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I think that depends on the person and the relationship. Your boyfriend might be quite willing to compromise and he might think that's very fair. Personally I wouldn't like that proposition but that's because for me it's solely a bedroom thing and that's really the only time I partake. When I was younger I wore a lot more now it's really rare and I prefer it for bedroom activity. I suggest you ask your boyfriend what he thinks and keep the communication lines open. I think some questions you have for people on here are also appropriate to ask your boyfriend. You two seem like you have a good relationship and you seem like a very good, understanding individual. I wish you the best.

lol @ David Vitter. I'm not sure if he was actually put in diapers by a hooker I have a hunch that was just a rumor. Regardless that was a bad scandal and he's lucky that Louisiana is so used to having corrupt public officials he was able to get re-elected. Otherwise you're right it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things what anyone does in their own private lives even if some fruit loops that make headlines and make places like this look bad. The worst thing about it is if you're trying to meet someone to share your life with and getting them to accommodate this part of you. If they read anything about these creeps that keep going to jail it never helps.

The poll is ambiguous since for most people I think it varies. Especially maybe those of us like myself that tend to have iron bladders and we put off the need to go for a certain amount of time.

Thanks for the perspectives and ideas to those who contributed good advice. I have been able to get to know this girl and just talking to her and getting to know her better. I think things will go more smoothly this time since we'll be more comfortable and we'll know each other better. I'm also abstaining from all sex activities for a few days it will be worth it when the time comes to go back to the bedroom.

Last weekend I was fortunate enough to meet up with a girl that I met on the internet who is a mommy. She babied me,mommied me, cleaned me up, diapered me,etc. I got everything I wanted that in the past has turned me on. It should have been a time where I was completely satisfied as all of my sexual fantasies were taken care of. The catch is that it wasn't. I basically had no libido, she tried even tried to give me a hand but nothing happened. I felt like an old man that should have been in a viagra commercial. I had fun but I wasn't feeling anything. As a result I'm afraid I've developed a complex in my mind which is now causing anxiety and now I don't know what to do because I need this to stop. I'm also trying to wean myself off of SSRI's which could also be a culprit and I think that will help. My question is has anyone been through this kind of anxiety before and if so how do you make it go away?

I wouldn't do that..

I think that's how parents should be handling the process in my opinion. Although I was treated the exact same way and eventually I grew out of physically needing to wear diapers but emotionally I was not. I still remember when I was about five and I no longer wet the bed and toilet trained not too long before that. I still remember not long after I was out of them fulltime asking my mom to buy me pullups. She never said no but she never bought them, ignored the request from what I imagine. I clearly remember being hurt and disappointed so I didn't make that up years later but I never voiced my opinion on the matter at the time either out of shame. For some reason although I was really late for a kid toilet training I was never emotionally ready to leave diapers and I guess I'm still not and I doubt I will ever know why that is the case for me.

I wonder how old this ad is myself since this little girl looks quite old to have still been diapered. She looks to be around 4 or 5 and the sizes that pampers was advertising looked to be for kids that were that age at least. I was toilet trained at that age myself and I wonder if that was the average age that kids trained at. It may be possible if the kids trained at later ages maybe they would have been nicer to the boy you described?

I personally would rather be on the receiving end but I would change a girl if she wanted me to. The OP is right for some reason and I don't know why I find the monthly cycle to be more gross, most likely because as a male I don't have to deal with it. Nonetheless I would deal with it if I were with a lady that scratched my back so to speak.

Thank You Sarah you have enlightened me once again with your wisdom. I would love to meet someone online that has this in common with me but there aren't many where I live. I may have to move to a place with more people but hopefully someday I'll meet someone like you and others here.

I'm just wondering if anyone has ever become emotionally overwhelmed by their diaper fetish? I myself rarely ever wear diapers anymore. I used to when I was younger but to me it's so old now because I'm alone when I do it and that is no fun for me. However even though the fetish is not a lifestyle for me and never will be I don't think it is very much a part of me as it has been since I was younger. It is purely a sexual kink of mine. I have a lot of trouble orgasiming without thinking about or seeing women in diapers and using them or myself when I was younger. This overwhelms me because in a way it not only disgusts me but it makes me depressed because I fear about what will happen if I meet a girl I really like that I may want to marry. Who would want to marry someone with a sexual problem like I do is what I think? I've hooked up with other women before but to me it is very vanilla and ultimately not as memorable as I'd like it to be. I'm considering seeing a professional to deal with this problem. I was old for a child around 4 or 5 when I originally got out of diapers and I remember wearing and ultimately getting out of them. Something traumatic obviously happened to me in that regard even though I had a great childhood and had good parents. I had and have a great relationship with my mom and perhaps it is possible something happened that caused a maladaptive relationship with her and when I finally had to give up diapers I don't remember being too upset although I'm a bit hazy since it was so many years ago. I asked for her to get me more not too long after I stopped bedwetting but she never did. Maybe this was what caused trauma or some sort of feeling of being touched that leaked into my subconscious? I really don't know and I'm not sure if I ever will. All I know is that I got the desire to wear them again when I was 8 and I went out and bought them and that was that. It's odd to me that I was never able to let go of that stage of childhood because I remember using a pacifier as well and then it just disappeared and I never cared at all and still don't. I don't understand that aspect. Anyway I was wondering if anyone else ever went through the something similar and if anyone saw a professional about it? I'm just curious because it would honestly be nice to be able to put this whole thing behind me and not have to rely on this for sexual gratification anymore or find a girl that is into this but I find that unlikely.

I've never worn them so I can't hate them. When I was little I was in disposables and when I bought my own they were disposable. I didn't have the luxury of washing them when growing up because I had to hide them so I just decided it would be better if I could just throw them away.

It's no big deal to me even though I guess it is more of a compliment if she does swallow. As long as she gets me off I couldn't care less.

The only ones I can think of are times I almost made it and I didn't or I didn't have an opportunity to make it.

God that's a rough story.

Yes California has the right idea and so do you. This is a wonderful example in our great country of the idea of Federalism and true conservative libertarianism taking place. The idea that the government can prohibit you from putting a type of food or substance into your own body to me sounds incredibly intrusive and immoral. Not only that but it's impossible to enforce and it's a drain on the budget of the country or state. That's my opinion and I'm sticking with it lol. Legalize Marijuana!

This is most definitely true. I'm just glad I've never had a nair experience in the wrong areas.

Was he also the kid that was just banned for bashing abdl?

Urine is urine. It's scent varies on diet, not gender.

You've got issues if you were being serious. That's something that a sociopath would think to do.

There aren't enough women on here for this to be a dating site. In fact I've talked to a few women on here that were actually put off by the aspect of wearing diapers for fun or a fetish. They were here for incontinence support because they or their husbands suffered from it. What's funny is they generally still chose to continue posting in the main sections of the site lol.

Ew

I don't know why but this is funny to me along with this whole thread. I could never imagine leaving any of my clean up rags no matter what they are just on the floor or under the bed. I'd never do that to you Sarah rofl.

ROFL!!

OMG this has to be the nastiest two sentences I've ever read! Lol kind of funny but more or less disturbing.