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I'm interested in where is story goes. You've shared that your outline makes it almost as long as AMMR. PS- Thank you for your writing, I think it has helped me establish my voice and pace, not to mention how to get into the complexities of the mommy dynamic.

The age choice was deliberate and it is significant for both parent and child. Going from 12 to 13 and going from elementary to middle school means that you are leaving that child stage. They are developing an identity, and a lot more independence, which is scary for both child and parent. In this case, there is a boy who isn't ready to give up his childhood and a parent who is perfectly happy with it because she doesn't want to give up her little boy. Her children are no longer little kids, and that is scary for her. In my case, I was reluctant to give up diapers in the first place and wanted to be put back in diapers from a young age, but that interest waned in my elementary school years. I don't remember it being super strong when I was between 8 and 11, but it started to resurface when I was 12. That's when I started to consider wetting the bed again, and I think I dribbled in bed. I honestly don't know how my mom would have reacted had I begun to have accidents. I know that I'd see a doctor. Also, how should you deal with an older child who is prone to accidents on a long trip? Practicality would suggest going back to diapers, and I would have thrown just enough of a fit that it would hide my real desire.

The good news is that we don't have to wait 4 years to get to the end of the story.

Bat Shit Crazy The mom in this story is not mean but wants to keep her children as babies.

I'm already on record that it would be a great story 9/10 English class, especially for struggling readers because it is such an easy read. That's a skill. I also think the themes are not out of place for what they read in 9th grade English. However, the connection with the fetish community would cause massive problems. If you replace the baby treatment with chaining Sarah up in a room (actually happened) and degrading her without diapers- and it's mainstream. Degrade her diapers- it might be considered fetish porn. PS- this is not fetish porn.

It's heavily influenced by All My Mother's Rules, but this mom is more BSC than narcissistic. I It is a story that I tried to write many times over the last few years. I grew up as an American oil brat in Asia and we traveled for 6 weeks every summer. Since I discovered diaper stories, I've wanted to write a story about a child who gets put in diapers for that trip. I don't know how my parents would have handled it had I been accident-prone, but it was before Pull-ups so it would be wet pants or diapers. However, I didn't always stay close to my parents when went through large international airports when I was a kid. It tended to freak my mom out (for obvious reasons), but she didn't resort to using a stroller or harness I left out the medical stuff, but his accidents weren't meant to be caused by medical issues. I don't state directly, but he failed potty training because he wanted to stay in diapers.

I don't know if I've read anything on Amazon that involves children, but this story is more of a survival and redemption story that includes diapers. The diaper scenes are not very explicit I wondered what her potential sentence could be and thought it would be closer to 3 years. The sequel is putting a wrench in my time to learn Japanese because I'm more interested in reading about Sarah than learning Japanese on Rosetta Stone.

You have a right to your opinion, but there are far more disturbing ones that involve adults- several just happen to be 18 years old and resemble children. That is a large of the ABDL books on Amazon are explicit and sadistic, and some have characters are 18 years old. I find those books disturbing, but I don't read them. This is strictly a story a boy with a crazy mom to puts him back in diapers, and begs the question of whether the boy is purposely self-sabotaging himself so he can stay in diapers. One of the best stories that we've had on this board is about a 15-year-old girl who got treated like a baby because she kept wetting her pants. The question is: why would you open up a story called, "I'm not a Big Kid, yet!" if averse to stories about children in diapers? The title is a clear riff on the slogan for Pull-ups. I share the same feelings as @A_Pale_Spirit. I'm asexual, and the stories involving sex turn me off. There aren't many available stories meet that criteria for me. A lot of them also include forced feminization, which I find disturbing. IMO- it enforces a misogynistic idea that females are infantile.

This was just a great story. I'm already reading the sequel. There are so many questions remaining, but I think that's what made this story so good. I'm going to miss the updates

I don't normally suck on a paci, and I chew through them when I do. I bought teething rings to cover my chewing instinct, and they work better. I was alone, so I clipped one to my shirt. At some point, I discovered that ripping the clip was satisfying, so I did that a few times, and I probably needed a timeout when that started to happen. I didn't have a mommy to stop me, so I kept doing it. The muffed punt happened, and then Purdy threw a bad pass- and that's where it happened. I'm 54 years old, so I guess I'm supposed to stay there for 15 minutes I earned an early bedtime after the OT TD because I almost punched the pantry. I'm not allowed to watch football until August I chew through them quickly- and I'm particular about it. If the teat is clear- I don't like it. That was my favorite one, but I was able to fix it with a older one that chewed to shreds.

