longislandguy

I always have spots after i pee. dark pants help, props (paper, clipboard) help to cover while I'm walking. Dark pants.....then pads.....now diapers.

Fair questions. Since I am looking to loosen my control I have decided it’s best to wear to work. No one has mentioned anything yet, and teens definitely would. It’s even been wet and nothing at all. So, so far so good on that front. I’m definitely looking to bed wet. I’m not opposed to an unauthorized wetting during the day either, which is why I decided to wear to work. But, the road is going to be long. I have (had?) an absolute iron clad bladder. I never really used the bathroom at work, and never woke up to pee at night. Long road trip? No worries. Plane ride? No worries. And it’s not like I don’t hydrate. I’m very able to manage my expectations. I know this is a process, and maybe a longer one for me given my history. That’s not to say I haven’t noticed changes in the past month, but, I know it’s going to be difficult to get where I want to be.

Thank you for the response! A month in and still loving it!

On purpose? Every day.

Fair enough.....in that case, I store them in what used to be a space reserved for the cotton underwear I placed in storage due to disuse.

In what used to be my underwear drawer.

A response from Oznl??? I feel honored!! Thank you!! I’ve decided that I’m going to look for some thinner diapers that will be easy to conceal under my pants. I’m not happy in underwear. I miss the security I had the past three weeks.

In my underwear drawer

Apologies for those who saw this on another site, but sharing here as well. So I've been wearing for three weeks now. In general, loving it...Some background: I've always had a very strong bladder...(teacher). I almost always go the entire work day without using the bathroom at all. Strong streams, especially in the morning. The only issue I really had was dribbling after finishing. No matter what, there always seemed to be a drop or two of urine still trapped in there which would come out, and frequently make a spot on my pants. Not a huge deal, as I try to dab my penis with toilet paper after finishing if I was wearing light colored pants. So, over the summer, I figured I'd give this a try. So, took all my underwear out of the drawer, put them away, and replaced them with diapers in the drawer. Three weeks, zero toilet flushes from use. Positives: I love the freedom. No dribbling after I'm done. Negatives: Messing is probably not for me. I've done it, of course, but the cleanup is really annoying. Plus, it took forever to get myself used to messing in my diaper. It was a true struggle....I was worried about blowing out an artery from pushing! It became easier, but it's just not worth the time. Reactions and questions: -I am surprised that over the last week and a half or so, my streams for the most part aren't that strong. A flood in my diaper is pretty rare. I seem to wet (not really pee) more frequently but with a far smaller volume. I wet, it stops, I wet immediately after, it stops, etc. So, peeing is a longer process than it was before. Don't know if that's normal. -Remember...the penis points down! -I know precisely when I've started to wet. I can tell it's coming. But, I'm not entirely sure when it's stopped. I'm not sure if I'm still wetting or if it's the urine moving down into the absorbent padding. Again, normal? -I've gotten much better at relaxing. It was hard at first not to clench after I wet, and not to reflexively clench when I go up and down stairs or sit down and get up. I'm getting better at that. -I made the extreme error of chugging water right before bed in the hopes that I would wet while asleep. All that did was wake me up an hour later with a bursting bladder. I was able to wet in my diaper in bed, but it woke me up every half hour or so.....didn't repeat that one for sure. Now I have my normal amount (I'm typically very hydrated anyway). Sometimes I'll wake at night and wet, but most times I won't wet until I wake up in the morning....which is my standard. -I have no problem (surprisingly?) with wetting in bed in nearly any position. I also had little problem with wetting in public, in stores, or at social events. I can't seem to wet while walking, but I can stop, begin to wet and resume walking. -There is truly no feeling quite like having warm urine surrounding my scrotum and perineum. Feeling my penis wrapped in warm diaper is simply incredible. - My biggest concern? The trash. I have accumulated a ridiculous amount of (very heavy) garbage. The bags are ridiculously heavy. Three or four diapers a day at 3-4 pounds each makes for some heavy garbage. I just can't leave it at the curb for those poor guys, so I drop it off myself. Well, that's it for now...thanks for reading this long post....been quite a ride so far. With work starting, I can't really wear during the work day....I could never explain it to a room full of teens, but I will put my diaper on immediately after work and of course, overnights for the foreseeable future. I still want to train myself to wet while asleep. Plus, I love waking up in the morning and wetting without having to get up.

Well, I guess right now as I just did.

I sure hope so! One week in to 24/7 and every day is a struggle.

I created one specifically to read this!

Thanks for the advice. I keep waking up to go and it’s maddening. Nothing would make me happier than to sleep through my wettings.

Great story!! I only wish there was a part two!

I can only agree. I haven’t been able to have a good, easy bm since I’ve been 24/7. I wet like it’s my job, but I can’t mess. Ate 5 prunes last night. Yeah, had no problem this morning at all. Easy peasy. Right in my night diaper.

I’ve got my fingers crossed!! Been trying exactly that!

Thank you!

So, since I’ve started 24/7 recently, I’ve paid quite a bit of attention to relaxing my bladder. What I notice is that when I wet, strong or weak, I always feel there’s liquid left inside of my penis that refuses to come out. Normally, I would clench to squeeze it out. That will strengthen my bladder which is bad. So I will push down, like a bowel movement, to almost force it out. Is that helping or slowing the process of weakening my bladder control? Should I just leave the feeling alone instead?

I did this morning, but damn it's tough. It's a real effort for me to do it, but I'm just starting out. I hope it gets easier.

Hello friends! Newbie here just getting started.....so far 4 days going 24/7. Enjoying every minute of it! Nice to find a forum like this one....it seems more accommodating to incontinence desires and bedwetting than others. That's really where my interests lie. Giving a two week binge a shot and see where I end up! So far, can't imagine not continuing...certainly not at night for sure.