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This actually sounds dangerous. C Diff is a bad infection to have. It is commonly found in nursing homes where there are many poo accidents. EC ensures that accidents will happen thereby ensuring the likelihood of intestinal bacteria being spread like the plague. This belongs in the graveyard of bad ideas.

Sounds like you live in a house. If your main trash cans are out by the curb then you could walk by neighbors cans at night and put your trash bags in theirs. If they come out, tell them yours was full so you were looking for ones that weren't. If you want to use your trash cans tie the bags up tight, put them at the bottom under the other trash and spray some febreeze around the inside. I don't know many people who like to take big whiffs around trashcans anyways. Being gone for 2 weeks they might assume it got full from you cleaning everything before they got home.

So when you light the coke bottle doesn't the rim burn you? If the ladies are going to make comments behind your back you might as well ask them to let you know when your diapers are showing. At the same time bring up Oprah and how she taught you not to be embarrassed at a natural part of aging. Gotta be bold.

I use a stainless steel trashcan. The lid seals all the odors in.

Where can I watch this online? From the previews it looks pretty objective. SDB

They recently made the move "The Baby" instantly streaming on Netflix. It is a 70s B-rated horror movie about women that keep a man as a baby. It is kind of disturbing and funny at the same time. The 70s mumus and hair make it a classic. SDB

I am really shocked at how informed the author of this article is. I think people really can learn about us if they want to! SDB http://www.easttenne...04#.TydK1LEgfZc ____ Dear Sex Matters, I am a male college student here at ETSU with a fetish that is called infantilism. Among other things, it consists of wearing diapers, as well as the desire to be taken care of like a baby. Do you think it's weird for a college student to be wearing diapers for a fetish? How do I find others with this fetish? I mean, I know there's a whole community of us out there. Just wondering. Thanks, Diapered College Kid Dear Diapered College Kid, A fetish involves having a sexual, erotic response to an item or body part that is not inherently sexual. Some examples of fetishes are different body parts (feet, hair, etc.), clothes (dresses, stockings, etc.), materials (rubber, vinyl, etc.) and acts (submission/domination, voyeurism, exhibitionism). Really, the list is endless. Sexual desires and turn-ons vary extensively between people. A particular object or behavior might excite one person, might repulse another or might make another person feel nothing either way. Is it normal to have a diaper fetish? In general, fetishes are rather common and harmless, as long as they don't lead the person with the fetish to cause harm to another. Fetishes are a problem if the persons experiencing them feel distress. I'm noticing that you mention both infantilism and a diaper fetish. These are two separate fetishes, although often, they are connected. Both infantilism and a diaper fetish center around a core desire that almost always involves diapers. In a diaper fetish, it is the diaper itself that becomes arousing. In contrast, infantilism focuses on the self. So, the wearing of the diaper becomes an expression of a role. This roleplay may involve acting like and/or being treated as an infant, toddler or small child. With both diaper fetishism and infantilism, the emotional content of the fantasies are much more important that the actual diaper itself. Sex is not necessarily part of the role play, although on the other hand, sometimes it is. Those with infantilism tend to consider themselves adult babies (ABs). Those with diaper fetishes tend to consider themselves diaper lovers (DLs). Since many adult babies also enjoy the interests of DLs and visa versa, they are collectively called AB/DLs. Within the infantilist community, there are many different types of "baby" roles, props, roleplays, rituals and gender plays. Individuals may engage in gentle and nurturing experiences or be attracted to masochistic, coercive or punishing experiences. All of this is fine and good and healthy, as long as — and this is the key point — everything that happens with a partner is consensual. Infantilism is often misunderstood by the general public. There is some research that indicates that some forms of childhood emotional stress (usually occurring between the ages of 5 and 10) contribute to the development of infantilism and diaper fetishism. This stress usually takes the form of either an actual or perceived lack of nurturing or a failure of the parent to recognize and/or support the softer elements of a child's personality. It is, however, important to note that this is not always the case. Though commonly confused with pedophilia, infantilism is very different, and infantilists do not seek children as sexual partners. Infantilistic relationships are always adult to adult. How comfortable are you communicating your own fantasies and fetishes to a possible partner? People engaged in diaper fetish and infantilism are most often male and heterosexual, so however you define your own sexual orientation may present certain opportunities or challenges in finding a willing partner. There are many Internet communities serving AB/DLs, so this may be a good place to start reaching out to people to find others sharing your interests. When you do disclose your desires to a partner, how do you see yourself responding to his or her questions and reactions? Many people feel different pressures, have different moods and feel ambivalence about exploring certain sexual possibilities. Remember, a person doesn't need to explain or even understand why they're not into something; they can just say "stop" or "no." Saying "yes", saying "no," or saying "I'm not sure yet, I need to think about it," are all reasonable answers to any partner's request. It is important to acknowledge and support whatever response your partner gives. As humans, we are sexual beings. With a few particular exceptions, the needs and wants of AB/DLs are common to us all. We all want a relationship, we all want to have a safe place to express our sexuality, we all want acceptance, we all want to belong and we all want to have our unique needs met. Being an AB/DL certainly presents its challenges, as there are many cultural and social biases that make meeting others and accepting oneself more difficult; however, you are not alone. There are certainly thousands of others like yourself. Take the time to find your communities that provide safety and support for your preferences, practice the healthy relationship skills of good communication and consent, and know that the practice of infantilism can be healthy and healing if it is kept in balance with a person's adult functioning and responsibility. Questions in the Sex Matters column are answered by Rebecca Alexander, a licensed counselor with Outreach & Advocacy: Sexuality Information for Students (OASIS). Email your questions to oasis@etsu.edu.

