I don't separate the two. The only time this ever becomes difficult is when I'm at work, usually after a very affectionate night. Today, for example, I got to work and within a half hour I was hugging myself and wanting to be back home being showered with affection by my Daddy, put in my diapers and jammies and snuggle on his lap watching Sofia the First. I begged him on Facebook for permission to leave, but he told me I had to be a big girl and stay. Like anytime this happens, the feeling does pass and I'm able to go about my day like normal. For the most part, I will be like I am right now, at my computer, and then like the flip of a switch, I get the urge to cuddle and suck on my paci and put on a diaper with the possibility of wetting it. There's no real trigger to it. It just happens when it does.