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Interesting. The story doesn't describe a typical AB scene though, so I don't think it is true. But you never know. Is Brad Pitt on here? http://www.examiner.com/x-7494-LA-Gossip-E...ng-to-bodyguard "Mickey Brett, Brangelina's former bodyguard, has submitted a proposal for a tell-all book on some of his major clients. The most explosive details, however, are about Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. One can always debate whether or not the details are true, but I have seen the proposal and can reveal some very racy details. Mr. Brett recalls a time when he heard a lot of baby noises from the bedroom and it didn't sound like any of Branjelina's kids. Brad Pitt, wearing diapers and a baby bib, ran out of the room and into the bathroom despite having a bathroom in their bedroom, not realizing Mr. Brett was watching. Mr. Brett then assumed the baby sounds were just a recording. He hid behind the wall to hear some more and realized there was a third person in there. He heard another woman say, "I don't know if I am comfortable with this." But when Brad entered the room again, she was pretty much silenced. Then, he heard a lot of spanking going on followed by the recording being turned off. Suddenly, all three began to cry like babies until they climaxed. I don't know what to make of this. I can definitely imagine Angelina Jolie being involved in all this, but Brad Pitt? My image of him has just been destroyed! Please stay tuned to this column as I have more explosive details from Mickey Brett's proposed book." SDB

I usually do it a couple of times a year. I don't mind the mess. I enjoy doing it and thinking about it, but whenever I do it I get so submissive I get paranoid. Like the next day I think everyone is looking at me, it kind of freaks me out. But it is fun to pretend I poo my diapers... SDB

Just wanted to say you answered your own question by the definition. A fetish is an object that causes erotic response OR fixation. Not AND fixation. Therefore if you are fixated on diapers without having erotic response you still have a fetish. I agree the word fetish has become a derogatory term even though it shouldn't be. Liking diapers is a fetish, whether sexual or not. Being an AB would be a fetish plus infantilism, by definition only. SDB

Definitely one of the best ;-)

I saw the latest Boost Mobile commercial. It shows a guy in an adult sized baby carrier and he says things like "what you think being a man-baby is wrong?" and at the end he says "I also like breast milk too". Below is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LuKk0iC_4I SDB

The below story indicates why we all should not have any pictures of kids in diapers on our computers. While this man may not be a pedo, he had 23 pictures of underage children "in various states of dress including diapers". At the bottom of the article it said they found 23 questionable pictures and at the top of the article it says he is charged with 23 counts of abuse. It is better to have no pictures and a clear conscience. For those on this board who have such pictures, imagine if it was your name in print with 23 counts of abuse. It makes our community look bad as well as you. SDB http://www.gantdaily.com/news/43/ARTICLE/4...2009-03-19.html CLEARFIELD – A Texas man with a diaper fetish accused of downloading internet porn waived his right to a preliminary hearing on Wednesday. Bryan Park, 37 of Baytown, TX, is charged with 23 counts of sexual abuse of children. According to the affidavit of probable causes state police were made aware of Park on Oct. 28. police interviewed Park’s local roommate. The roommate said that he was downloading music from one of Park’s CDs when he found images. He told police that he did not want any part of it and that was why he called them. On Oct. 8 police spoke with Park at the barracks in Woodland. Park related to police that he was from Houston and that he was living in Tennessee before coming to Pennsylvania. He stated that he met his current roommate on a chat room and that he was asked to come to Pennsylvania. He said that he had been in Pennsylvania for about three weeks. According to the affidavit Park told police: “I have a fetish with diapers. The computer and CD are mine and I downloaded the pictures from … “I have been in counseling numerous times. I’m not interested in the pictures because of the children. I’m interested because I want to be a kid again. I have kept myself away from kids, because the lines are too confusing and I don’t want to put myself in a position to be alone with them.” Park gave police a written statement. On Oct. 7 police viewed some of the photos on Park’s computer and determined that the photographs were questionable. The computer and CDs were seized after Park signed a waiver of rights and consent to search. The computer was taken to the PSP Punxsutawney Computer Crime Unit for investigation. On Nov. 19 the computer was returned to the Clearfield barracks along with a report. Two DVDs accompanied the report as attachments. One DVD was found to contain music folders and files in an additional folder entitled “Stuff.” According to the affidavit that folder contained numerous photos of children various states of dress. It also reportedly contained numerous photos of children in diapers. A total of 23 photos were found, according to the report.