Back in the day when I was 24/7 I fashioned some elastic belts from elastic straps I got at wal-mart. I tied them together in a knot and sometimes used safety pins to tie them together. What the elastic belts did was keep the diaper on tight even after I un-taped in the bathroom. It was great because I didn't have to worry about tapes or the diaper fitting. SDB

This is weird. The article says a clue that the guy was just pretending to hire a hitman with his dominatrix was the fact that he was wearing a diaper. I just don't know of any ABs or DLs that like to do the ole roleplay game "let's hire a hitman while wearing diapers" ;-) http://news.national...s-stay-charges/ SDB

This is a horrible article written by someone who is a liar and makes Stanley the straw man in an argument against ssd. I can't believe they publish this. http://www.ocregister.com/opinion/awareness-324288-day-giant.htm here it is again: http://www.nationalreview.com/articles/281570/adult-babies-mark-steyn sdbl

Here is an update. http://www.myfoxdfw.com/dpp/news/102011-teacher-gets-62-years-in-prison-for-molesting-girls PLANO, Texas - A former kindergarten teacher convicted of molesting his students was sentenced to 62 years in prison. Joseph Garbarini taught at Hunt Elementary School in Murphy. Prosecutors said he put diapers on two female students and touched them inappropriately on multiple occasions. Investigators said Garbarini was acting out a fetish which involved soiled diapers that police found waist deep in his Plano home. The former teacher must serve 52 years behind bars before he

Ok this is a weird case. I suppose a person with a diaper fetish could be violent, but I have never heard of that. It makes me think this story is kind of made up. Since he is dead I guess he can't testify on his own behalf. It is sad. It seems like she is trying to get a lesser sentence because he liked diapers. http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2011/09/19/howard-beach-woman-accused-of-killing-police-lieutenant-husband-takes-the-stand/ http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2011/09/20/sexual-fetish-at-issue-as-barbara-sheehan-testifies-in-her-murder-trial/ SDB This year has been filled with storied of diapers in the news. http://www.google.com/trends?q=diaper+fetish&ctab=0 Something tells me there are more of us than we think.

I have a news filter set up and it gives me the latest news related to diaper fetish and I post it here. The stories it finds are almost always related to this topic. The reason why I bother is because I believe these pedofiles who are also AB/DLs read these forums. I don't worry as much about the way the world sees us as I worry what some freaks who associate with us do too kids. My hope is that people will see the consequences of other peoples actions and choose to get help and not offend. Who knows? Maybe out there is a person who said to themselves,"What am I doing? I need help" when they read these news stories. SDB

They found him guilty today: http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/collin-county/headlines/20110823-jury-finds-former-kindergarten-teacher-guilty-of-abuse.ece

This time, this creeps lawyer is using his diaper fetish as an excuse to diaper kids. http://www.myfoxdfw.com/dpp/news/081611-Lawyer-Defends-Accused-Teacher%27s-Diaper-Fetish This hits too close to home as I live in this area. Now all my friends and family get it in their mind that an AB is some kind of pedo. There is such a big difference and the fact that this guys kinks are being used to blur the lines is wrong on so many levels. First, the press concentrated on this "revelation" that he had thousands of diapers at home. The whole cage thing I don't get either but to each his own. The real story is what did this guy actually do to these kids? He forced them to wear diapers and have pacifiers and maybe molested them. That is what they need to concentrate on. That is not AB behavior. That is sick and pedophilic behavior. Sure this guy is probably a sissy AB, but he also a pedophile. AB/DLs do not involve children in any way. If you involve children in any form, diapers or otherwise, you are a pedo. SDB

An excellent portrayal of Adult Babies. Riley is an AB hero and is very brave. I wonder what the after effects of this show will have on her life? That will be worthy of a show in itself. This year the ABs in the media have become very noticeable. I wonder how many people see it and go "hmm, I wonder what wearing a diaper feels like?" Our population may just get alot bigger ;-) SDB

So I went to the dentist the other day and was told that I grind my teeth in my sleep. I thought, great now I get to sleep with a big night gaurd. The dentist pulled out a small piece of moldable plastic and said that the new way was to just use the front teeth in the mold and that prevents the back teeth from hitting one another. Of course that small molded piece cost 75$. So I declined and figured sleeping with a paci could work as long as it stayed in. I tried it one night and woke up with it gone. The next night I tried another paci and found that it had stayed in and my jaw was not as sore in the morning. So if you ever need a medical excuse for paci use there it is. I do wonder if it is a choking hazard for adults though. Anyone know? SDB