You have a delicate balance, especially in ABDL fiction, but I think it comes back to the characters. One of the best trilogies I've read on Amazon wasn't even a diaper story- it was more of a spanking story. The only diaper-related content was the 'bad baby weekend' where the protagonist spends a whole weekend in a crib with a diaper and then the alpha takes her out to the woods to find a switch. It's two strange stories that I found very disturbing, but the characters were complex. Let's use the extremes (and I've read both of these). In one case- the girl pees her pants, takes a shower and her parents transform his room into a nursery by the time she gets out (it's on Amazon somewhere- the story sucks). The second case- the author rights about characters I have no reason to care about- spends way too many words on BS that doesn't advance the plot and I start wondering when does the good part come. The best story we have going on right now is All my Mother's Rules. It took a long time until Sarah was diapered by her mother, and almost 4 years until it became this long-term thing She is now recovering from it- which is the only story I know that has done that. But, Sarah was a complex and believable character from the beginning. All the other characters were genuine.

I almost broke the door to my closet this time, so 5 more minutes.

I'm a 49er fan and I got so frustrated with the 3rd that I threw my pacifier on the floor.

That's a lot of projection from somebody who has already had the surgery, can I ask WTF didn't you start with that in first place? Are you lying and trying to prove a point, or was this something you've hid from all of us? Maybe I misread, and you mentioned that you've had this surgery. You've gotten help, or so you say, why in the hell are you responding to me in such an aggressive tone? Why didn't you start with the main point- you had this surgery with the doctor in question- and you're happy with the results? That's kind of a big point in the argument, and you left that off? I don't mean to be rude, but all of your posts since 2017 have been on the Incontinent Desires thread. Most of the post since 2017 are arguementove in the incontinent desires threads. Are you doing research, or looking personal valiidation?

If you ask me, going out in public without a diaper is just asking for problems. Maybe it's just me, but peeing my pants sucks. I've got to change my clothes. It runs down my leg, which feels icky, and I need to take a bath. The diaper is comfy, and I can do it again a few more times before I need to change. Diapers rule!

Your response would be accurate if you accurately portrayed what I said rather than projecting my caution to an absurd level and then equating me to a homophobe because of it. However, that's not what I did. I merely cautioned and said it was self-harm. FTR- the first thing you do when a student is cutting is take away the knife. FTR- I did this exact thing last year. A student was cutting in art class, and I don't have knives in my class. Guess how I took care of that problem? I'm sorry if you disagree with me, but I see this as a form of cutting. You don't, which is either because you are actively cutting and trying to defend your actions, or analyzed it to such a degree that you've spent the money to make this happen. Fortunately, it takes a lot more than finding an exacto knife to have access to this surgery, which kills my analogy. The 2nd thing I do when I see cutting is: get them help! It's a red flag, get them to help immediately. If you're considering this surgery- get help. And if the help you get is condoning this- WTF does it matter that some idiot on the internet disagrees with you? AFAIK, we've already had one guy book the surgery, which I think is the first time I've ever heard about anybody getting that far. We've had people propose it for a long time, but nobody had access to the funds to make it happen until now. He found a way to get to the exacto knife, and I hope he will be fine.

There is a reason you don't have a local option. Look, you're already planning the trip, and I'm sure you've already paid some money. The ship has sailed in your case, and I hope it works for you.

They had a strict 'no wetting' policy, yet they nappy changing stations,

Have I ever encouraged anybody to struggle mentally? I want to caution against something drastic and potentially dangerous, especially if mental health is already fragile. I want to restate that nobody needs my permission or blessing to do this. Just because I disagree, doesn't mean you can't do it. My self-amputation example bombed for some reason, so let's try this one. Let's assume we have a super-adrenaline junkie who wants to perform a super-risky bungee jump. This is a bungee jump that only a few operators are willing to do, and those that are don't have proven track records. The outfit will only operate in countries that have limited regulation, charge exorbitant fees, and make you sign every liability waiver available. Am I being intolerant if I caution and tell the adrenaline junkie that it might not be a good idea?

In a lot of stories, I literally search for the word before I engage in the story. I probably err on the other side, and get to the diapers in just a few words. It's why I write the stories. That being said, you need to have good characters to keep a story engaging. In All My Mother's Rules, it took a few chapters before Sarah finally peed her pants twice and ended up in diapers for the day, but by that point, there were several references to accidents, potty training, and she wore diapers at night. Emilia's potty training struggles were brought up very quickly in the story. The best way to show a slow regression is through time jumps. You go through in detail about an incident that begins the process, but then jumped to another time period (months, weeks, or days) and show how the regression has grown.

