PaddedMedic

Such a good feeling being able to get that weight of your chest eh? I'm impressed you were able to do it after a year or so, it took my 5 years! Lol Even outside the kink finding someone who understands your needs and accepts you for you is amazing! Happy holidays!

Hey all! Just wondering if there is any abdls around the area looking to make friends/chat. Seems everyone is more south.

Hey all! So I have been enjoying my crinklz astronauts recently (probably my second favourite print on a diaper to date!) But have found that there could be a little more room in the leg guards. I have pretty big muscular thighs that just seem to eat them lol. I dont carry much weight in the front but definitely have larger than most thighs and glutes and would like a diaper that covered my inner thighs a little better ( for 1 and 2). Anyone have this issue and have any suggestions? Thanks!

Pooped while cuddling my wife on the couch last night. She sniffed the air, patted my bum and asked if I had pooped my diaper. I told her yes sheepishly, she proceeded to called me a good boy. We happily continued watching tv after

I would suggest telling your wife. I know for my own experience that the feeling will come in waves and always return. I found that being confident and honest with my wife has worked out better than I could have imagined. Just remeber that this is your kink. Even if she is accepting of it she may not herself be turned on by it. Just remeber to invest time into her needs and wants. If you take care of her, she (will hopefully) take care of your needs. Take it slow. It may seem easier to want to just drop it but the feelings will more than likely not just disappear. And you may find yourself in an unhealthy binge purge cycle that wont help the situation. I think that before you get married it will be a good idea to be honest with her, dont make it a huge deal and she wont. Going into a marriage with secrets doesnt sounds like a good idea. If you are confident enough that she is the person you will be with for the rest of your life, trust that she will support you in your needs.

I was playing catan with my wife the other night in nothing but a diaper and black t shirt. I wet a couple times and then filled my diaper with a nice warm mess. We kept playing (I won!) And then when and got changed and fooled around.

Isnt that that truth! Ah thank you so much for sharing your experince! I cant believe how similar of a reaction your wife had to mine. Literally down to the, "really, thats all?" Remark. She has really been encouraging me to bring the diaper topic up more because she doesnt always think to talk about and knows when im fishing to bring it up. Today at lunch I looked at her and said "guess what?" And she look at me with the most seductive smile and said, "are you wearing a diaper? ;)" I always melt when she has this reaction to my kink (I wasn't though). If you guys are at interested in following my adventures, I will be attempting to wear with her for the first time (just got a bit gitty saying that) on wednesday! We've kind of talked about it and im not just going to surprise her with it but i have an idea pf whats going to go down. I will let you fine gems know how it goes! Wish me luck!!

That must have been such a bonding experience! I would love to be with her for her first timw trying it. The caviatte (spelling? Lol) is that my wife has pretty bad anxiety. She is worried that if we do it together that it might get overwhelming and she doesnt want to 'ruin' our first experience together (i would NEVER look at it that way though, as anxiety isnt fully in her control). I do love this and will definitely consider it! I like the thought of getting to 'guide' her and show her why i love this so much.

This is very simillar to the dynamic me and my wife share! Id really love to get to where you and your SO are (in our own way of course). I am still dumbfounded by how accepting she is; often times me being the more bashful one when approaching the subject (which I am working on). She knows I like to wet and mess my diaper (not so much an ab as a dl) and has said many time that talking about it really excits her. We decided that rather than me introducing the diapers that i would let her explore them on her own, hopefully finding the same excitment and joy as I and all of us have. This reply really struck a cord with me. Thank you very much for your reply! I wish you and yours all the best

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Hey all! I was wondering if there were any other here that have introduced diapers into thers relationships/marriage and would be willing to empart some advice. I brought up this side of myself to my wife about 6 months ago and she has been so amazing about it all. We have taken it slow as far as introducing to the bedroom (dirty talk/fantisies) but havent involved diapers yet. I have them... both for myself and her. She is excited by the idea of wearing, but just hasn't been in the right head space to explore this new world herself. We talked about it and she would like to try wearing by herself first to get the gitters out. She does have depression and has recently started a new job which isnt helping get in the mood but we are getting there. She also knows I wear, and likes to joke and poke-fun in a playful way (which I die for). I would love to hear some stories and experiences from others introducing their kink to a "vanilla" partner. Feel free to pm me

Hello everyone! Been coming here for a while and finally decided to make a profile and maybe reach out to the community. I have been a dl for a number of years now and have very recently started exploring this side of me with my wife (very supportive). Figured I could trade some experiences and get some advice from those who have trotted this path before me. Very friendly! :) reach out, I don't bite!