Back when I was single I went to a Fetish Ball in Dallas. I dressed in a onesie and had a bottle with me. I met people and got some people telling me how cute I was. There were some girls there who said that their master put them in diapers and loved it when they checked them. Then one of them surprised me and actually put her finger in my diaper to check if I was wet. Being brave can have its positive effects. SDB

I wish I had that problem. You will eventually get used to being changed. I think the ice cube idea is good. Also, try thinking about washing dirty dishes. SDB

When I wear diapers to bed I am more sensitive and my personality is more soft the next day. When I don't wear diapers I am able to be stronger but am more abrasive. So I use that to my advantage. Say I have a big business meeting the next day I won't wear diapers at night and then I am more shrewd. Then if I have a date with my wife the next day I will wear the night before and be more sensitive to her needs. Diapers can be used to control my emotional state. I can see why there are alot of executives in diapers. SDB

I was in a similar situation when I was in college. I told my mom and she tried to be supportive. So when I came back home to visit she washed my footed pjs for me and a couple of times saw me wearing onesies when I would spend the night. I wore diapers alot back then and I was so very tired of worrying if she would notice. So I wrote her a letter and explained it. Now that I think about it back then I was glad I did it, however over the years things changed. Just like your parents still see you as a child my mom still saw me as an ABDL. I did not want to be defined by it. Back then I did, but when I finally accepted it all I didn't want people to call me the adult baby. I knew I was more than what my lifestyle was. Now, wearing diapers is an evening thing and I am not as out as I used to be. However, they all define me by diapers and bring it up whenever I see them. So you should think more about the future in dealing with your parents. These kind of things cannot be undone. SDB

I am in a similar situation as well with my wife with things other than diapers, like reading me a story or role-playing with me. Basically as far as sex goes 98% of the time I wear a diaper. Before I got married I explained it to her that diapers are what my libido uses to be greatly aroused. She could even tell the difference in my behavior while wearing or not wearing. Wearing one makes it better all around. I do make sure to pleasure her first and then she will pleasure me with a diaper. Now that we are trying to get pregnant there are moments when more than a diaper is a needed and she can see that I need help (sex every other day wears a 36 year old out:). So now she is reading and role playing more. It is great, but I do get the feeling a greater purpose is involved in catering to these desires than the actual fulfillment of my fantasies. However, I am ok with that. That is all sex stuff though. Lifestyle stuff is a different thing. Ever since I got married my AB side has diminished. I think because I was getting nurturing from my wife in different ways, like her making me dinner or doing the laundry. However, she does not care if I wear a diaper any time because I have shown how no one knows I am wearing. I just choose to wear them mostly at night because I am too busy to enjoy them during the day. I haven't got to the point of asking her to change me without conditions. If I did it would feel to me like I am demanding something from her, when all she does for me she does not do because of anything I say but because of her love. Negotiations are a different thing though. For instance a trick I hear alot is - do you want to walk the dog or sweep the floor? Really I can't win with that. One thing or the other. As for you I hear some co-dependency issues going on. It is not the diapers that are the problem. It is the conditions. It seems obvious to me that she knows that diapering is your key to happiness and she turns it whenever she wants something. But, over time she has found that you need more stimulation to do her will. I think as far as diapers go you are on the right track to getting alot of desires fulfilled. But as far as the marriage goes there doesn't seem to be an unconditional sacrifice going on, instead it is conditional. That is why it feels wrong. I think you need to show her what unconditional means and she may learn from your behavior. That means to do something for someone else without any benefit to yourself. Once you practice this it will change things. SDB

http://www.gadsdentimes.com/article/20110422/NEWS/110429913?p=1&tc=pg I think in all of these situations people need to know that normal ABDLs are not offenders. You can be a loving father, family provider and an ABDL. But it is only the troublemakers who are the ones who make the news. I think offenders probably have a low IQ and cannot separate reality from fantasy. In this situation it seems the guy is an AB and that disturbed the police. Usually it is just the DLs. Education is needed all around. sdb

Bad potty training was definitely what led me to being an ABDL. My mom continued to wipe me up until the age of 6. I was made fun of by my older sister. One night after I called to be wiped my mom came in and my dad was drunk and swore at me to wipe myself. Needless to say I was traumatized and no longer wanted to go to the potty. Had I been 2 or 3 I probably would have regressed. Since I was 6 I was old enough to know better so I held my desire to wear diapers all inside. I think of it like I was never fully potty trained and I still need to wear diapers. Over the years my fixation on diapers turned into a fetish which turned me into an adult baby. In the end I was at peace, but trauma in potty training can definitely cause unexpected results and turn people who have the tendency into an ABDL. SDB

The guys that did Mystery Science Theater 3000 do Rifftrax.com, a site where you play their mp3 over the DVD and listen to their funny comments. I swear one of them must be an AB. The Karate Kid 3 rifftrax is hilarious and it has a joke of Daniel being an Adult Baby. At the beginning the announcer was like "I am going to dress up like a baby and star in Karate Baby" "Ok I won't as long as I get to keep the diaper and bonnet." There are also some pants wetting jokes in the movie. http://www.rifftrax.com/rifftrax/karate-kid-part-iii SDB