Tape diaper all the way.
Having said that, if I want to pad up before going out without making it super obvious, then I will put on a pull on type brief. No, they don’t hold as much, but I’m not entirely planning on using them. (Does happen once in a great while.) This is also the reasoning I have some cloth trainers and cloth diapers. I have noticed less noise and not always obvious. It’s my go-to if I want some padding, but don’t plan on using them.
I am also one that actually liked Bambino’s attempt at disposable training pants, my one issue being the printed designs. It’ll likely never happen, but I would like to see someone try again. Maybe this time resembling the old Pull UPS from the late 90’s, maybe some astronaut designs....plz? I also wouldn’t mind something replicating the late 90’s Goodnites. I can wish, can’t I?