Forced2wet

You could always introduce vanilla G/Fs to the lifestyle rather than try to find a female already into it

Great story. Hopefully we’ll get to hear more of your ‘adventures’

Laying in bed drinking Strawberry milk and eating post Christmas biscuits whilst watching the darts on TV

Long post.....sorry! I’d normally start the thread with an “advice please” request but I think most people will listen (read) what other people advise but generally do what they want to do anyway. So, it would be great to hear your opinions especially if you have been through something similar with a partner. A couple of background things first, I would say I’m predominantly a DL and as my board name suggests I like to have someone take control, force me into nappies and make me use them. I have had three long term partners join in with my kink with varying degrees of success. I have always enjoyed the thought of having a strong woman take charge and she’d decide to dress me in diapers for her ‘pleasure’ My current G/F knew all about my kink prior to us getting together and in the early years, when we first lived together, did her best to join in with my fantasies. Over time this has dropped off massively and these days, when I do wear (about once a fortnight) I tend to dress and change myself. This then appears to put a strain on the relationship, whilst she never openly complains about me putting on a nappy, she goes very cold, which in turn makes me distance myself from her and the amount of time we would normally spend together lessens. Further info and question. We have a good sex life (I think) although that again has slowed down due to our age and privacy issues. (We live in an old semi detached farm workers cottage and the walls are paper thin) During our intimate time my G/F prefers to take a passive role, she likes me to dominate, she really enjoys light bondage and for me to be in charge of her orgasms, verbally telling her when she can cum. She loves to be told she’s a “good girl” when she climaxes and does what she’s told to do. Her natural default is to prefer to be under control rather than in control. I have the advantage of being able to switch between the two which I think she struggles with. It has occurred to me that maybe her drop off with my DL kink is because she’d like her type of involvement to change. Recently I have been toying with the idea of, during one of our light bondage sessions, whilst she is tied to the bed and blindfolded, slipping a disposable under her bum and taping her up and adding a pair of snap on plastic pants. I’m thinking of keeping her there until she wets the nappy and using a magic wand vibrator to make her climax in her damp disposable. Taking her enjoyment of being my good girl to another level. TBH, I have never previously thought about putting a partner in a diaper, as I said above, it’s always been about someone making me wear and wet. But I’m starting to think that it might be quite exciting and add another side to our relationship. And if it turns out that it’s not something she enjoys I will at least be able to show her how I would like to be treated by her. I should at this point add that before we moved in together she put on a disposable from my stash at her house (whilst I wasn’t there) and wet it to see what it was like and why I enjoyed doing it so much. Has anyone been through something similar? It would be good to hear members opinions on whether the above is a good idea or not.

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For me it was 24/7s Living in the UK I was always interested when you American folk used to talk about the thick and absorbent disposable diapers being the ‘best’ A number of years ago someone on one of the ABDL sites bought some back with him from a trip to the USA and offered some to me to buy. I jumped at the chance but was really disappointed when I tried them. They were very thick (certainly against the M4s & Ultras) I was wearing at the time but I struggled with the sizing, the mediums seemed to be a lot bigger than the M4s.

Thank you for all your replies. I assume that the inner disposable is perforated with small holes and only when it has reached capacity it leaks into the outer disposable. Thus meaning both will be used rather than wasted

I often read about DD members doubling up their diapers and wearing two at the same time. I have never tried this but quite like the idea of the additional bulk as I like thick disposable nappies. For those that have tried it Do you wear a smaller size ( say medium) underneath a large size disposable or can they both be the same size? Do you put holes in the the first disposable so the pee flows into the second one or do you just allow the first to leak into the second? I currently tend to wet my disposables until overflowing point and would try the same with double diapers.

Initially when myself and my g/f got together she would decide when I was going to be put in nappies and take care of all my changes. She would ask me whether I was wet and needed a change which, at the time, I didn’t really enjoy, I always wanted her to check me without asking and decide herself when I needed a fresh nappy. Theae days, a number of years down the line, she takes very little part in my nappy wearing. I think she has changed me twice during this pandemic (although I don’t wear very often) and one of those was for a ‘birthday treat’ I understand it’s quite common for partners who initially take an active part in their OHs ABDL kink to eventually lose interest . I now remember the days when she’d ask me if I needed a change with some fondness lol

Mine’s pretty standard, Sexy woman (or even better two) force me into a nappy & plastic pants and encourage me too wet it. From that point I’m kept in padding and any changes are done by the ladies with a ‘milking’ every time.

Here in the UK at 2.50am Saturday morning (5/12) the Horror Channel are showing a film called Attack of the Adult Babies. The description is ‘Satirical horror from Dominic Brunt. When two teenagers break into an isolated mansion, they discover a group of wealthy men who dress as babies and have their perverse whims catered to (2017)’ Has anyone seen the film? Any good?

I used to love Comfy Care nappies, they were never the same as Better Dry.

