rubbersheetmike

I liked the feel of the rubber sheet and was physchologicly attached to it. As my bedwetting declined I didnt want to give up the security of the rubber sheet.

My father was opposed to diapers for overaged bedwetting because he thought it made wetting too comfortable. I hated bedwetting too until after puberty when I didnt want the rubber sheet taken off my bed and I found ways to keep it.

Better safe than sorry.

It sounds like your living out your fantasies. Good for you.

When I was in my early 20s I went to watch snowmobile races at a winter carnival with a bunch of friends. We were all drinking beer that we kept in a box near the makeshift bench we set up as our home base. The portable toilets were quite a distance away near the road. At one point, I was the only one of our group left because everybody had gone somewhere mainly to get a closer look at the races so I was left in charge of watching our stuff. I knew I had to pee but the urge grew even stronger as I waited for what seemed like an eternity. Eventually I couldnt hold out any longer and while sitting on our plank bench I peed into my underpants, jeans and right threw my nylon snowpants. It was a huge relief but soon the -10 cold wasn't avoidable and I made an excuse to go back to a nearby restaurant where we all planned to meet later. When I got home my GF at the time was furious.

I have been reading a lot lately about CBD oil because its now legal where I live. Apparently for some people it can help regulate urination and bladder functions. It seems a bit odd to me because when I was younger and used pot it made me have to pee. Because I have neurology and psychiatry problems I tend to avoid trying things I dont know much about. But I believe CBD doesnt have many of the same side effects of actual pot and might help to address my urge IC and voiding insufficiency issues. Has anybody tried it and what results did you get?

By the time I got to stay in a regular cabin which was my last year I was dry at night over 90 percent of the time. I convinced my mother not to tick the bedwetters box on the application and she reluctantly agreed. But I had two accidents that year the first about a week in and the last one a couple days before leaving.

I grew up in an era of 'spare the rod and spoil the child' where spanking was normal. We got corporal punishment at home and at school back then. If the consequences were bad for all who went through it there would be a lot of emotionally broken adults today. I think the general rule was that it wasn't used except where parents or schools thought there werent other good options. I dont think that for me it was traumatic because I saw a lot of others my age go through it also. If it was cruel or constant I can see that it could be harmful though. Today its not considered acceptable or even legal in many places. I think that within limits I would leave the decision to parents.

I have this constant fantasy of having a gusher where I have no control no matter where it happens. Maybe its because I have a medical condition that makes me feel like I have to pee all the time when Im awake. Whats the most embarassing place you had a wetting accident or could imagine having one?

My mom used a absorbing pad on top of the rubber sheet as well. These days I use a plastic mattress cover but always have a cotton absorbing pad on top of that. Its easy to put in the wash with the rest of the bedding and I just have to wipe off the plastic mattress cover.

You are young compared to some of us. In the old days when I was growing up I dont think the hereditory aspect was well understood. It was viewed more as a discipline issue once we reached a certain age than it was a medical one. And there werent the products for it back then either. Except for the rubber sheet dealing with wet bedding and soaked PJs in the morning was the norm. I used to resent the "nothing to drink after supper" and the middle of the night wakings. These days people know a lot more about the causes of course and thats a good thing.

I have a medical problem but the most prominant feature these days is that when Im awake I feel like I have to pee even after I go. When I go my bladder doesnt fully empty and I still feel like I have to go even if its somewhere inconvenient. Sometimes I fantasize about having a huge gusher and being able to relax when I finish. Luckily my bladder doesnt wake me up in the night when I have to go otherwise I think I wouldn't get any sleep.

Back when I went to camp we didn't have luxury not to be outed as bedwetters. Those who were in the BW (special needs) cabin were assumed to be there for that and those in the regular cabins couldnt usually hide accidents. The best thing for me was that in my final year there one of the best athletes and most popular campers peed the bed a day after I did it. That took a lot of the heat off. We also didn't have the luxury of daily laundry. They did a run to a laundromat in a nearby town once a weekend and you could ask for your soiled PJs to be done but otherwise everything was just air dried.

