Inco24/7

Well as Ive posted on several other posts now on here, being double incontinent, I do end up with full nappies quite often. Now as I said before at 1st I hated it but as Ive grown accustom to the way I am, having a full nappy on can actually feel very nice to me indeed now !! lol. Think for me once I know my nappies dirty, I like others here if its a big mess like to walk around and feel it squelching around inside my nappy and the 1st initial big squelch when you sit down and feel it work its way round and up the front is also an amazing feeling, almost like a soft warm hand embracing and caressing your nether regions for want of a better explanation !! lol I too if my nappy ends up full carry on with whatever I was doing then, if not in an area where Ill draw attention to myself e.g at home or out and about where im not near anyone Ill stay in my nappy until it starts to become itchy or uncomfortable (usually an hour maybe 2) then get changed. If it happens whilst out shopping or in crowded areas ?? I either make my way to the nearest changing area to get sorted (if there is one) or head straight for my car and home to clean up !!. Usually means my shopping trips cut short and I have to go back and finish off but sooner that than be the laughing stock of that area and be ridiculed for my current state !!. Of course there are times where Id like to change and cant due to there being nowhere to get changed etc... at times like that I just tend to stay as quiet as possible and do my best to keep out of the way until I can get my nappy changed Inco

As S**t literally happens for me being doubly incontinent, then Id have to say yes to this as its happened by accident without protection once or twice and with protection more times than I can count, but if youre gonna pay me to do it ?? then on the 1 out of 100 times I can feel it coming you name the place and itll happen !! lol put it this way if it was in a mall nowhere close to a toilet ? Id have about 0.5 seconds to change my mind or wet and poop myself trying to make it there anyways ! Inco

errr how about I gotta honkey Huggies ?? lol sorry the 1st thing that came to mind

doin all I can for ya this end ! Also whats ABC like these days ?? Havent gone there in like ....... err 2 years ?? know it closed down and is now open again under new management or something ? so yeah let me know Hugs inco x

ok read this post for a while now and have mused on what to reply as I have mixed feelings on this 3 years ago when I started having to wear 24/7 for double incontinence Id of said HELL YEAH ! in a heartbeat to not needing to wear anymore but like so many other Incontinent people Ive grown to accept I need to wear nappies/diapers and am at peace with it for the most part. That said tho there are times when I think, "what I wouldnt give to have this happen !!" example having to walk home in a full and squelchy nappy or sit for prelonged periods of time in a car etc... when you know youre wet and need changing as its just not practical at that moment or place to get a change. So yeah there are still negatives to it all which plague us all, but there are also a lot of positives as I have come to learn. So to answer the question honestly ?? Id have to say....... I dont know The reason I say this is as it stands in my life right now ?? that option is not available and prolly wont be for the foreseeable future, I guess I couldnt really answer unless I was in that situation in reality . sorry to be so vague but thats just my 2 cents worth on it Hugs Inco xx

first time for me, was an accident and has sorta been that way scince.... 1st thoughts on it were "ewww this feels kinda icky!" but after about 3 accidents and me growing accustom to it (that and the wife telling me to stay dirty for a bit to get used to it) once you sqirm around a bit and things work their way into or around your nappy/diaper, it can feel quite nice !. Have had times now where I dont want to be changed as the feeling of my full nappy/diaper between my legs squelching about is just well...... heavenly for want of a better word Coming from a double incontinent person thats gotta be worth some "browny" points !! I think having a messy nappy/diaper is a bit like Marmite.... you either love it or you hate it, that said youll never know either way till you try it Inco:)

Ok, Ill do some checking but we did stumble on something like this ourselves a while ago and there is a actual hotel that is AB aware and friendly. They actually boast about certain weekends of each month doing AB themed weekends where the hotel is actually closed to the general public and is for AB's and DL's only, they arrange day outings and you can freely wander the hotel in you AB gear or just a nappy and nobody batteres an eyelid, Theyre also Gay and Trans friendly and do also accomodate weekends and suchlike for that as well Heres a couple of links I hope will help http://guystodollstvhotelblackpool.co.uk/ http://www.pridelodge.com/index.php Not too sure if 1 of the 2 hotels listed here was the one advertising they were AB/Sissy aware, but Ill keep looking hope this helps

funny you should say that as my wife (even though she knows I dont mean for it to happen at all) actually does compliment me for filling my nappy !! lol Have to admit it does help being double incontinent and not only cushions the blow when it happens but helps relax the mood and me feel a lot more confident and happy to have a "full load" back there Inco

