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you know its just like going to the pharmacy to buy diapers .. 1st time , heart beating and cheek flushed .. sweat a little maybe .. 2nd time .. little bit of the same .. then 10th time .. yea sure whatever .. 20th time .. diapers and toothpaste, same thing.

Yea i could have had a sample that was fine and then order a case because they were great and still be fucked over. whatever. i didn't order those from XP medical, and the plastic bags DID NOT say drycare24/7 on them and they were not RED .. also, Gary from XP medical NEVER sent me e-mails telling me all his cases were like that, because after all, i NEVER ordered from his shop and my CC was NEVER billed from that company. grats, you're special. those diapers are junk. do you want pictures? calling me a liar and implying a lot of other stuff too like that.

totally over-hyped. those are NOT thicker than abenas xplus. they do NOT have a full leak guard, they stop right in the middle, xpmedical assured me this was consistent design... so far i have an entire bag worth across the case with torn backside, and there probably will be more as i have to discard 2 for every 1 that is in working condition... I wish some of you wouldnt have hyped it so much, wouldnt have been stuck with awful diapers

well after 2 months i had the opportunity to go to parties, work.. just my normal life .. leaks are always a danger looming but i figured i'd take the same approach i had with the whole thing: deal with it when it gets there. as for being outed .. 2 months of 24/7 and neither my step daughter or my high-school-friend-roommate have said anything .. which just re-inforces the idea that if they saw, they didn't care.. and even if they had, i think i would just shrug it off and move on.. after a while you kinda accept yourself you know? although i would rather not have to deal with it, for sure..

Well I've been mentioning it here and there, that i was creeping up toward the 2 months mark, but today is it! Now two months isn't much and I dont expect deeper changes for a few more months, but as far as becoming incontinent goes, i have been juggling with the thought for years. Then i came to realize that the best idea is written on those boards, that is, if you feel like you have to wear full time, just do it, take it day by day and dont go crazy about the future. Someone on this section said something like "you live the lifestyle long before living with the lifestyle" and its true. Daytime physical changes: i can tell that it takes a lot less for me to drink before i have to pee and when the urge hits, i could hold it but im obviously not going for that so i don't. So before wearing full time, i'd have a glass of water, then register that i'd have to pee soon and then just go whenever i was ready. this could take 5-10 minutes or longer if i needed. Now i get the urge to pee and usually let go within 20 seconds, sometimes its faster, sometimes i have to think to make it happen. Nothing involuntary yet. Also, I have not used my "clenching" muscle for the bladder in quite a while and it feels weird when i try to clench it as i'm writing this.. like i dont really have much power to it. Nighttime physical changes: I've been waking up wet every morning, concious or not. in the past 2 weeks however I've had more and more wet nights where I know for sure I have not awoken to relieve myself. Feels awesome everytime. I'm actually to the point where i dont really want to take a chance to stop wearing because dealing with the wet bed and a wet wife is just gonna be more embarassing than just keeping on wearing. any questions, go ahead!

been wearing for 2 months now .. still have daytime control but i find myself having 2-4 wet nights a week where im 100% sure i didn't wake up to pee, yet wake up wet. just wear and see where it takes you

It's so AWESOME that you have to MARRY INTO a healthcare plan to get proper care. EVERY country should work like that because it CLEARLY is the BEST way to go! I heard that Canada, the UK, Germany, France, Swede, Mexico, Cuba and all those other 3rd world countries ask how you're going to pay them before they give you services. All those countries above who are "stuck" with government care are ALL pushing to see it abolished because it is SO HORRIBLE. Ask anyone from those countries about how their doctors treat them like idiots and crazy people, you'll see, there's so many of them you wont have to look very far. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarcasm

is it really 10$ ? how long do you last with one of those compared to say, a 4$ J&J standard powder bottle?

Kilding that is a GREAT idea!

Reminded me of the king of the hill episode where he gets his driver license wrong hehe

I received my sample today .. the smell is really nice, and the print really is freakin cute and my wife loves it, but i'm borderline with their largest size.. so I can't really rely on this one for 24/7, which is really sad. If it works for you like an abena works for me, well you are in luck. I wish it would, because they're a great idea. it just didn't deliver for me.

lol at all those people that are lost because they can't read. @OP : Anything you can do to make someone feel better about themselves about this is great. since nobody read properly, I'll mention that you said YOUR GF WOULD TELL HER ABOUT YOUR PAST PROBLEMS. Which is great because then she doesn't have to let her know that she told you. Be careful about that btw.. act like you don't know anything about it until she comes to you with it.. or else your GF might be in trouble with her.

if you knew how to read you would have seen repaid1's post and figured out i was replying to him.

