longislandguy

Thanks for the encouragement! Hopefully by then I can call myself a bedwetter!

Yup...my view exactly. Knowing that I wet asleep, and that I trained myself to do so is a wonderful feeling.

I feel you. New to bedwetting, but it's brought me a ton of pleasure. I'm actually disappointed when I wake up and my diaper is still dry.

Also fairly new to bedwetting, about three months in to the journey. Not reliable every night, but I’m now at a place where if I drink(adult beverage ) before bed I simply know I will wake with a wet diaper.

Has anyone actually gotten an invite?

I would estimate once...not sure as I'm asleep lol. But, when I wake wet, it's just a little bit...not a soaker, just enough to change some of the color indicators.

I’d say simply wearing and using is your best bet. You’ll get accustomed to using them, then becoming dependent on them. Edit: I was one of those friends. Been wearing for 7 months. I can’t even fathom going 7+ hours anymore.

Yes. No waking or remembering that I woke. Just a wet diaper in the morning. My goal is the same as yours, but I also wear during the day.

Yup...pretty much the same. I wake up early regardless, then check to see if my color lines have changed. Initial problems wetting lying down happened at the beginning, but I got accustomed to it quickly. First actual wet night was like 6 months in.

Lidiapbear. Would love an invite.

Well, as the month is over, I can say that out of the 31 days in March, I woke up wet 16 times. Not a bad clip. With the exception of the one night I tried going undiapered, I've been wearing every night for 7 months. Basically wetting every other night. I'm nowhere near close to considering myself a bedwetter, but given where I started from on this journey, I'm pretty pleased with the progress. Over the next month, I'm hoping to have more frequent and heavier wettings. Upon that, I can consider not following a "routine" (extra hydration before bed) to see if I'm truly accustomed to just letting go at night while asleep. Daytime continence remains pretty strong, but I doubt I could go 7-8 hours without using the facilities like I always have (or had before starting). We'll see what April brings....April showers and such....

I wonder how many of these procedures he’s done to have a reference!

Gave it a try. Figured I was changing my sheets today anyway, so it was the perfect opportunity to do a little test drive. Woke up damp, but not soaked, or even really wet, but my pajamas were damp. I suspect there was a wetting, or at least leaking overnight - a wet spot on my pad, but I think that may have been from after I woke up. First night in 8 months unprotected and I had no worry about wet sheets since I was doing laundry anyway. I followed my regular routine which usually means night wetting. My reactions to not wearing: Positive: 1) actually able to see and enjoy the morning wood. 2) I guess I'm good to travel if I can't wear or forget. Negatives: 1) I had difficulty falling asleep, and woke up super early. I think that may have been general discomfort or being unused to having nothing on. 2) I truly missed being diapered in bed. 3) no feeling of accomplishment. 4) no "sticker" on my chart since I wasn't diapered. 5) a worry I've halted the progress I've made and that this one day will set me back in my journey. Neutral: My belief that I am not, in fact, a bedwetter, seems to be proven. Even after waking up wet half the days of this month, I do not consider myself that way. I don't know if this is a positive or a negative lol. I shall not be repeating this experiment for quite a while, but you can use this result in your research.

That’s very interesting. I FINALLY made a new ABDL friend, told him I’ve started wetting the bed, and he was happy for me. Later, I had wet while we weee hanging out and I told him that too. Not only was he good with it, he’s like “yeah….that happens. “. I’ve wet in front of people before, but that was the first time I said that I did.

Progress has been pretty good lately. 11 days out of 21 this month. I don't call myself a bedwetter yet, but it's moving along. I am tempted to do an experiment and not wear for a night or two while maintaining my regular routine. On one hand, I don't want to break my streak. On the other hand, I do want to see if actual progress is being made and if this is becoming an actual problem (an odd word considering that this was the goal), or if it's just a diaper thing. I also don't want to subconsciously take myself back and undo 8 months of work. One to think about....

Meh….I don’t know. I have been working to untrain at night and have been wetting 3-4 nights a week lately. That is as a result of decent hydration before sleep which now means more often than not I will wake up wet. It’s never a lot, but it’s there. I don’t consider myself a bedwetter. Yes, wet at night on occasion, but it is a result of actions prior. I have no doubt that I would not wet if those steps were not taken or if I made an effort to stop.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who looked forward to seeing that man!

I haven’t tried. Two reasons. One, I like wearing at night. Two, I do worry that I will wet which will cause restless sleep and potentially cold, wet sheets. Eventually I’ll try, but don’t want to break my streak right now.

I have not found dependency an issue for me. I wear during the day because I want to not because I have to. That may have helped. But, for me, I have become a non-reliable bedwetter through time and patience. It was a combination of good diapers, hydrating before bed, and riding it out. In about six months I was sleep wetting a few times a week. That’s about where I am now 8 months in. Looking forward to more frequent and heavier wettings as time goes on but I’ll just wait and see. But, I don’t worry about an accident if I choose not to wear during the day.

Great job!!

And here is the update that nobody wanted, asked for, or needed lol. Since getting back into my night wetting after that irritating plateau, things are moving along nicely. In the month of March, I've had 7 surprise wet mornings, and I feel relatively confident that I will wet if I drink the right amount right before bed. But, the most exciting part for me is that while my wettings were rather light at first, with only a faint change in the color indicator. Lately they have become a bit heavier, which I'm looking at as a sign of progress. I don't know if that is a sign of things to come or just a result of more hydration prior to falling asleep, but I'm looking at it as a mark of progress. I've not had a wet night without water beforehand, nor do I expect to, but I do wonder if it would continue if I was A) undiapered, and B ) not hydrated. I guess we'll see what the next few weeks bring.

So far, a few nights a week. But always a small amount.

As a recent bedwetter, I must agree. I love it.

Happily back in the saddle (for now at least). Three times in March, and 5 in the last week.

That hairy leg……can’t help myself. A furry incontinent man is my dream partner!!