Something ID be glad to put together too just say when and Ill do all I can

Thanks guys Ill be sure to check out those posts as for being introduced into the AB/DL lifestyle I suppose I was too, that said though Id of never given it a second thought at all if I hadnt of become incontinent myself. I guess if you like its my way of turning something negative in my life into something thats positive if that makes sense as regards watching sum 1 else fill their nappy or undies Ive not nor likely to get that luxury, as theres very few like minded people I know, and those I do all seem to be at least 100 miles away, still you can always hope right guys ?? and yes Angelic well done !! you certainly picked a good topic here to start up indeed !!

Wait !! nobody picked up on this ?? Id love to hear more Abrera ! funny this thread should come about as its something like others Ive kinda fantasised about, never used to as when I 1st started out being double incontinent, having a dirty nappy kinda sucked, now ?? after nigh on 5 years of being this way my whole views on it all have changed dramaticlly!! This just prooving that !! lol. Is it me? or can having a full nappy or even underwear fell soo, well blissful for want of a better word ?? my !! I never thought Id ever say that line outloud on a post !! lol So back to the original topic Hats off to you Abrera ! for experiencing this I along with quite a few others im sure admire you and are somewhat jealous for experiencing this !. the idea of knowing or seeing someone else end up with a full nappy, on purpose or not after Ive had my own "accident" would not only bring comfort but also enhighten the mood too !! Hugs Inco

Although I do run my own website (non AB/DL related, its an online radio station lol) I do spend a lot of time online as a result, some of which is twiddling my thumbs more or less so as Ive said before Im more than willing to lend a hand where I can so if theres anything I can do to relieve some of the pressure drop me a line It'd be my pleasure not only helping out but helping to keep DD running to the quality we all know and love about this site Inco