I got my Bambino's last night an am currently trying the sample quattro booster. It is really thick. I love it. I've been wetting them since this morning and it is now 3pm and there are no signs of leaking and it still feels dry. wow. SDB

Congrats on the marriage. Me and my wife waited till marriage to have sex and it was good and got better and better as we learned about each other. Don't worry about the baby powder. I use it sometimes in my diapers before we have sex. I actually prepare diapers with pre-sprinkled baby powder in it because it does disturb the rythym if you have to grab the powder and powder yourself while you are hot. So when I hand her my diaper it is already ready to put on me. If your wife is not aware about sex, she should clean up before sex and after sex and you should be clean before sex as well. It is cool to have sex after you wet a diaper, but it can easily cause a UTI. Peeing before sex in the potty helps clean the pipes as well to prevent a UTI. Keep with the dry diapers and it will be safer. One of the greatest things about marrying a virgin is that you are their only experience and they have nothing to compare it to. It is cool in that diapers are just a part of our sex life and to her that is completely normal. However I was not a virgin when I got married and I know without a doubt that married sex is much better and more sacred that just getting off with someone. Married sex is an important covenant and Christians understand that it is important that we get each other off as much as possible in any way that satisfies our partner. As a DL we have an added advantage in that we know how to have really good orgasms and we have the tools to do it, so you add a wife to the mix and it is fantastic. Have fun! SDB

That is great! What are the top 10 referrers? Did DD have new articles on the net point to it? Was there more direct hits from other sources? SDB

I admit I am a Bambino fan, but I question why someone would go to the Bambino section and say bad things about them. I am a cynic. It is like they work for another diaper company or something. I am just waiting for a "brand x" is better post. I have never seen it split. They are not low rise or thin as people complain. Just compare them to any other brand on the market today and you will see that the only diaper that is thicker by measure is the molicare and abena old style. Both both Molicare and Abena have their short-comings like drooping when super wet and tapes that fall off. I also question people who are too positive, like Adrian. Especially since you seem to have gotten the product before anyone else. It is almost as if you are working for them or advertising for them. The truth is, Bambino is better than any diaper on the market today and that is from someone who has tried them all in medium and large sizes. If it splits and is low rise you need to go up a size. There were some plastic issues in the past, but they have been corrected since receiving my latest batch. I look forward to the booster. I just hope they don't cost too much. SDB

I wrote my wife an email when we were dating and it really allowed me to explain myself fully. She is not someone who is inquisitive so I knew she would not ask the right questions. So I created a little FAQ section of the email and she got the total understanding of who I was, why I liked to wear diapers, and what that means to her. She has accepted it fully and I even married her because I knew she was the one. I wrote my mom a letter when I was in college and it explained to her how I liked to wear diapers and what they meant to me. I gave it to her and then drove home. I was nervous but she said she was ok with it since in my letter I told her how relaxed and normal they made me feel. She said she didn't agree with it but she knew I was different. When I would return for some weekends my mom would do my laundry including my onsies and footed pjs. Great mom. Both times things worked out. It is extremely hard for me to talk about diapers to non ABs because the issue is so personal. For me a letter was the only way. I told a therapist one time and nervous laughed the whole time. It is much better for some people to write your story than speak it. SDB

As a web developer I can tell you most users problems are a result of captcha reading (those squigly letters) and bad web design. For instance when you got bounced back was there a message about "this password requires one number, one letter, and one special character" or something like that. Usually it is web programming or out of the box programming that the site owner doesn't know how to tweak. As far as too many sites go I think there should be one other site in this diaper space - a location based, party planning site. I have too many sites I build so I don't have time, but I can see our community coming together with such a site. Anyone want to build it? SDB

It shouldn't be that either party has to change or give up anything. That is not marriage, that is siblings. You should not change your partner or change yourself because your partner does not like you(diapers excluded of course). Marriage is a win-win situation or a lose-lose situation. There are no winners and losers. What that means is if the husband or wife feels bad and upset about having to give up diapers because they "lost" the other party should feel bad because they have made their soulmate feel bad. That is a lose-lose situation. A win-win situation is when one party feels good that the other party is happy despite the unacceptance. If diapers4liz was completely honest she would admit that she lost, was forced to change herself, feels dismayed and that it does affect her husband who should feel bad if he knew the extent at what she gave up. It is a lose-lose situation and resentment is for sure there. Resentment leads to fighting and fighting leads to unhappiness. Life is much better in a win-win situation instead of a "change for the other person" mentality. SDB

