a waitress or something and I think I was in a cafeteria. I went up to her to ask her out and she whispered to me that her boyfriend was over in a line getting coffee but she was interested. That's all I remember. Any one else have dreams like this?

Alright, everyone check this out..... I'm not going to mention any names but one person that replied here in this thread claims to be a women and supposedly there was evidence that she is actually a he and I am not talking about Frillylilly. If there is one thing I can't stand it is dishonesty. On the other hand I would like to thank you for posting in this thread because we now have a perfect example of the exact type of idiot that we've been talking about. Humor me; What do you get out of pretending to be something you are not to people who are sincere? I mean you read this whole thread but yet still posted a response as a woman. You my friend better get some help and please, don't vote in the next presidential election.

Hi Diaperdragon, how are you? I have to admit that I think when I first started hanging out here I may have tried to contact you because I was reading posts and saw that you were one of the few women here from my area. I was not suprised at all to have not received a response from you for the reasons that you mentioned. If you read my original post, your reasoning is a perfect example of what I was talking about. I am definately not one of those guys and there are a few women that I've been chatting with in the room that could vouch for that based on a couple of long chats with me. (ie. Frillylilly's post above). Now, if I were to just come out and ask you if you were interested in chatting in the chatroom to see for yourself would that sound like I was being a jerk or too forward? I don't know? There is such a fine line but either a chat or exchanging emails is about the only safe way I can think of to be able to read between the lines to see if someone is a down to earth normal person or not. Am I trying to sell myself to you right now? I'll be honest.....yes. I'd love to get a private message from someone like you but only for a chat because I don't know what anyone is really like here either. Would I want it to go further then that? Of course but I wouldn't want that to happen unless we were compatible in other ways and really liked each other. (I'm just using you as an example) I also think that just like conventional dating you really can't get to know someone THAT well by a few chats or even dates but you can at least break the ice and take small steps to reach certain comfort levels if it is meant to be in the first place. That I think is the key. Paul.

Hey Pip! I am a DL but am only into wearing occasionally. I am pretty much searching for the same in a partner as I don't like it to consume me as it is a fun exciting addition to sex. In other words, if you went around all day thinking about sexual activities how could you go about daily living? I know when there are times that I indulge for a whole day I am drained but it sure was fun. I wanted to respond to Ildaddydom4abgirl with the same info because it looked like he thought I may have been an AB. Nope, not me. I'm a DL who leans more toward the daddy role. BUT, that daddy role is more like a partner who just wants to take care of his girl and would love to change her. I'm not into the whole baby talk thing. Hope this helps. Paul.

Actually the heading for my profile is "DL Daddy in CT"

Thank you very much Frilly, the check is in the mail. lol! All kidding aside and I don't mean anything disrespectful to any of the guys that have replied to my post so far but, it seems that the only people who understand what I was trying to get across in my original post ARE women and unfortunately it seems they are all married. Why is that I wonder? It may be because married women feel safer and I totally understand that. Frillylilly and I were discussing the whole safe and secure issue and how that is important for a women. That is so feminine and sexy to me and it validates what I was trying to say about it being tough to meet a like minded single woman.

It was nice chatting with you to. Once again, I love that accent! It must be so cool to live in a town where the Beatles are from. You're probably sick of hearing that though. I gotta get to England one of these days. I have roots traced back to there and belive it or not I'm linked to royalty on my dad's side. But, that goes so far back it's not even worth mentioning. I've been a lurker of online diaper and wetting sites since the days of Compuserve when it was text only. I've just never participated because I never wanted to be found out. I guess it's time I participate huh?