My incontinence started out following an operation for torsion of the testes when I was 13. I was fine up until this point but when I came round from the operation I for reasons unknown had a bad reaction to the anasthetic I was given and seemed to fit. I thought after this I was fine, but was numb in my private regions for some time after it. Sure things healed up from the op without too many problems but I did notice I had an extereme urge to get the the toilet. Before the operation I had very good toilet control skills and even if I did feel the need to go could hold it for quite some time up to a good hour if not longer should the need occur, but after the operation I started having serious problems with urgency. I could hold on for 5 mins max and being in a boarding school at the time found to make it to the toilet after asking in lessons to go I would have to run to make it. The progressively got worse and around 3 weeks after the op thats when things started to go downhill. I can remember waking up feeling the urge to desperately go for what I thought at the time was a #2. only to stagger out of bed to find me and my bed were completely soaked !!. Stunned by this and the urge to poop I staggered to the door but that was as far as I got before I uncontrollably filled my pants. That was the 1st real taste of incontinence I got. Of course school staff and doctors put the incident down to something I may of eaten and not being well so let it slide, but the urge to go during the day was getting steadily worse and I was starting to wake up more and more to a wet bed. Examinations by doctors revealed nothing at the time and it was put down to childhood bedwetting even though I explained about the connections to my operation. To this day the NHS swear blind there is no connection and that the operation went as a complete sucess. The nightime accidents continued for several weeks and as did the urgency to get to the toilet when bizarrely it had adverse effects on me during the day. I would get the urgency to pee so bad that it would cause pressure inside me I would cramp up and tense like mad to stop myself wetting my pants to get to the toilet that when I did eventually get there I would uncontrollably push it out in a sort of high pressure stream, this was ok but led to me messing my pants while trying to pee !!. I also on a few occaisions managed while trying to stop myself wetting poop myself in the process how to this day that works out I still honestly dont know !!. Anyways things carried on like this until I was 14 when I started having wetting accidents during the day as well as at night. The pooping thankfully at that time subsided. I was referred to my local continence nurse who after assessing me said there was 2 options available to me. At the time wetting was the problem more than pooping so she at 1st offered me the "conveen" sheath system to use with a leg bag, which I found totally replusive and inadquate. The 2nd choice was nappies which as she explained because of previous messing accidents may actually be better. In all honestuy I was doubtful over both choices but finally opted for the nappies. At 1st to wear they were bulky, noisy and generally no fun at all !!. I did for the most part everything I could not to wear them or use them and only gave in when my problems were really affecting me and on the nights, the rest of the time I stumbled on through with no protection and just made mad dashes for the toilet hoping all would be ok. The messing accidents eventually stopped altogether and I once again had full control over my bowels but my bladder was another matter, things on that side were slowly but surely getting worse. I again approached my continence nurse when picking up supplies for some more absorbent pads/nappies as the ones I had at the time were beginning not to cope with my demands. I was told as I was then diagnosed as having problems with incontinence to drink more surprisingly to reduce the risk of UTI & kidney infections. This was all good and well but obviously made me wet more frequently and heavier than before. I was then sent to a urologist for further tests to be carried out as I think the hope by my continence nurse and my GP were that things over time would sort themselves out. 18 months on and things were going the other way and were getting worse!. After several analysations and Urodynamics tests on me and my bladder I was diagnosed as having stress/urge incontinence as a result of an overactive bladder and was told over the years things would get worse and by the time I was in my 40's I would probably need to wear protection all the time. I was at this point still wearing when really needed and not full time as I just couldnt come to terms with doing so. Things stayed this way with me once a year having further urodynamics carried out to see how things were going only for it each time to show more and more deterioration of my bladder and continence control much to my dismay. Then in June 2005 things took their final toll on me. On the 29th of June 2005 I had my 1st of 2 strokes which was a pretty bad 1, leaving me unable to move my right side, speak, walk or anything else. I was in hospital for several weeks recovering and of course (even though I wasnt fully aware at the time) in nappies 24 hours a day and bed bound. When I finally did get my speech back and was able to walk it was then I discovered after thinking I was pretty much back to myself after what can only be described as 1 hell of a rocking that the final damage had been done. I no longer had control over my bladder or bowels at all !!. I was told over the next 6 months things may return and lived in the hope they would. After 2 days of wetting accidents and no messy ones I stupidly thought things were back to normal so after I found my nappy was wet on the 3rd day decided to "Risk all" and go out shopping with my wife with no protection at all. Feeling confident and a tad cocky with myself I was pleased not to be in nappies after 24/7 wearing for almost 9 months during recovery it felt good !, till we were at the checkouts queing to pay. We had all in all been out and away from home around 45 minutes by this time when without warning all I felt was the waistband of my pants slowly being pulled downwards. At 1st I thought they were being pulled down by someone or some kid, but quickly realised as I felt the warmth and heard the squelching sound that followed I was filling my pants . It just happened !! no warning no nothing, just a loud squelch and that was that in a superstore full of people I now had a nice bulge in the back of my pants where Id pooped!. I was stunned, shocked and embarrassed, and made a beeline for home as quick as I could!, things got worse when speed walking back to the car when I also started to wet without control also !!. By the time I got home I was in quite a bad way to say the least !!. Went upstairs got out of my wet and very dirty pants and had the longest shower of my life in tears. Scince then Ive been in nappies 24 hours a day and overtime have now grown to like them and accept my condition, I have been back and seen my urologist but along with my GP they now say theres very little they can do to help me. The damage caused by the deterioration of my OAB and the stroke combined have now distorted messages sent to my brain via my nervous system so badly that my brain now doesnt know what to do with them so more or less if you like ignores them now. So as a result has cut off that part of my body and the urge or need to void. The muscles in my prostate and bowels have now relaxed as a result which means I just "go" without warning so need to wear nappies all the time to keep things under control. so at 26 till now and I expect till the day I die I will be in nappies 24/7 Inco

Yes Abera you are Superior ! lol as for telling when Ive gone, Im not allowed to. My mummy prefers me just to go then when she knows I have usually leaves me like it for a bit unless I complain its uncomfy. Its her way of getting me actively used to nappies/diapers. Being incontinent I dont always know when Im gonna end up dirty and never know when Im wet unless I look down at my nappy but yeah I know what u guys mean. I used to be very embarrassed and upset if I could smell my own dirty nappy now it doesnt bother me and just adds to the fact hey ! im incontinent and s**t literally DOES happen !! lol . as for the feel ?? at 1st to me it was icky, now I actually quite like it. Dunno why but to me the fuller my nappy is the more comfy it can feel ?? maybe thats just me tho !! lol

Trust me you will not be alone in that corner !! lol I too would be slowly wetting myself but Im sure me nor you will be the only incontinent folks there Abrera !