The following image is probably the most popular diaper image on the net. It has become a cliche. All people see is a guy in a diaper and say it is sad and sick or very funny. We can fluff up our reasons why we wear and give perfect explanations, but the second anyone sees it, an image of us in diapers trumps all psychological reasons. http://www.ebaumsworld.com/pictures/view/1457/ Now people who go to BitterGrey's website notice one thing - there are no pictures of people wearing diapers. The reason is because the visual truth trumps the psychological truth. It is as if we all know we look silly so we ignore that fact to get people to accept it. But, if we wanted to be totally open like what some people suggest we need informational sites with pictures, showing the reality of being an ABDL. We can type "I like to wear diapers" all day, but we would never take a picture of us wearing diapers with our face showing. We are so far away from mainstream it makes sense. Let's just stay in the water closet. In a perfect world we would have a site that had 100s of normal AB/DLs wearing diapers and showing their face. That makes it real and that would make it easier for others to see that we are real people. I just don't see that happening. Our community is ashamed and that is it. The people who want to be free are going to have to actually be free, but should not expect all of us to jump in. Just some thoughts. SDB

Good Luck with all that. I think we as a community are so different from each other it is hard to quantify what makes us a community. The only thing might be just 2 words "into diapers". I would start with just that. Make a site that educates people about others who like diapers. If you do get specific you will have to include all facets of every detail so as not to exclude a representation. For instance, TB/AB/DL and the various degrees of sexuality and sensuality. I think it would have to be informative drill downs that people who want to learn more about a facet can drill down and learn. Maybe a wiki style site. I agree with what people are saying. Acceptance by ourselves should be first on the list before we expect anyone else to accept us. There are many people on many different points in this journey of liking diapers. That is why there are many different sites out there. There used to be some ones that are like what you describe. As a website designer ask yourself these questions: 1. Who is my target audience? 2. What message do I want to bring? 3. What demographic would find the site? Medical Professionals? Parents? Friends? The general public? 5. Is this an activist group that petitions places? What service makes this site stand out? 6. Does this provide education of facts or psychological opinions that can be disputed or both? and the big ones: 1. How much time and money will this take? 2. Can I make enough money to sustain and maintain the site? 3. How will I drive people to the site? When one looks at all the factors that go into keeping and maintaining a professional website, the topic of interest has to be something you are passionate about, something where you are willing to sacrifice time and money to get going. That is why many people start sites and never finish them. In the end they find that it is not worth the trouble to update it and then you have a site that dies over time. Think about it. SDB

Below is a story about an AB Nursery in the UK. If only these sprung up all over the place... http://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/4115640.Me...t_to_be_babies/ SDB

I got the new Bambinos and the press release is right. They are a little thicker and they work extremely well with the wicking. If I was incontinent I would love them because they do remove the pee from the skin rather quickly. However, from an AB/DL standpoint something was off just a little. It works too well. Say I am lying down, I like to pee and the pee runs down and settles in the bottom of the diaper. I like the wetting feeling. Well, with the new Bambino the pee gets absorbed so quick it doesn't have time to travel. It also bunches up near the balls because it always gets wicked there sitting and lying down. I also think they are more absorbant and it still wicks quickly even after 3 wettings. It is still the best diaper out there. I think I might just have to get used to it. This is probably the best diaper ever made. SDB

Wow, even Daily Diapers is talked about in this article. I know I greatly respect all that Heidi Lynn has done for our community. She gave us all a dream that maybe one day we would be able to walk out in freedom in broad daylight. I admire such a person. That kind of bravery is extremely rare. http://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/2009-02-05/...d-dead-in-home/ 3 Cheers for Heidi Lynn! SDB

Do the email thing, but don't get too graphic. Do it once every couple of weeks. You need to make her feel comfortable with you again. From what you say, to her you are now not the person she married. Make sure to remind her of all of your other qualities that she married. Imagine if the situation were reversed and she liked guys puking on her. What would you do? How would you process it? How would like that introduced in your life? Would it be fair for you to have her do that when you are not around? What if a partner is required? How much do you love her to sacrifice your own turn-offs? You have sprung something big on her and now your fantasies are taking over with just the thought of her accepting it so your fantasies are taking control. On the religion side, have her check out http://intodiapers.blogspot.com It goes into alot of the issues we go through. Your language makes me think you are not all that mature as a married couple and more of a boyfriend/girlfriend thing like most relationships. I think it is because you are so young. When you look back 10 years from now you will wonder why you couldn't explain yourself better and could've had your cake and ate it to. For instance I presented diapers to my wife before we were married. I presented it as a real need. I was honest with myself and did not pose as though it was no big deal. I need diapers to get off the best. I also need her. So combine the two and I have the best sex ever. Now I grab a diaper before we have sex and she pretends to put it on me before we have sex. Some nights she will rub me in my diaper after I rub her. Diapers are a tool for better sex, because when I am happy sexually she is happy sexually and vice versa. You are playing this all out like it is a game. Like you are worried about her telling other people. Like you have to compromise so you can get part of your way. The perspective is sure to end in disaster for both of you. She should want you to be happy and you should want her to be happy. So the problem is something much deeper than diapers. I sense a co-dependant relationship. One of you has an upper hand and lords it over the other and it sounds like her. There just seems to be lots of problems here. And standard Christians are not at all prepared to handle situations. Anything they don't deem as normal is grouped into sin, when in reality we are under a law of liberty. If you look for someone to condemn you you will find it. My advise. You are the expert on diapers. She should trust what you say about it. The only outside opinions her and you will get from vanillas will be "run". You just have to help her understand it better and as everyone is saying, Keep it SLOW. SDB