It sounds like Lisa has done a lot of bladder training in the last few months, but she still has a long way to go. She doesn't have much time from the moment she feels the urge. I'm not sure if she could initiate much of flow but her bladder can at least give her a few seconds of alert before taking control. Sarah hasn't been able to hold much urine for a long time and doesn't seem to have any ability to initiate a stream. The only reason she used the toilet at the hospital was that she happened to be sitting on the toilet when she peed. I think it was that way before her mom went full-baby on her. Lisa didn't get any of the baby treatment from her parents. She was purposely humiliated with a potty chair, but that wasn't about her being a baby. She also wasn't allowed to change her diaper which I think was about control, and not the need to make her feel like a baby. That was even more true once after her mom locked her in her bare room for most of the time. Lisa's bladder issues are probably some form of bladder defect that affected her muscle development. I was also late to the potty training bus. The last time I remember wearing diapers as a child was when I was four and close to 4 1/2. My mom used Pampers on me on a bus trip we took when I was four, but I might have been three and I remember wetting my pants regularly when I was four. We moved to Asia when just before my 5th birthday, and I don't think I wore diapers on the plane, and I don't remember having any accidents. As I recall, I wasn't even wetting my bed. I think my parents were matter of fact about my accidents and hoped to extinguish them. The last accident I had wasn't really an accident. It was when I was five, and I was playing outside. I needed to poo and remembered thinking that I hadn't had an accident in a long time, so I pooped my pants. I got almost no reaction from my mom, and she just helped me clean up. From the sounds of it, and it makes sense now, I may have done it for attention, and when I stopped getting the attention, I stopped doing it.

A lot of stories that try to slow-burn regression end up going way too long before the protagonist gets put in diapers. I'd say you need to have some regression dynamic set up in the first thousand words. If you keep the story engaging, you can push out the diaper element for quite a while, but eventually, you have to get there.

The culture of this thread doesn't want to hear why it might be a bad idea to spend a boatload of money on something that may not alleviate your anxiety. It's your money, it's your body. If it was safe and ethical for a doctor to do it, you wouldn't be shopping so hard to find one who is willing to do it.

I have an issue because you're promoting something that I find harmful. You don't see it that way, but I don't think you've read the whole post. You had an initial reaction but didn't read everything. If you did, and realized that 10 years ago I wanted to kill myself, and you still came back with the tone that you did- you're kind of an AH. If that upsets you- ask yourself, did you read it from my viewpoint? I hope you notice that I haven't posted on the other thread. Before you judge me as a complete AH, ask yourself why you think that I'm posting here, and not there. Maybe we look for different kinds of doctors. My Ophthalmologist tore me a new one when she learned that I ignored pre-diabetes and developed Type-2 diabetes. She is the best doctor I have on my team. My SIL would also tear me a new one but would be nicer about it. My step-brother would hang back, but tell me what a bad idea it was. My cousin would talk me through it, and speak to an expert that he knows to make sure I got a valid second opinion.

I understand what you are saying, and I wouldn't be willing to share this story with a mainstream audience—most of the stories, if not all of the stories on Amazon deal with characters over 18. I'm being honest when I say this would be a great story to teach to a 9th-grade class, especially a class full of struggling. This is an easy story to comprehend. A 4th-grade reader could read this independently and understand the story. PS- That's not a criticism, that's high praise. Known authors who a favored by English teachers suck at that (I'm looking at you, Amy Tan). BTW, that doesn't mean this story is appropriate for elementary school kids, but I think it is appropriate for teenagers. The themes that kids read HS English class are dark and very adult. Everybody reads The Great Gatsby in 11th grade, and that book has sex, drugs, and orgies. Read I'm not your Perfect Mexican Daughter, and you'll see what I mean. The abuse theme and overcoming trauma would be a huge win for HS English teachers, and it has all the elements that they need to teach the standards they need to teach. I'll admit that regression themes are out there. You'd get banned in Florida, but that should be a badge of honor. However, you present those themes in a way that is appropriate for that age group. I don't know if the students would be comfortable talking about it, but I think they would relate to it. PS-I assume you'll post the link here when you're ready to publish. I like the book club element that we have here. You get it in Wattpad, but the level of discussion there is lacking. Us experiencing this story together, and talking about each chapter has been a big part of the enjoyment that I've gotten from this story.