Well being double incontinent Im always in a nappy so that is where I always end up going. Like it or not !. If tho for some bizarre reason I wasnt in a nappy and had to go ? I wouldnt have the chance or time to get to a bathroom so it would result in a pretty heavy pair of underwear !!. Was once when I was being defiant in wearing all the time and did brave wearing a pair of underwear out. The end result was exactly as above so Ill never try it again !! lol. Its 1 thing to have to trudge home in a dirty nappy but quite another to have to trudge home in a pair of poopy pants !!. They dont uhm hold things in very well for too long, so needless to say my "undies" went in the bin and my tracksuit bottoms went in the wash as my accident had seeped through to them as well. Not nice walking home squelching with a humilliating brown stain for all to see !!. Given the choice tho?? if I could make it to the toilet Id always go and do my buisness there, unfortunately my body has other ideas and I dont have that luxury so for me nappies is the best and only real option ! Hugs Inco

my current XP desktop, have a triple boot system so have desktops on Linux and Windows 7 as well lol, will post them when Im running within them but for now (as im running XP) here it is

this questions prolly been asked already but is there a guild on 1 of the europe servers ?? I play on Wow in the Khadgar realm. so would change if I knew there were others on another realm on our server. Being in the UK yeah sure I can get on the US servers but the latency on them is terrible !!. Inco

Ha ha your not wrong there Daily !!, as for closing the site down, for sec there seeing the post in the forum I thought you were serious !!

