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Total bladder incontinence requires plastic pants?
dlnoir replied to cathdiap's topic in Incontinent-Desires
Total bladder incontinence requires plastic pants, yes absolutely -
Let me start off by saying I am no doctor not even close but I do think using stents can be done quite safely if you use your brain. I have been using catheters and stents since 2006. Started out with catheters, which only lasted a year and a half, wasn’t real enough so turned to stents and since 2014 went 24/7. So far I never had a UTI not while using catheters and not while using stents. I know I’ve been close to contracting UTI`s but always noticed the changes before it got out of control. This was in the beginning of my learning curve while still using catheters, once I switched to stents it happened again. I’ll be honest, I do belief it is always better to not stick anything inside your body that doesn’t belong there but speaking for myself, the other option is definitely not better. I do realize that stent use may and can cause build-up scar tissue in your bladder and urethra but I think that is a risk I have to take. So far if I take my stent out for cleaning purposes things turn to normal within a reasonable timespan as long as this is the case I do not worry too much about it. I feel over time my body learned to accept the presence of my stent, for any inconvenience which was present in de beginning faded into the background, only to reappear at rare occasions which usually means the stent has to be cleaned. So to me it is quite simple, wearing my stent goes without any pain or any other form of discomfort if that changes something is out of the ordinary and one should act.
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How would you classify your incontinence desires?
dlnoir replied to cathdiap's topic in Incontinent-Desires
I find it somewhat hard to determine how thing came to be as I comes to my incontinence desire. As far as I can remember I always wanted to be back in diapers, and I wanted to use them for their intended purpose but only for number one. I was back in diapers by the age of three years old but I can’t say I had thoughts of becoming incontinent as a child the concept of incontinence was something I was unfamiliar with. I was well in my thirties when I discovered I wasn’t the only one with this rather strange desire to wear and use diapers. All that time the feeling of wearing and using was out of balance so to say. I went to bed woke up dry just didn’t feel right, still doesn’t. Needless to say I did use my diapers but had to use them with intent to do so. In 2006 I ordered some plastic pants and such in Germany but something went wrong in the order I placed, they shipped a box of catheters along with my order. From that point on things changed rapidly. Needless to say by that time I was familiar with the term incontinence and what is was, that sounded very appealing to me. This said I didn’t know how to induce incontinence without causing massive harm to an otherwise healthy body. Catheter play changed all that in an instance from that point on I found what I missed all these years. Soon thereafter I learned how to make stents which made the experience so much better as you can feel yourself pee without having any control over it and the rest is history. Nowadays I use my stent almost 24/7 only take it out to clean. I wouldn’t consider to take it any steps further than this as I am very content with the solution as is. So to get back on topic, in a way it has always been there, but once I found a method to achieve incontinence without causing bodily harm it took some sort of control over me most likely to never leave again and I am fine with that. -
Needless to say I absolutely agree.
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Have you ever gotten tired of diapers? 🤔
dlnoir replied to diapered charles's topic in Diaper Lovers
Yes absolutely, especially when I was still trying to find my way in my desires. But since I went 24/7 in 2006 it is no longer the case, I embraced the fact that I prefer diapers over regular underwear. My acceptance made things a whole lot easier no more binge and purge cycles and feel in contact with who I am. -
I prefer cloth diapers and plastic pants like back in the days.
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This is what it will look like if I were to use the incontinence machine: 1. - Severe / total urinary incontinence 2. - Squirts and small bladder releases 3. - Vague awareness of peeing. 4. - Heavy wetting with infrequent pee dreams. 5. - Permanent 6. - No bowel incontinence as I prefer cloth diapers and plastic pants 7. – No I use my diaper solely for number one still have to poop.
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To be honest if I were to have it my way I wouldn’t wear anything else but cloth diapers and plastic pants. I really, really like the authentic look and the way they feel. It is just that changing cloth diapers while being at work or out and about is so much harder to do. Disposable diapers are much more convenient under those circumstances. So I switch back and forth between cloth and disposables. This said, as soon as I have the chance to change into cloth I most certainly will. I do not mind washing them it is part of the routine and I only use my diapers for number 1
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I don't change a thing keep wearing the diaper I like 24/7.
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Currently wearing a cloth diaper and a Henleys plastic pants.