Of course this is political. Opinions of nations are created through education and tradition, which are both powers we bestow on governments. If the idea spreading around was homosexual freedom and love this guy wouldn't have reacted like his life was over, he could have just shrugged it off and figure a way to get even when them (by law, hopefully). But he was raised to believe he was wrong and disgusting, and so were his roommates, and they filmed it because they thought it was wrong and disgusting and he reacted on that. Before Luther King, people were raised to believe blacks were inferior and to segregate them. When he changed the government's view, the government itself took charge in reducing racism through various campains, and i hopefully can say the country is less racist now because of it, because the government changed its stance on the issue and educated its people to be less racist.

Actually man, i'm canadian. It's a lot easier to see what's going on from a 3rd party. But you probably never left your country, and you probably count on TV to tell you what is happening elsewhere in the world. You're not cool, Mr. American. Perhaps your mom shouldn't have told you that people that hate on you are just jealous so much. Nobody is jealous of you, the state you're in, it's pitiful, not enviable. I'd tell you to get a clue, but you'd probably just go buy the game at the store.

Well, the US likes to adopt policies of the likes of Turkey, North Korea, Iran (even if they really want to go to war, you're closer to Iranians than say, Britons) and other retarded conservative countries. In a way, the entire nation has been heading toward this since the 70's. Stop voting republican and stop encouraging churches. Those are 2 institution that encourage hatred to the highest levels. Saint Thomas Aquinas said it clearly: "Three things are necessary for the salvation of man: to know what he ought to believe; to know what he ought to desire; and to know what he ought to do." This is the mission the church gave itself, to stop you from deciding for yourself what you ought to believe in, desire and do. Those 2 institutions have decided that men has to believe homosexuality is a sin, and to desire it's end and act toward it's destruction. Vote intelligently in november.

IMO the best onesie you could find is the one you can make yourself to your exact specifications.. but since you're not out of size ranges like I am, I guess you can find something nice from a store.. Since I can't buy any clothes from stores i can't really say anything..

ill have to agree with daddy ant here .. get some proper diapers and you would have saved yourself this. Learn from it and start today and it wont happen again.. and avoid shorts in public while wearing

I had that problem b4 too.. first got the bed pad, which is really nice ..but without plastic pants you feel wet all over and its not really nice.. then i got some plastic pants and it got even better.. but still it wouldnt really help much for the sides because there's no padding there.. So what i do is that i take my old t-shirts with stains and whatnot that i cant wear in public cut it in half and fold it some and tuck it in the front so its like half a belt if you know what i mean ? its held in place because you tucked it in all the way along your sides and the plastic pants make it so it doesnt move during the night.. after that, no more problems with the leaks on the side !

same here .. been trying to find ways to control the leaks at night cuz i sleep on my side .. so i got around buying a pair and now there's no more problems ! and they feel really good too. definitely going to get some more

ordered mine thursday morning and got them yesterday.. and im in arizona they ship from ventura,ca got the email monday actually .. so.. dont worry

are you sure some of you are not jealous with the fact that they can live their fantasy without worry of what others think? Unless the guy is totally oblivious and has never been told that he was weird .. which he probably has, no way around that, he still does it so he doesnt care about what you think. I think thats cool. It is a fad tho and it looks kinda ridiculous hehe like Baby Sophie said .. i agree with that.

they could have just left AZ because well .. its not really open minded here, as you might have heard. Maybe they'll pop up in a different place later on!

Living without hearing is quite disturbing too.. i lost some when i had this ear infection thing .. i say some .. quite a lot.. Either way .. its all really bad .. 5 senses for the win ..

I bought a footed pj yesterday and a paci from pacifiersrus .. and some plastic pants from b4ns(my first ones!) cant wait to get them.. i had a paci before but i didnt take care of it good enough and it started to taste funny (nuk5) .. i wanted something a little bigger than the nuk5 but i couldnt find anything so i got another one anyway ..