well for me its been a progressive set of medical problems thats led to me being back in nappies 24/7. 1st was @ 13 I had an operation for torsion of the testies. Although extremely painful I was told the operation was a sucess, but about a month or so after the operation I found I had trouble making it to the toilet in time and sometimes wouldnt at all and end up wet, there were also times I felt I really needed to go and rushed to the loo only to find I couldnt go at all or let very little out when I did. This also started to affect me worst of all at night and 9 times out of 10 Id wake up to a wet bed. This of course at 13 years of age was worrying so I went to see my GP about it and found out after referrals to urologists I had what they called an "overactive bladder" which I was told was the reason for the loss of control. I was advised to wear protection for it and was given nappies as a choice by my district nurse. At the time and still now it seemed the best choice for me as the conveen systems and sheeths with a urine bag just didnt work for me. I kept pulling the pipe off the end and still ending up wet lol where I was moving about in my sleep etc... whereas in a nappy no matter what position I ended up in my bed stayed dry. I did use nappies on and off when I had a bad spell with it during the day over the years but for the mostpart just used an absorbent pad or did my best to make it to the toilet in time and things were going well. Did this for several years managing during the day and wearing nappies on the nights with no major problem, but when I got to about 20 I noticed the problems during the day were starting to become worse and I was wetting more heavily on the nights so againhad further urodynamics tests carried out . Was told then that my symtoms were slowly but surely getting worse and Id probably have to start wearing protection during the day within the next 10 years or so due to this. Was not happy to hear or think about having to wear nappies all the time so decided until the time came where I would be forced to I would manage as I did before which at that time was for the mostpart still working for me pretty well. Things carried on this way until June in 2005 when I had my 1st stroke. From there on in everything changed. It took me over a year to recover from it and get my movement and speech back but it also left me with what im told is a permanent problem from it . I tried to go back to my usual self but now found I had no control whatsoever !! daytime or night time. This at 1st came as a hell of a shock to me because I wasnt expecting it and wasnt used to it. Id been in nappies whilst Id been in hospital at the beginning but just thought that was where my body needed to be given time so as soon as I could I came back out of them during the day and refused to accept I was the way I was. I started having wetting and messing accidents all the time which was a nightmare for me. OK Id been used to waking up in a soggy nappy but now I was waking up not only wet but dirty too !!. I was mortified and still refused to be beaten until 1 day in 2006. I decided I would make it to the toilet at the slightest feeling of discomfort and all would be ok, so put on some underpants and set off out shopping with my wife. All was well for the mostpart until we were stood in a queue at the checkouts. At 1st I was none the wiser as to what was happening, but as I stood there all of a sudden I felt my undies start to feel like somebody was pulling them down very slowly at the back then got the feeling of warmth around my bum this feeling then got quicker and all I heard was a loud squelch as my pants got filled. I stood there in a state of shock realising what had happened !! without warning Id had just pooed my pants !! it wasnt a small accident either, it was rather big and I was soo worried everyone could tell what Id done. so red faced I tried to walk quickly out of the store and made a dash to our car. The problem was the faster I walked the worse things got !!. As a hurried across the carpark I could feel yet more coming out of me squelching about in my pants, by this point I was close to tears and couldnt believe what had happened to me I was soo distrought!!. words cant really explain how I felt !!. Well I got in the car and by this point my wife had joined me she fortuantely was quite calm about the whole thing where I was almost hysterical and he headed home. As I got out of the car to go inside my bladder decided to empy itself without warning. That was too much for me and I ended up bursting into tears devistated by situation. I waddled inside, soaked to the core and very dirty by this point and with my wifes help cleaned up. She then advised it was probably best to wear protection and I had to agree and from there on in finally gave in. We went to see my GP again about the problem as from there on it, wet and dirty nappies were an everyday occurance and although I hated it I no choice but to wear all the time as I couldnt face going through another embarrassing experience like before so had to do something. He again referred me back to my urologist and continence nurse and the outcome was and still is that the damage from the stroke is now that the messages from that area of my body are so distorted the brain cant make out what to do with them so I never know when I need to wet or mess until its already happened. The damage Im told is irrepairable and im stuck this way for life now. So yeah thats how I ended up back in nappies 24/7. Sorry for the graphic nature in some parts of this post but im trying to get through to some of those of you out there that being incontinent like I now am, wetting and messing yourself without control, wherever and whenever covenient or not is not as much fun as some people may think it is. It can ruin a persons life and can be very upsetting and hard to deal with for some. I have now come to terms with the way I am and although I dont like it I know I cant change it but have to say some aspects of my life have had to change due to it, but for the mostpart I live my live to the full and try to be as active as I can be along the way Inco24/7

I didnt know Heidi Lynn personally like some of you here do, but I can say as others have I have seen and heard a lot about her work and the foundation she rooted in the community. So sorry and sad to hear about such a tragic loss My heart is with you all Inco xx.

McDonalds toilets whilst waiting for a food order I thinks 1 of my funniest so far and at Motorway Services. Cant say I personally like laying on a stone cold floor trying to change/cleanup a dirty nappy. Certainly is no fun, just wish more ppl were aware/accepting of ppl in nappies so it was easier to change without discrimination I mean its not like I have a choice about wearing is it ?? Also I think disabled toilets should fit more adult change tables in and at least have a bin for incontinence products to be put in !.. Been in several now that have a sanitry towel bin and thats it !!. Had before now had to walk out the disabled toilets with my used nappy in my hand and then enter the baby change area to bin it as there was no bins !!. I think societly as a rule needs to accept incontinence is out there and there are adults that have to or choose to wear nappies and accomodate for this a bit better Inco

