rubbersheetmike

My mother generally used the back of a hairbrush or her hand and did it otk for various infractions including bedwetting. My father used the belt. My preference when Ive been punished as an adult is usually the hairbrush or if standing up a stiff rubber paddle or wooden rod.

How did your doctor react? Just wondering. My best friend knows and Ive told a few others over the years but only as a way of avoiding after the fact embarasments.

I grew up in an era when there weren't the disposable products that are available now. My mother put a rubber sheet on the bed with a absorbing pad over that and then sheets and a light cover. I just wore pjs to bed.

Try it for a while in a place where your not worried about getting caught. Like at home when your on the computer. I can pretty much go anywhere if Im sitting down.

My experience with plastic pants going back to having to ware them over training pants when I was wetting my pants at school. Its not really a very effective wetting solution without more protection.

My mother was inconsistent about this too. I grew up in a big family and my mother would ask at the breakfast table whether anybody had a wet bed that morning. Four of us out of seven were overage wetters. Sometimes she did nothing about it but other times was more unforgiving. Sometimes we just got the "bring your bedding and pjs down to the laundry room" order. Usually the trip to the spanking chair wasnt a big risk unless I had a few accidents in a row or didnt comply with the "nothing to drink after dinner" rule. Or if I was in trouble for something else and got a combined punishment.

I think it wasnt unusual in the old days to spank for bedwetting for sure. My parents did it but not always. I remember waking up wet when I got older and being afraid of "getting it" as my siblings and I called it.

I'm not sure this is really bedwetting. For me bedwetting always meant and means losing bladder control in my sleep and waking up soaked.

I liked the feel of the rubber sheet and was physchologicly attached to it. As my bedwetting declined I didnt want to give up the security of the rubber sheet.

My father was opposed to diapers for overaged bedwetting because he thought it made wetting too comfortable. I hated bedwetting too until after puberty when I didnt want the rubber sheet taken off my bed and I found ways to keep it.

Better safe than sorry.

It sounds like your living out your fantasies. Good for you.

When I was in my early 20s I went to watch snowmobile races at a winter carnival with a bunch of friends. We were all drinking beer that we kept in a box near the makeshift bench we set up as our home base. The portable toilets were quite a distance away near the road. At one point, I was the only one of our group left because everybody had gone somewhere mainly to get a closer look at the races so I was left in charge of watching our stuff. I knew I had to pee but the urge grew even stronger as I waited for what seemed like an eternity. Eventually I couldnt hold out any longer and while sitting on our plank bench I peed into my underpants, jeans and right threw my nylon snowpants. It was a huge relief but soon the -10 cold wasn't avoidable and I made an excuse to go back to a nearby restaurant where we all planned to meet later. When I got home my GF at the time was furious.

I have been reading a lot lately about CBD oil because its now legal where I live. Apparently for some people it can help regulate urination and bladder functions. It seems a bit odd to me because when I was younger and used pot it made me have to pee. Because I have neurology and psychiatry problems I tend to avoid trying things I dont know much about. But I believe CBD doesnt have many of the same side effects of actual pot and might help to address my urge IC and voiding insufficiency issues. Has anybody tried it and what results did you get?

By the time I got to stay in a regular cabin which was my last year I was dry at night over 90 percent of the time. I convinced my mother not to tick the bedwetters box on the application and she reluctantly agreed. But I had two accidents that year the first about a week in and the last one a couple days before leaving.

I grew up in an era of 'spare the rod and spoil the child' where spanking was normal. We got corporal punishment at home and at school back then. If the consequences were bad for all who went through it there would be a lot of emotionally broken adults today. I think the general rule was that it wasn't used except where parents or schools thought there werent other good options. I dont think that for me it was traumatic because I saw a lot of others my age go through it also. If it was cruel or constant I can see that it could be harmful though. Today its not considered acceptable or even legal in many places. I think that within limits I would leave the decision to parents.

I have this constant fantasy of having a gusher where I have no control no matter where it happens. Maybe its because I have a medical condition that makes me feel like I have to pee all the time when Im awake. Whats the most embarassing place you had a wetting accident or could imagine having one?

My mom used a absorbing pad on top of the rubber sheet as well. These days I use a plastic mattress cover but always have a cotton absorbing pad on top of that. Its easy to put in the wash with the rest of the bedding and I just have to wipe off the plastic mattress cover.

You are young compared to some of us. In the old days when I was growing up I dont think the hereditory aspect was well understood. It was viewed more as a discipline issue once we reached a certain age than it was a medical one. And there werent the products for it back then either. Except for the rubber sheet dealing with wet bedding and soaked PJs in the morning was the norm. I used to resent the "nothing to drink after supper" and the middle of the night wakings. These days people know a lot more about the causes of course and thats a good thing.

I have a medical problem but the most prominant feature these days is that when Im awake I feel like I have to pee even after I go. When I go my bladder doesnt fully empty and I still feel like I have to go even if its somewhere inconvenient. Sometimes I fantasize about having a huge gusher and being able to relax when I finish. Luckily my bladder doesnt wake me up in the night when I have to go otherwise I think I wouldn't get any sleep.

Back when I went to camp we didn't have luxury not to be outed as bedwetters. Those who were in the BW (special needs) cabin were assumed to be there for that and those in the regular cabins couldnt usually hide accidents. The best thing for me was that in my final year there one of the best athletes and most popular campers peed the bed a day after I did it. That took a lot of the heat off. We also didn't have the luxury of daily laundry. They did a run to a laundromat in a nearby town once a weekend and you could ask for your soiled PJs to be done but otherwise everything was just air dried.

I prefer to pee especially in a diaper when Im sitting. If I do it when I'm walking I tend to stand still because Im always aware of trying not to have it run down my pant legs. As for soiling I prefer standing up but havent done that for quite a while. I did go through a phase of night pooping a while back but I was asleep when doing it so didnt get to choose.

I would probably pick the role playing option. Its not that I dont like sex but nothing stimulates me more than role playing.

Three times in a year doesnt seem very frequent. Wetting after drinking isnt all that uncommon either especially if you got drunk. The episodes sound like OAB or urge IC and like other people here note that are meds for this. You indicate too that you have night leakage as well so this might indicate bladder sphincter weakness. For older guys like me this can be a sign of prostate problems but would probably be less common for younger guys. Anyway a doctor can fairly easily test for prostate enlargement and can refer you to a urologist if theres no enlargement. In the meantime wearing daytime protection isn't a big deal these days.

My mother used a plastic flyswatter sometimes but mostly when she lost her temper and was looking for something she could quickly grab. I remember that it stung a lot. Generally though she spanked me OTK with the back of the hairbrush or with her hand. She didnt use the flyswatter for regular discipline. When I got older my father used the belt but he scarcely spanked except for serious things.