willow

You want to make a sub squirm. Two very evil words, Castor Oil. You've got a full diaper in a very short time.

Try it You will find if you try to hold long enough your kidneys start to ache, and the whole idea will seem badly thought out pretty quick. If you keep holding you'll probably pass out from the pain, and then you will fill your diaper. Wouldn't recommend it. Do what I do, drink lots of fluids, and then just fall asleep. If you wake up and need to go, just go back to sleep, or relax and wet. Soon enough you'll be doing it without waking up. It's a bitch on business trips, or family weekends when you have to share a room though, so be careful what you wish for.

I'd also like to thank DailyDi for all the effort that is put into this site, I personally hope you do make some cash from it. Jay, you're just plain wrong.

I guess my moral code is a little bent then, because I see you otherwise happily married for 16 years. If you'd told the truth that wouldn't have happened. Sure, it would have been nice to tell the truth and still be married, but everybody lies. Women get fake boobs, put makeup on, really love guy X and the million $s he has doesn't make a difference. I'll tell you something else, if you're married for 18 years to someone, you know them better than they know themselves. She knew, she just didn't want to see it. Until it was forced into her face she could excuse it. Look for other reasons you're getting grief. Everyone has to make a choice here, but when you make it, stick to it. That's the decent thing to do.

More likely she's hot as hell, used to action movies, and has the equipment to make you believe she's capable of breastfeeding.

I thought it was a great movie. So insanely tongue in cheek and cheesy. So over the top. Great popcorn movie if you turn your brain off. I nearly spat my soda out when that guy looked up with the breast milk dribbling down his chin in that cloth diaper. You've got to wonder, if it's starting to hit the media like this, then we're fitting right in next to schoolgirl outfits and whips. Fine with me.

You've either been 'nicked' while being circumcised, or you were born that way. It's not life threatening, but if it bothers you it can be easily repaired, probably under a local anesthetic. Go to the doctor.

I've been known to imbibe as much as the next person, but encouraging a severely depressed person to start experimenting with drugs is slightly irresponsible. If he was already a stoner, I'd say keep it up. But 46 and suicidal is hardly the point to start playing with such stuff. I appreciate the spirit of positive action however. Your other point about getting a hot bitchy (read expensive) girlfriend is pretty spot on. However he doesn't have a lot of money. I know many women who could suck start a leaf blower and happily change my diapers for a Gucci purse once a month, some nice diamond earrings and being allowed to drive the M5. In response to that I simply say..cool isn't it You need $$ though. I recommend taking the plunge and getting a new decent job that pays more. It never hurts in the female dept.

It's very likely that diapers are related to your depression. The snag of course is that it's very unlikely you'll ever shake the desire to wear diapers for the rest of your life. Therefore you need to manage them. It's a balancing act. Smokers think they feel better when they smoke. They don't, they merely feel as good as non-smokers feel. Diapers are no different. We're people with something missing, something that was taken from us, and they fill that hole. Accept this. Don't accept that it means that you can't get a girlfriend. You can. You just have to take the diapers off now and again to do it. Sure, it's possible you could find a hottie diaper girl, but don't plan on it. One thing I will promise you, if you find a girl who really loves you, and you put enough time in, she may change your diaper for your birthday and not moan too much about the smell coming from the bathroom. That's it. Talk to people. This community exists like an island in the wilderness. You can email me at willow_zzzz@hotmail.com, and if you need it, I'll send you my phone number. Tell your therapist, or get a new one. I've done it, they look at you funny, but force them to help you, or fire their ass. You're not looking for a cure, you're looking to balance your life so you can actually have one. Ask for anti-depressants and tell them your dark thoughts. They'll help you, take them. Mingle with people. Take a dance class. Take up a martial art. Go to book clubs. There are a million things you can do to mingle with people. Do it without the diapers, and put them back on when you get home. The single thing will resolve itself if you continue to mingle. Even if it doesn't, the social life will do a lot to help the depression. Man is a social animal. It's hard. I've been there. But if you hold on and hold on there is light at the end of the tunnel.

If you have even a hint of this, or if you are divorced or separated, get a good lawyer. My soon to be ex-wife is holding my personal interests over my head like an axe. Unfortunately (for her) I have extremely competent council and a collection of Polaroids that would make her squirm. The bottom line, from my attorney, is that the courts couldn't care less unless there's an allegation that it involves the children. Even bringing it up with no relevance would probably irritate the judge. If it's any consolation, after the abject humiliation of having to tell my (female) attorney of some of my habits, she reassured me I was the 5th DL she'd helped divorce this year. Her words:, 'Is that it? No problem.'. Apparently there's people that make us look normal. If you're in south Fla. and need a family attorney, let me know. Bottom line. Defend yourselves. Act pro-actively. Everyone has skeletons.

