Loveable_guy

Fetlife is great but its no equal to DD.

WOW, reading all this is like looking at my own life. OZNL; love your comment 'my body's "system" was becoming quite unreliable even before permanent nappies' I'm ten years plus your age and you are so right. Even with mechanical help it can let me down sometimes. MindyLou; can't say what will happen for you but my partner is the same 67 as me and her sex drive grown much better after menopause. Its me that failing now. Oh and you are so right when you say 'Marriage is all about compromise'. The more you put in to a relationship the more you will likely get from it. I say likely as there were years that left me wondering why I was staying around and I'm sure she could say the same. As for my love of wearing she tolerates me but sex is off the table if she finds me diapered. So as a rule I generally wear in the mornings or during the day and leave the evenings for that chance opportunity that may happen. Oh and clean saving is a must for keeping things clean and odor free.

I don't mind the crinkle my self. The wife is somewhat hard of hearing but strangely she can hear a diaper crinkle very clearly. Must be the frequency of the sound. Yea she is aware and normally will call out 'Diaper boy' when she notices the crinkle.

Hey when you lock you accounts make sure to save the pin numbers in a safe place. Should you need to unlock at a later time you will need the pin.

As mentioned by cathdiap, an open cath in a diaper is a no-no. A one way valve is the best solution, I once used a thin balloon used to make animals figures a one way valve. Sliding one end on the cath discharge and cutting the end off the other. This allowed fluids to escape but would collapse on itself easily preventing a back-flow. Not medically recommended but it worked for me.

oh hell yea, Love a good estim session while diapered. I wear a conductive ring around the base with a copper wire cap with a #8 wire probe, The probe is about 1.125" in length and nicely rounded and polished. To keep the electrons flowing and not shorting out in the wet diaper I wear a condom with the tip cut off. This insulates things while allowing the wetting to continue and the electrons flowing. For me it allows combining the best of both while allowing a nice long session. Nothing like a trip to the home center all the while wetting your diaper and being stimulated. My sessions will last for hours this way all the while turning up the juice.

I've done it using a tunnel plug. I had more problems holding the plug in than I figured I would or should have. Size issue for me, too small and it falls out too large and its uncomfortable. Things are normally soft and messy for me back there. It was a really a strange feeling filling my diaper with totally no control.

My wife got hers last week. Last time I received half of what she did about two moths afterwards. In all honesty because neither of have missed a days work throughout this pandemic we should not receive any stimulus payments.The payments should be directed only to those out of work or below poverty line based o your 2019 tax return. I wouldn't know who to complain to so oh well.

somebodysworld; This was posted years back but its good that you re-posted this after loosing so much information with the board crash. Funny how the real life product resembles some of our ideas. I could just see a grand child visiting and taking the magnetic for some other playful needs while grand dad doubles over with bladder pain from not being able to release.

Search for a penis clamp or take a 8" piece if 1/4" silicone rubber tubing and two 3" sticks of something that will fit inside the rubber tube. Bic Pens work well. Use an O ring to clamp one end closed while the other end makes up the hinge end. Works like a champ for about $1.

Sarah the longer you leave it in place the less you will notice it. Same goes with the discomfort after removal. The more you do it the less it bothers you. The exception to the rule is if you go long periods between play time, like three months. Then its like all new again.

Sandiaper, it would be great if you posted step by step instructions on your stent constructions. Especially the release you are using. Looks interesting. I'm sure many of us wold like to know more about your design.

I've had BM accidents while diapered several times.More than once I hit a fast food place to change knowing the diaper was not going to hold it all. Got tired of it and consulted with my doc. Turns out without a Gallbladder the bile produced causes water sometimes burning bowels. One medication a day and I'm mostly fixed and yes I wanted this.

DiaperDisguise:You had no prior warning to the approaching UTI? I normally have a frequent urge to pee followed by cloudy urine. For me this is a warning sign to get started on the cranberry juice and if necessary some meds. Drowning yourself with fluids helps too. As you experienced a UTI is nothing to play with. Glad you are recovering.

I ordered some diaps at Amazon the package was lost in shipment.Amazon refunded the cost so I reordered. Yes deliveries are taking longer.

babypony, there is plenty of good information posted here and elsewhere. Read up, experiment on your own. Ask questions. This is not a switch you can turn on overnight. It takes time to learn most importantly learn about yourself. It is unlikely anyone is going to make your the equivalent of a medical device that could do you harm if misused. Good luck and play safe!

What works for me may not for you. When selecting Cranberry juice chose the natural no sugar added. I have used it for years. Most times it has flushed a mild UTI when caught early. Now a days whenever using a catheter or stent I start the cranberry juice before the playtime. There is no substitute for safe clean play but the juice has worked for me.

Drink more fluids. Cranberry juice is good for preventing a UTI. Alcohol and coffee are not your friends. Eating asparagus is good for us but will leave your urine smelly for 24 hours.

Try using KY lube to file the bulb. The heaver solution says put better for me in the bulb and if it should leak its a sterile product. I use a syringe with a blunt tip needle to fill from the cut end and then plug with a piece of nylon cord tapered to fit.

The 5.5" length has worked out best for me also. Largest for me has been the 16FR but I will order some 18 and 20FR on my next order.

Not likely you got a UTI from a back flow valve unless the valve was dirty.

Princes, I agree with Old_PA on the knots in nylon fishing string. However you can purchase a braided line in the fishing department with a 10LB test. The line is very thin and will hold a knot well. I use a sewing needle with this line to sew the line in to my stents. One other thing you may want to look in to is a screw protector or cap available at the Lowes or Depot https://www.lowes.com/pd/Hillman-4-Pack-0-25-x-0-5-White-Plastic-Screw-Protectors/3012672. The caps are available is few different sizes. Using a leather punch I punch a hole in the end of the cap. After making my knots the cap covers the catheter end nicely and hides any knots. The cap also provide a nice smooth end. I don't want to rain on your parade but remember hospitals are not the place to be visiting now a days so play safe

If you haven't tried the 'Holey Foley" this is a good place to start.

WOW, You go girl go. very nice idea. What did you use to fill the balloon. I found KY lubricant to slow down the leak a great deal. The thicker substance worked better that water. Are you removing the excess cath past the chrome ring. In my version I'm adding only 1-2 CC or fill and slowly working a 5.5" cut and plugged stent in to place. There is a pull line for removal. I have to say I'm very impressed with your design and willingness to try new things. Love it all!

There have been many ladies on here and over at Fetlife looking for the female version of a stent. If you have something working for you I'd love to hear more about it. A photo of the device would be good too. PS, love your avatar photo too.