I agree with you. I may have gave the wrong impression about regular sex being "YUCK". I love regular sex. It just gets boring after a while and it would be nice to find someone who is as kinky as I and has a desire to wear diapers. My past relationships did not end based on sex. There were other factors such as incompatibilty, mutual goals, etc. Apart from the diaper thing I need an artistic type because that is what I am and women who aren't just don't understand that the need for some space at times is nothing personal at all. I know my post may sound negative but really, I'm an easy going person. It's way too difficult to get one's personality across. Do I think I'm perfect? No way. Do I expect my partner to be perfect? No Way. I know what you are saying about being in a relationship and opening up. I've been there too. I got my ex to wear and wet but she didn't really care for it so since I felt she was only doing it for me, I couldn't really get into it after a while. So, I put it aside. I care about my mates and don't like to make people do things just because I like to. I don't see that as being fair. Do you see where I'm coming from? This is why I want to just take a little time this time to see if I can find someone with the same interests. Now, most people I see seem to jump from one relationship to another and never take the time to get to know themselves. It amazes me when I see people that were together for years and years break up and a month or 2 later are with someone else. I think to myself "geez, did they really love that person?" I think not. I have only been in 2 long term relationships. Many short ones. Why? Because I take time in between to make sure I don't attract the same type of person every time. If the red flag goes up, I back off that's why I have shorter ones. It doesn't have to do with the sex though as it's usually something like the girl not liking kids, or she drinks too much etc. But, reading that you may think that there's something wrong with me and I'm being like George Castanza and Jerry Seinfeld saying "She eats her peas one at a time." lol!. No, as my 2 long term relationships were pretty long with about 4 or 5 years in between. Some times I think I shouldn't post my thoughts like this here because it might make me sound like a loser. I'm just being honest with my thoughts at the time. I've got absolutley nothing to hide here because really, I don't see what the big deal is about liking diapers or anything else for that matter. It's society that messes things up.

Thanks for the advice Alex but like I said in my post, I've already been there way too many times. I've got 25 more years then you of doing just what you described with not so great results. Hello iamafemalebaby! Thank you for the incouragement. I've never heard of Care4baby.net. As far as the chat room, I was there last night. It is so hard to have a conversation with anyone in those rooms because there are 20 different conversations going on at one time. Maybe because it was a weeknd night? Where online did you meet your daddy?

Hi all! I'm going to do my best to try to attempt to get across what I've been going through pretty much my whole life. I'm a 44 y.o male and feel that I am a great catch for a girl. I'm not being conceded, it's just that I love and respect women, I'm not a controlling person, I'm honest and loyal, creative, have a great sense of humor and have many interests and hobbies that have absolutely nothing to do with sex. Contrary to what a lot of women think, sex is NOT always on a guys mind as 1% of our time is spent thinking about something else. (lol! just kidding) Anyway, I have been into the diaper scene since age 0. I won't go into any details of the events throughout my life but I will just tell you that I have had good relationships with women that did not involve diapers or any kind of fetishes. We all know how boring that is and that is a major reason why I was always the one to break it off. Usually after years though. I've always fullfilled this pleasure on my own and it's really lonely. This is why it is my dream to meet someone to share these desires with but I run into the following problems and give up for a while: 1. Posting an ad in the local paper gets no responses even though you try to word it right, I always get some guy contacting me saying he's like to talk about our interests. 2. You log into a chat room or post on a board and ask if there are any girls from your area and all of the girls want to run because EVERY SINGLE GUY MUST DO THE SAME FUCKING THING!!!! This is probably because there are TONS of fucking idiots and assholes out there that give the good ones a bad name. Believe me girls, I wish they'd go away too! 3. I do start a chat with a woman just to find that she is fucked up or she is not very attractive to me. Does that sound shallow? It shouldn't because physical attraction is totally a separate issue and natural. Now the best way to meet anyone is in person and I do meet girls with mutual attraction but I'm at the point in my life that I really want to meet someone who enjoys diapers so I can be myself. So, I restrain from pursuing anything just because I've been let down too many times by finding that the girl is not into anyhing but regular sex. YUCK! So, what do you do? On your second or 3rd date ask, "Hey, do you like to wear and wet diapers?" What are the odds that she will say "Oh, how did you know?" Give me a break. Now, here we are back to this online stuff. It's a pain in the ass too. This is probably the best site out there and even though I visit here daily, I never realized that there were these messageboards here. I'm just not one to spend all of my time in a chat room or writing long posts like this. There's a world out there. I know that the reason I hardly hear from women is you are bombarded with guys just like the damn mosquitos that cover me as soon as I open the door at this time of year here in CT. I know, I see it happening. That's why most of the time I don't reply. There has to be more guys like me out there that think the same way and you girls miss out on the type your looking for. There are good one left! If I'm sounding negative that 's really not what I'm trying to get across. Let me ask you girls this; If you were seeking to find a mate that is into the diaper scene so you can have the magic in your life that you deserve, how would you like to be contacted? That's my take on all of this. I could be wrong. Paul61

I'm looking for a cool, down to earth woman, age 30-48 who wants to persue her AB/DL desires and also be in a healthy relationship outside of that. Email me at paul61@comcast.net if you're interested in chatting. I do have a profile with a picture in the personals under Men Seeking Women. Look for Paul61.