well after reading all the posts here from others Ive decided to post my own take on this. Trust me its took some courage to do hence the time lack in me doing this !! lol. Ok well here goes.......... Have I ever been a girl ??. yes I have but I think the question I need to answer is more am I a girl ??. Thats the one I dont really know :S. I like a lot of you here have had a bit of a troubled childhood and didnt have many friends. Those I did were 99% of the time girls. I dont know why I just find I can relate to girls better. As for the dressing part. Yes Ive done it on a number of occasions and do find that girls/womens clothing appeals in some ways more to me than mens. I mean choice is almost infinate right ?? lol. I dont wear underwear now as im totally incontinent so im in nappies 24 hours a day regardless now, but if given the choice of which underwear to pick Id have to say womens again. Mens undies, whats the choices?? pants or boxers ......... thats it !!. At least with womens youve got, French knickers, normal brief style knickers, thongs etc... then you have style. Cloth, silk, etc.. I definately like the feel of silk and did like thongs on the few times I was able to try them. Also even though im in nappies find skirts and dresses easier to wear and they give a lot more choice, and of course make changes a lot easier to do !! lol. On a more serious note though, there is without a shadow of doubt a feminine side to me peronality and indeed to me.I Side I call Lucy. I cant explain it, nor fully understand where it came from, all I know is its there, like a stamp burnt into my brain. The more I try to ignore it the more it niggles at me to get out. Its just stupid things like being out and about and seeing a slim girl wearing a nice skirt, top and boots and not thinking like I should PHWOARRR !! I wouldnt mind a rumble in her haystack !!. Ill be jealous of her body and her clothes and think things like... "Bitch....... thats sooo not fair !! how come you can get away with a skirt that short and I cant !! and how can you get a figure like that and no matter how much praying to messiah I do I havent a hope in the world of achieving a figure anywhrere near it !!" and so on. Im not a feminine guy looks wise at all. God knows I wish I was at times and could pull the look off as I probably would a lot of the time,but alais Im 6ft tall, size 12 (UK) in footwear which makes finding girls or womens boots that fit me a total nightmare !! im about a size 18 -20 in womens clothes if not bigger (havent bought any in a while now). and lets just say the hair up top is getting rather thin. So lets sum that up ?? Im a fat balding guy thats tall and has bigger feet than the jolly green giant !!. Any chance of passing as a girl ?? yeah !! about as much chance as a snowball in hell !!. I hate the way I look and try to do all I can to make it better but nothing seems to work . Which brings me back to the dressing part........... as I said Ive done it in the past on a number of occasions and when I did I found my personality totally changed as if someone else was in the driving seat controlling my body and the way I felt. Yes it was still me and I knew it was me, but suddenly I was full of life, bright bubbly and full of energy, rather than the usual tired out bring drab old me that is usually there. There was only 1 drawback to it. I had a mental image in my head of how I should look dressed, again almost imprinted into my brain and the reflection in the mirror when I looked was not even close, sure I tried using makeup etc.... etc.... new wigs and so on, but nothing worked, which is why for the past year or so I fought like mad to supress my feelings and not let them out as the image staring back said only 1 thing to me . Man In Dress........... It depressed me that much I sat and cried for nigh on an hour last time I tried to make it work so have vowed not to let it happen again. My problem is it runs that deep in me that its sooo hard to fight at times !!. I mean I have if you like an extreme burning desire to have breasts, sure ive used forms in the past but they arent part of me and definately do not feel right because of that reason. I dont know why I want them so bad I just do, its as if having them would somehow make me complete ?? if that makes sense to any of you ?? all I know is these thought are there, thats it. Why is anybodys guess. I have TG friends online and 1 or 2 ive met in real life that all relate to me as a girl and say in some respects although I dont physiclly look like a girl mentally I am one ?? is this true ?? Im not sure. Now I am wearing nappies 24/7 and with helpful comments from others here on how to deal with being this way I have turned to trying the AB side of things along with my wifes consent and help . Its helped things in a lot of ways. 1. my need to be in nappies and my acceptance of being in them. 2. my femme side to some degree as my wifes admitted having me as an AB girl to her is far easier and better that way as she has found its a lot easier to find AB sissy/girls clothing than it is AB boys. Theres just more of it and a better selection. Its good for me also as I get to in a roundabout way release some of my femme side, so it all works out pretty good . Sorry for the ramblings on in this post but Ive never been good at expressing my inner feelings into words or as prooven here into text !!. Hope it reads ok and that most of you who read this can either relate to it or understand what I meant by it all IF (and Ill be amazed if theres any takers on this !!) any of you would like to see pics of me dressed both as AB and as not to make your own decisions on the points ive raised in this post please PM me and Ill be happy to share them with you All the best to you all and hope to chat again soon Hugs Inco xx. OH almost forgot !! lol the strapon comment ?? well Ill try anything once !! lol never had it done ............. yet but if it ever came about ......... well Im sure u can figure the rest out !! lol

Hmm Wonder whats happened with this thread, hasnt been any replies for a while, hope my torrent of questions didnt kill it off if it did im sorry