Gripe 1: The biggest problem is that your first question, "Could I?", isn't a question. It's very probably a fact, no, you can't stop. Gripe 2: You (and I) like diapers because they allow us to function and behave better than without them. That's like a smoker smoking because it makes them feel good. Both are probably false. You wear diapers to get 'normal' control. People smoke to raise their mood to 'normal'. Gripe 3: I'll go out on a limb here and say all this is not always hardwired in since birth, neither is homosexuality. It's a combination of genetics and experience. I for one am very susceptible to sexual imprinting. I could get aroused by an envelope if I masturbated for enough years looking at one. Aren't we weird? That's a good thing... In the end we have to accept it. If we don't, we stand in front of the mirror each day and hate ourselves. We have as much chance of resolving this as gay people 'turning' straight. (Good luck!) We're all damaged goods just trying to get through each day, and they're all we have to hang onto. We have to use them, but we have to also stop them using and abusing us (the balance argument). I say get what you can from them, stand up straight and know your worth. Daily Diapers isn't a fetish promotion site, it's a support forum. Look at the cries for acceptance and love. Diapers by their very nature suck self-esteem. That's what you have to fight. Be happy, I agree with you there.

I see from your profile you're 18 years young. That can be a tricky time. I myself was going through a parental split at that age so I can understand what you're going through. You're going to have to find your own way through the fog, but I can assure you that if you hold on long enough the fog always clears. I can also promise you that whatever your issues currently are, they won't be as important to you very soon. Chin up, eh?

If you tell her, she _may_ go. If you don't you _definately_ will spend the rest of your life lying and cheating until you get caught. You will get caught.

Well if you assume 250 million people, that's what, one in every 1600 or so people, give or take. Might be reasonable, I'd guess it's more like one in 5000, so there's more like 50,000 in the USA. Still a nice number, but bear in mind that maybe only 10% of those actively practice and accept it. Takes you to around 5,000, which seems to be roughly borne out by website traffic patterns and general industry sales.

Let's be honest, most men are pretty scary on the dating scene, period. However, when you take a bunch of guys who like to waddle around in wet diapers, it's not very often you find one with much experience with the opposite sex. In fact I wouldn't mind betting that most of them have lost the 'balance', and spend most of their Friday nights with the curtains closed doing 'weird' things in pullups. I'm not trying to be nasty here, but sex is a major driving force for men, and most men in diapers probably don't get their needs met very often, if at all. This makes them overly aggressive. What they really need to do is lose the diapers for a month or two, and try regular dating. Have normal (dare I say conventional without a pacifier vibrator) sex a few times, understand how the whole thing works. Wake up time. You probably won't ever find a girl who wants to change your diapers. Sorry. If you're lucky, like me, you may put significant (10+ years) into a normal relationship, during which my wife will tolerate my fetish, and on my birthday I might get my diaper changed. That's it. Even if you found a diaper loving girl (and they do exist), it's hardly the basis of a long term relationship, is it? If you answered yes to this, then I'm talking to you... Personally, I'd like to see all solicitation for male to female contact outside the board (in non dating forums) banned.

Wow, the Orlando area is packed. I would have thought the South Beach area would have been more of the ABDL hotspot.

I must say I'm tempted. I'll be in town that weekend for a conference.

A diapered vampire, eh? I guess it's practical, you don't have to get out of the coffin in the middle of the day to pee (sunlight being kinda corrosive). That's a whole new niche right there. For some reason I'm slightly aroused....

I wonder if you can buy rolls of stretchy tape? That would work just as good, simply put it under tension and stick it straight on the back of the diaper. Hummmm......

Try this: http://www.apple.com/trailers/sony_picture...europeangigolo/

Just thought I'd mention that the Abri-X+s now have new tapes which are considerably stronger than the previous ones. This is now almost the perfect diaper (no stretchy waistband).

I'm a DL in Fort Lauderdale. If there's a meet, hit me up. willow_zzzz@hotmail.com

You've got to remember that wearing diapers is a sexual fetish for almost all of us. It's therefore a bit tricky showing them off in public. For the most part wearing them under clothes is really really safe. Nobody ever notices, everyone else pretends not to notice. One in a million may comment on it, in that case they get a stern 'mind your own business'. Sitting on a crowded public beach in just a diaper without at least trying to be discreet is not such a good idea. Go find a nudist beach, or somewhere more private. Try turning up at that beach in your black leather bondage gear and see how quick you get arrested. Although people don't know it, you're getting the same satisfaction from your diapers. So if it's not isolated, don't do it. To 'normal' people it's as bad as sitting down on a beach naked. I really don't want to see saggy boobs, or some guys dick flapping around in the breeze thank you all the same. Everyone else doesn't want to see your soggy diaper either. Now, don't get me wrong. I understand the desire to stretch out on the sand in nothing but the diaper. I just don't think it's fair to inflict your sexual fetish on the public at large.