diaperboy4life

I normally wear the Abena M4 but tried out betterdry this year and I am very pleased with them as well! My new favorite diaper combined with 2 stuffers = a good time lol.

There was a post not too long ago where someone did this with their L4. Maybe they will chime in. Myself however, I use a strip of Gorilla Tape over each of the bottom tapes of my BetterDry. Since I have been doing this I can get the bottom tapes really tight and secure, I have never had any issues with tapes coming off anymore

Love it, very similar to when I told my wife years ago. My wife was totally vanilla but now she loves seeing me wear my thick diapers Patience is key!

They are all around a good diaper. Up there with the other premium brands. The fit is very similar to rearz or bambino.

Any issues with leaks or bunching up from sitting and standing? I was thinking plastic pants and a onsie is probably a must for this

For the longest time I have always wanted to try ATV'ing or quadding while diapered. Has anyone tried this? Was it as awesome as I think it would be? Hopefully next year this will be a reality for me when I buy my ATV!

Like others here I also had a very hard time falling asleep while wearing a diaper. I feel like when I couldn't sleep it was because I was new to wearing diapers and it excited me, plus I wasn't used to the bulk. However I found overtime as I wore thicker diapers with boosters during the day, when I would wear just a diaper with no booster at night time it felt much thinner. Or I would read a book or something before bed to relax my mind. Now I have no problems sleeping at night diapered or not but I usually only wear at night if I have been drinking or am really stressed out. I like to let my skin breathe at night!

Thanks for the I have a 32' waist so I feel like larges might be too big. I would love to try the L4 Does anyone know the difference between BetterDry and Comficare? Is it the same diaper or is one better than the other...

Hey guys, I'm wondering if you all could recommend some brands where the padding comes up really high in the front. I've tried many different kinds but am constantly disappointed by how low the padding comes up. I'm not a fan of any of the rearz diapers for this reason. I think the best I've found so far has been the Abena M4 with a booster pulled up high. Any help would be appreciated!

I love that song! Also when I was younger I used to always wonder if they were ABDL too...

Great post, I will admit when I first got into wearing diapers often I was too nervous to go out and be seen in them. Now thanks to my wife I am getting out more while diapered. Some of my best time are outside while I was diapered. We went to a park late at night that no one would be at and bring blankets and pillows and lay down in the middle of the field. This often led to some fooling around and was a great time for both of us. It is also great to be padded when we go off roading and to the movies!

Like Smash said your best bet is probably fetlife. Any other ABDL that is actively looking for other ABDL's will most likely be there. Check out local munches

Absolutely, nothing takes the stress away like a nice fat toke and a nice thick diaper! Thank goodness it's finally legal.

I've tried everything and I keep coming back to the Abena M4. I like how it doesn't have that plastic landing zone and the padding comes up higher in the front than most. Combined with an abri-let booster I find this to be the comfiest diaper ever. Especially when "pointed up" which makes for fun play time with the wife!

Someone can correct me if I'm wrong but besides talc power being bad for the lady parts I also heard its not great to get talc powder up the rectum either... that being said my wife buys me the Johnsons baby powder made with cornstarch but it also has aloe and vitamin E. It smells great, keeps my skin nice and dry...until I pee lol. The trick is with baby powder not to add too much because it just turns to paste when you pee. I find what works best is when I unfold the diaper and lay it out onto the bed I just sprinkle a little bit all over the diaper before diapering up.

Like others have said getting rid of stuff is important. I've moved a few times and one time I ended up having way too many diapers before it was time to move. I didn't want to throw any away so I had to take extreme measures from keeping them away from family/friends helping me move. My advice... let the stash run out before its time to move and then order more when you get to your new place.

Hey there, just wondering if there are any other ABDL's in the Abbotsford or fraser valley area. I know its a long shot but I'm looking for ABDL friends close to me. Cheers!

What is it about the Tena Slip Active Fits that you love so much? That they are medical brand plastic diapers? If you are looking for medical diapers that are not super thick like ABDL diapers I would try Molicare Super Plus, iD Expert Slip Maxi and my personal favorite the Abena M4.

My everyday diaper is the Abena M4 with a large Abena booster pad. They are very cheap compared to other diapers and fit me perfectly. I usually reinforce the bottom two tapes with a small strip of black gorilla tape just so I know for sure that they won't pop off. At home I use the same combo but with 2 or 3 large boosters instead of 1.

I'm married and my wife supports me wearing diapers but as far as messing goes I keep that away from her and only do it when I know I am going to be home alone. We're still very young though, so I feel like that could change. She's so accepting and open to this lifestyle but I am too chicken to talk about messing. For now I just pee because I know she has no problem with me in a wet diaper :/

Lots of good advice here! I had a very hard time telling my wife about being an ABDL while we were dating. Mostly because I was so embarrassed, I had never opened up to a girl about this before and you never know how a person is going to react to this. However when I told her, even though she was totally vanilla she was amazing about it too and she was like, "really? that's all?" it didn't even phase her! She didn't care at all. I was so surprised, I felt paranoid and thought maybe shes just saying that so I don't get upset with how she really feels. So I talked with her some more about it and she really encouraged me to start wearing! I'll never forget our first diaper date. She told me to go put one on and my heart started racing! I grabbed the thickest diaper I had and even threw a booster inside. We had planned on going for a drive and looking at the stars at night, but as we were driving she told me to stop at the liquor store. My heart started to race again, I said to her I couldn't go inside because someone would surely notice my diaper. She laughed, grabbed my crotch and said come on diaperboy no one will notice! Before I knew what was happening I was walking into the store and could feel my diaper with every step I took. I was extremely nervous and paranoid but the look on my girlfriends face was totally calm and it was like just another trip to her. I bought some beer and got her some of her favorite coolers and we drove to one of our favorite spots in the country. We grabbed a few blankets and pillows and cuddled up in the field and watched the stars. I couldn't believe how nice it was. I wasn't expecting anything to happen but she starts to kiss me and feel my diaper. She could tell how nervous I was and asked what's wrong? I told her I had to pee so badly and I was nervous what she might think of me and she just smiled, told me to relax and pee. I had such a hard time but eventually relaxed and had absolutely soaked my diaper. I was so embarrassed as this was the first time she'd ever seen me like this. She pushed me down and we made out some more and then she realized how hard this made me! Long story short this was the first time my wife ever made me cum in a diaper lol. One of the best nights of my life. She was worn a few times for me but I realize its not really her thing so I am just happy that she accepts and supports me wearing them all the time. Just go slow and see how she feels, don't try and push her to wear but let her know how hot you think it is and maybe she will surprise you!

Well you are defiantly not alone, I have the same problem too when I am drinking heavily, and I use the same setup as you. Confidry 24/7 and 2 full size abri-let boosters and that is a very thick diaper! The reason we leak is because of gravity

Thank you all so much for your replies, you guys have really helped me calm down a bit. I really hope I'm just overreacting

I am 21 years old and I live on the top floor of my apartment building by myself. For the most part it is pretty quiet and I can't hear the other residents except for the person who lives below me. Yesterday I was out on the patio cleaning out my cats litter box when I overhear the person below me talking. I am not 100% sure that I heard him correctly but it sounded to me like he was talking to someone about how I wear diapers and masturbate in them... I then hear people laughing, I hear one person say "that's so f*cked up!" and I

I live in Abbotsford, if anyone is close and wants to talk send me a pm