Here is my advice, Ok, you both have some problems. If you are married and love and acceptance is not a part of it then I advise seeking counseling. Her lack of acceptance is a symptom of not obeying the word of God. You want some fundamentalist advice here goes. The husband is supposed to love the wife to the point of sacrifice and the wife is supposed to submit to the husband to the point of going against her own desires. Read Ephesians 5. These actions are both mutually exclusive. Meaning you are suppose to sacrifice even if she doesn't submit and she is supposed to submit even if you don't sacrifice. The idea is that your marriage should end up being a representation of Jesus's sacrifice for the world. Because of the situation diapers are now a litmus test of your marriage. What is the outcome of this litmus test? The wife is not submitting or accepting and you are not sacrificing. As we mature as Christian men we learn that sacrifice is more important than our own comfort, especially when you have kids and have to give up things. If your wife was mature in her walk she would respond by being as accepting as she can. But since she is not and can't you have to lay down the diapers for her. But do not do it passive aggressively. Do it with her understanding exactly what you are doing and why. She needs to understand that you love her enough to sacrifice and you will be "dying to self" as a result of this. Do sacrifice as a result of love only, not bitterness or meanness. It is going to be one of the hardest things you ever do but it will make this situation a good representation of what a Christian marriage is like. SDB

Kreefun, Welcome to the boards! Vic, good post. I agree. It is usually shame and guilt that causes people to become disinterested in diapers. Disinterested is a light word, it should be disgusted. It is not that you are not interested in diapers any more, it is that you are not interested in getting off in diapers anymore, because you have released your tension and your brain is now in control instead of your pleasure centers. Somehow during your childhood you have associated sexual pleasure with morals, guilt and shame in some kind of fashion. Usually that is through society and peers because you don't see sexual pleasure as your own real part of your body, but something that is to be hidden from everyone. As I look back on my 33 years I can see that when I was in my teens and early 20s I did not know how pleasurable sexuality could be. I was just beginning to understand my own sexuality and had guilt and shame from it especially after the deed. It even stemmed further from the potty training brain washing most kids experienced - "big boys use the potty not diapers" was probably drilled into my subconscious. Now as I moved into my 20s I had gotten tired of guilt and shame and chose to accept diaper wearing as my main source of pleasure. I had to be realistic. I could not be the person I thought my parents and friends and society wanted me to be. I had to do what made me happy. And later on I was to learn that diapered sex with my wife would be more pleasurable than I ever could imagine. But I had to go through all of those steps to really put diapers in perspective. So my advice to you is to learn to be happy about liking diapers. Accept yourself. Guilt and shame is much more damaging than diapers ever will be. Learn to not be disinterested in diapers after the deed. Keep wearing them afterwords and maybe go further into the adult baby world with a stuffed animal and pacifier. Continue the fantasy, you won't be disappointed. SDB

Communication is very key here. I posted a list a while back of things I would like my wife to do with me while I am wearing diapers. One thing to remember is even though you may have an idea of what it is like to wear around your wife and in your head it is great there are always things that are much better in fantasy than in real life. For instance the idea of wearing around my wife all the time was a thrill, but after a while it becomes a "so what" kind of thing. I think one thing we married ABs forget is that our fantasies with our wife can be different in real life and we do not really know what we like in real life unless we try it. What I am trying to say is that I wouldn't put any rules in place until they are needed or desired by either party. Definitely communicate your desires, but with both of you in an open mind. Why not try everything before you decide what works? SDB

This all reminds me of the old newsgroup suggestion of wearing a diaper pin on the bottom of your jeans for our secret symbol. I remember I started looking around for people with one. The problem is, if you wear a shirt with a code on it people are going to ask what it means. If it is so obscure that no one cares then people may actually like it for its coolness and not know what it means. A solution for the problem of identifying another ab might be cell phone social networking app with location awareness. I am not sure about the specifics but I can imagine it is a way to bring people together with similiar interests in similiar locations. SDB

I missed it, but this is from youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TMWWKwDkr0 SDB