I prefer to pee especially in a diaper when Im sitting. If I do it when I'm walking I tend to stand still because Im always aware of trying not to have it run down my pant legs. As for soiling I prefer standing up but havent done that for quite a while. I did go through a phase of night pooping a while back but I was asleep when doing it so didnt get to choose.

I would probably pick the role playing option. Its not that I dont like sex but nothing stimulates me more than role playing.

Three times in a year doesnt seem very frequent. Wetting after drinking isnt all that uncommon either especially if you got drunk. The episodes sound like OAB or urge IC and like other people here note that are meds for this. You indicate too that you have night leakage as well so this might indicate bladder sphincter weakness. For older guys like me this can be a sign of prostate problems but would probably be less common for younger guys. Anyway a doctor can fairly easily test for prostate enlargement and can refer you to a urologist if theres no enlargement. In the meantime wearing daytime protection isn't a big deal these days.

My mother used a plastic flyswatter sometimes but mostly when she lost her temper and was looking for something she could quickly grab. I remember that it stung a lot. Generally though she spanked me OTK with the back of the hairbrush or with her hand. She didnt use the flyswatter for regular discipline. When I got older my father used the belt but he scarcely spanked except for serious things.

Back when I was sent to summer sports camp they only had waterproof mattresses in the BW cabin. The rest had fairly thin cloth covered roll up mattresses that were put on top of wood slat cot sized beds. And we all slept in sleeping bags. They dried the wet sleeping bags over a heavy nylon line behind the row of cabins and the mattresses were leaned against an outbuilding to dry. After I had an accident in my last year at sports camp when I was assigned to a regular cabin they at least gave me a spare heavily stained but dry mattress to use but I had to put up with the damp sleeping bag that didnt fully dry in a single day. Your right though that there are more bedwetters than meets the eye. In my three years at camp there were BW accidents in the regular cabins every year. Word about these accidents spread quickly.

Thats a pretty poor attitude to take these days when there are so many protection options. I also wonder whether its more likely these days that a hotel could charge you for damages like they can do if you damage other things in the room? There was a case in the news a couple years ago where a guy was sued for the cost of replacing a mattress after he was drinking and wet the bed. He lost in court and had to pay hundreds of dollars. It wasn't a hotel and I think he was just visiting somebody. I think I would have just paid the amount owing instead of going to court. I remember getting my first apartment after I finished high school and got a job. The place was furnished and I ruined the mattress in about six months from bedwetting. The landlady replaced it with a used mattress and bought a plastic mattress cover. I often felt guilty in later years because it probably should have been my cost to replace it.

Its my understanding that it was common on my fathers side of the family. I had cousins on that side of the family who wet the bed well beyond the usual age. And in my family it was four out of seven who did too including all three boys.

I dont always ware nighttime diapers because there expensive. My last package ran out about a week ago and Ive been wetting sometimes without a diaper. I woke up soaked at about 5 this morning and was able to go back to sleep on the other side of the bed after I took off my peed pjs. Im kind of used to it I guess.

I hardly ever use a full diaper when I'm out but I do use pullups a lot. When I know I will be out for awhile I usually try to find a stall where I can pull down my pants and pullup andcan take a leak. But sometimes stalls aren't available because there in use or are dirty so I have tried to pull the front of the diaper down enough to pull out and use a urinal. When I was doing this at a bar one evening a young man stood at the urinal beside me and looked over. "You waring a diaper?" he asked kind of puzzled. "Yes, for medical reasons - just in case" I said. He was cool about it but went back and told the group he was with because they all looked over at me.

Those were the days right? My parents were also advised to use various methods of punishment for it which now is considered not appropriate. As my father apologized many years later for what we were put through saying that they did they best they could.

I think it really varies based on insurance programs and carriers. I get a flat rate but not specific coverage.

I think your right that you can find someone to indulge you if you step out of your comfort zone but you still have to be very careful. Not every scene is for everybody and ground rules are important. I did some bdsm role playing when I was in my 20s and 30s. I kind of got out of it when I got older. It can be very stimulating if your confident in the person your with. I was a bottom and I had a few tops with a couple of them being for fairly long periods of time.