Selecting a brand of cloth diapers is often a case of simply finding ones that are available and that fit. At least, that has been the case for me. Personally, I like the ones available from Lovingcomfort.com. The problem is that the company has been unreliable. When I was your age, the 21x40 gauze baby diapers fit me quite well and worked very well when 2 or 3 layers were used. These are often available locally.
Plastic pants I get from angelfluff.com. I prefer their "Professional" model.
My experience is that cloth diapers work better at night than disposables. I'm a bed wetter and I tend to sleep on my side. Disposables don't have enough padding on the sides, so I often leak when I've tried using them at night. I also often change positions during the night. Unprotected disposables are often torn. So, some sort of elastic pants are needed to hold them in place.
The feeling while using cloth is not much different than using a disposable. Cloth diapers feel wet because the saturated cloth is in d,irect contact with the skin. Disposables have a protective layer next to the skin and the urine is captured in an absorbent layer below. So, they tend to feel dry until they get very wet.
Clean up is the biggest difference. Disposables you take off and throw away then clean yourself up. Cloth diapers need to rinsed out and stored until you do the laundry. Plus, you need to launder them within no more than five days or they can start to mildew.