I went through a phase where I wore MyDiaper disposables a lot, my OH liked the look of them (mainly the plain white ones) and they are comparatively cheap for a high absorbent nappy. I think Save Express still have the occasional sale on them. I remember being impressed with both Fabine nappies I tried but whenever I went to reorder they always seemed to be sold out. TBH once I tried the Bambino’s I never thought of returning to either Fabine, plus I think that 8 disposables in a pack is not enough........especially for the money. The Camelot’s for me are the best disposable I’ve worn. I like the tape fixings and they really get bulky after a few wettings. It’ll be interesting to see whether the other big brands bring out their own versions to complete with the absorbency of Tykables new product. I can’t see myself moving on from Camelot’s if they don’t ?

These are the nappies/diapers I’ve tried since I realised I liked wearing and wetting. I do my best to leave 1 disposable from each pack to remember my ‘journey’ (in order) Bath Towel (under carrier bag) Blue Molicare Mobility pull up Tena Stuffers Lille Tena Max M4 24/7 Cartoon front Comfy care Better dry MyDiaper night Sexy adult diaper night MyDiaper Animals MyDiaper pink MyDiaper colour MyDiaper yellow Lil Squirts Rearz Safari Rearz Barnyard Rearz Princess pink Crinklz Bambino Classico Bambino Teddy Bambino Bellissimo Littleforbig Little Dreamers Littleforbig baby cuties Fabine Teddy pink Fabine Megaboost blue Dotty the Pony pink Rearz Alpaca Bunnyhopps ABU Barebum Tykables overnight Tykables little Rawrs Tykables Camelot

Tykables Camelot under frilly plastic pants, already wet but I think it’ll make it through the night

Living in the UK, there are a few disposables that friends from the States have mentioned that I’d like to try. Unfortunately some of the nappies/diapers are not sold here. The last (Available) disposable I wanted to try was the new Tykables Camelot. After buying some from NappiesRUs they are now my favourite ?

I like the disposable nappy I’m in to be as thick as possible, as well as wearing plastic pants over the top. Both of which means that I’ll wear my nappy until it leaks slightly and then I get a change.

I used a photo that wasn’t me but very similar looking. When I was contacted I explained because of my admission in my profile I didn’t use a personal pic. Those that I worked out were genuine got to see the real me

No worries. I’m sure there are many wise heads here who have been through the same thing who will also be able to give you some good advice. Good luck

Hi, Sorry to hear of your problem, I think it’s something that many of us go through. I myself was in the same position as you, I hated not being honest with my wife who like you, was my one and only, and I asked for online advice from other people. I eventually had the conversation with my because certain circumstances meant that I had to. I was honest about this thing and it’s history and as hard as I had tried it unfortunately wasn’t going away. Once I told her the information she took time to process it and eventually because of the young children in the house she asked me to restrict my wearing to the privacy of our bedroom. I think that she could see that the occasional wearing of a nappy actually helped me as a person and my mental health and as a result the relationship really improved. Originally she didn’t want to get involved but soon actually began to enjoy the intimacy and closeness we had when she gave it a go joining in as a caretaker. It also gave me the opportunity to ask my wife if there was anything she secretly desired so that I might be able to join in with. I’m sure she loves you as much as you love her and I hope she will see that allowing you to wear is no big deal in the grand scheme of things. If it helps and your wife needs to ‘talk’ to someone who’s been in the same position please get her to PM and I will give her my OHs DD account so she can speak to her and ask any questions she may have. Good luck

I regularly wear thick disposables under my cycling shorts whilst out on my bike. It feels like you’re sitting on a cushion

This is the message I put and was inundated with women asking to meet me and tell me how how brave I was being honest. ******* "Now is the time to get things right" Since people are going to be living longer and getting older, they'll just have to learn how to be babies longer.- Andy Warhol Hi there, if Del Boy can find love using computer dating then I thought I'd give it a go..........I mean, even trigger got a date! I like to think I'm a regular guy, content with most areas of my life and would like to meet 'the one' BUT! As I'm looking for a long term partner I think it's only fair that I also explain something else so that no one wastes their time. I am an occasional AB/DL Paraphilic infantilism - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism This DOES NOT have anything to do with children!!!!!!! I sometimes enjoy, in the privacy of my home, dressing in nappies and wetting them, I have been able to do this for years without affecting the other areas of my working and social life, I have a very good job and great relationships with all my children, and the AB/DL fetish is only a very very small (But very important) part of my life. As I said earlier it's occasional and I don't need changing every few hours of everyday! For the major part of my life I'm all man, very physical, sharing chores around the home, fiercely protective and enjoy providing for my loved ones. Please only send me/reply to a message if you are the kind of person who would/could accept this unusual behaviour. (Cos believe me I have tried to get rid of it over the years and it keeps coming back lol) If you still harbour maternal instincts or have previous experience in dealing with AB/DLs (there's more about than you expect judging by the online forums/message boards) you'll know that the bond between 'Mommy and baby' can be a wonderful close experience and I hope only add to a loving long term relationship. ********

Yes is the short answer. I was completely honest in my profile bio on POF when I was on there.

Welcome to another UK member. Always worn for pleasure rather than need. Enjoy your time here

When I brush my teeth I always get the urge to urinate, even if I have just emptied my bladder