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As far as I can remember I always wanted to be back in diapers, but like one of the other posters already said I also don't remember having thoughts about becoming incontinent as a child. To be honest I didn’t know what it was to begin with, however I do remember I wanted to wear and use them for their intended purpose only for number one that is. I was well in my thirties when I discovered I wasn’t the only one with this rather strange desire to wear and use diapers. Soon thereafter things started to make more sense especially now that I knew I wasn’t some sort of weird freak, there were others like me, Internet helped a lot in my search for answers. Still today, the desire to have no control is phenomenal, I feel my body messed-up becoming potty trained and I feel it is not how it is supposed to be. Being an adult these are rather conflicting thoughts. As a child I was unable to reflect on my feelings although they were most definitely there. When I got older I learned after a lot of struggles and self-searching is was part of my being. Later on I embraced the other part of me and that made life a whole lot easier to deal with. For sure I know it is not what others expect from an adult but it is my life. Wearing diapers and using them for their intended purpose is better than loading yourself up with anti-depression pills. Just my thoughts.
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Well that is a lot of money to spend on diapers. Makes me all the more happy I prefer cloth diapers and plastic pants, and if I go out I’ll use a medical type diaper like Attends, Tena or Abena.
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I've been interested in diapers and plastic pants for about as long as I can remember, I have solid memories being back in diapers when I was 4 years old. I was potty trained by the age of two years old. To me it feels I’ve never been out of them.
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Currently wearing a thick cloth diaper absolutely soaked and plastic pants, my go to diaper.
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Close To Incontinence With A Catheter
dlnoir replied to dependsfavorite's topic in Incontinent-Desires
So do I, I do not use catheters but make my own stents with the same result I might say. I have been doing this since 2006 and never had a UTI (knock on wood). I love the feeling of having no control over my bladder. -
Close To Incontinence With A Catheter
dlnoir replied to dependsfavorite's topic in Incontinent-Desires
When I started out with catheters and stents, the first year and a half, maybe a while longer I used nothing else but catheters in order to reach my goal, that was around 2006. I didn’t modify them used them as they came. Never had any issues with catheters no uti’s no nothing, for me it was just not real enough. Another downside you couldn’t keep them in for more than a couple of days without the risk of bacterial growth and / or uti`s so you have to be aware of that. Like Fakename4me said after removal things normalize fairly quick, so to me (but I am no doctor) catheters will not make you incontinent when used properly. Then again same thing applies for stents they will not leave you incontinent. Nowadays I use my stent 24/7, this is the case since 2014 and if I take it out things normalize within a day or two. -
The frequency of incontinent desires in the ABDL community
dlnoir replied to cathdiap's topic in [DD] Surveys
Without any doubt option four. -
To be honest I don’t know, never gave it too much attention. I know I try to do everything in a normal fashion so I do not draw any specific attention to the fact that I am wearing a diaper. In general I wear sloppy clothes to cover it all up and since I lost a significant amount of weight I feel my diapers are even more hidden. To answer the topic no don’t think I go about my ways differently.
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A view apply let’s see: Protected (physically), Safe (mentally), Like I am being myself, Like wanting to wear them for the rest of my life, Like wetting in it and last but not least Like wanting to become incontinent for pee There is no specific order to the list but the most important one for me probably is like I am being myself. I feel so incomplete when not diapered, feel like I am falling apart and disconnected.
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Do you remember the first picture of an adult in diapers?
dlnoir replied to cathdiap's topic in Diaper Lovers
Made me think of another one showing in the Netherlands. https://www.google.com/search?q=reclame+vernieling+is+zo+kinderachtig&rlz=1C1GCEA_enNL820NL820&oq=reclame+vernieling+is+zo+kinderachtig&aqs=chrome..69i57j69i60.27355j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:ecfa3949,vid:oLRF0SQ0Kv4 Translation reads: Vandalism is so childish. -
Do you remember the first picture of an adult in diapers?
dlnoir replied to cathdiap's topic in Diaper Lovers
That is a trip down memory lane indeed. I do remember the ad and I do remember they even showed in the commercials, I flipped over backwards the first time I saw it. The one thing it made me realize there were plastic pants on the market that would fit larger kids and grownups. As for the question in the ad I would go for plastic pants any time, but that is just me. Nice to see it once again it faded into the background over the years.