Well, where do I begin? I have only known my Brother for 10 years, I guess you can say it is a good thing. Anyway, I understand that he does have a hard life, but, He brought the whole thing on himself. I would lend him money here and there, then, here and there, turned into every time I seen him it was " hey you have any money I can Borrow until the 1st of the month?" I usually would lend him money, and when the 1st came.
- Me : " so, you have the $50.00?"
-him: " Well, you see, so and so used my card and spent too much so I can't pay you back anything."
-me: "ok, just pay me when you can"
Mind you this whole thing went on for years. till last week.
-Him :" Hey you have any money I can borrow?"
-me :" Nope, all I have is (Insert said mount of money) and I need that to pay my internet bill.
-him :" Can I borrow it?"
- me: " no I need it in my account to pay my bill.
- Him: " I guess you don't give a shit about what happens to me and my motorhome"
-Me: "Fuck you, Fuck (name of room mate censored) and Fuck your piece of shit motorhome".
I don't know about you, but it was both harsh and felt great at the same time. I normally am not that type of person, but when you get burned out on something, my brain just said "Fuck It". I feel a bit bad, but the other part of my brain tells me that enough is enough. Sorry about the language. Mind you he is an alcoholic, weighs 526lbs and is homeless living in an rv. He had a chance to turn his life around but ruined it when he got drunk while in a hospital, got into an argument with a nurse because she brought him water instead of Milk. He Got kicked out because he threw a spoon at the nurse. I guess the term I can use here, "No use Crying over Spilled Milk" Much? Fuck it. I can go on and on and on about all the stupid, ridiculous things he did. I spoke to my Counselor about all of this and he told me "You can not help someone who does not want the help".