How about we all just accept our differences and get along? OF COURSE someone who is forced to be incontinent won't understand why a person would want to injure themselves to become incontinent. And OF COURSE, there will invariably be a number of AB/DLs who want to be incontinent.
I personally have had minor incontinence problems, though almost invariably just close calls - certainly nothing that would necessitate constantly wearing a diaper. However, it is helpful to do so "just in case", if for no other reason but peace of mind. I have to be extremely careful not to wet the bed.
Entirely unrelated to that, however, is a fetish of sorts, which causes me to want to wear them.
People on all sides of the spectrum. We should stop making distinctions unless it's relevant or necessary.
Also, how about not flaming whenever we disagree with someone. That'd be great.