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Thanks for sharing this! I’m going to check it out.

If you order from Northshore, there is an option to have the package delivered to a FedEx or Walgreens. You can pick it up yourself sans parents. I know also that sometimes with FedEx and UPS there is an option to hold at location. So similar to the above but maybe a little more risky.

Hi Joe. I’m sorry to hear about your mishap but glad that the experience has brought you some freedom around your friends. It sounds like you’ve worked out an arrangement that fits your lifestyle and needs. Good luck on the New Year and keep us updated!

Thanks for the thoughts guys! I’m really enjoying the medication so far. It’s not crazy but it does seem like it’s giving me a slight bump. Also, to make clear: please, if you don’t need this medicine, don’t take it. Not a silver bullet for me so far and the potential downsides probably outweigh peeing slightly more frequently.

I was prescribed a thiazide yesterday for high BP. I am surprised at the amount of urine so far… any chance taking these will help give me a little assist with untraining? When I’m wearing I’m kinda in constant dribble mode as is.

Nice. I lived in Blue Springs for a few years. Sorry I missed you.

Just thinking through this as I’m moving closer to dependence and wearing more than not. Becoming incontinent - did you get what you wanted? Was it worth it? Did it fill that hole so many of us describe or did it just become normalized and now you’ve found a new hole? I hope I’m not coming off as cynical, just legitimately curious of your opinions looking back now.

Fantastic! I can’t wait for the full guide. Thanks for all of the effort you are putting into this project.

There is a Whang! video about a wife who stumbled upon her husband’s “pickled” poo. Apparently sorted by viscosity. Not sure if this would limit bacteria as I think usually the goal and hope is that what you’re pickling would be bacteria-free. it’s an idea any way? Pretty gross though lol. Keep us updated!

Any links on where you’ve read up on temporary fecal ic methods? I had never heard of these.

https://www.patreon.com/hypnobombshell/posts I’ve been enjoying these hypnosis files (the IC training items) which are added to weekly. There are also AB/regression files if interested.

I was really happy to see all the responses here. A lot of good points and perspectives for sure! For me, I would like to be incontinent and diaper dependent but I’m kind of fresh to all this. Grew up constantly having a diaper fascination and made a few treks to the store to pick up packs as a teen but I’ve been out of diapers completely since around 18. Just had a lot of shame I suppose and spent a long time ultra-aware of others perceptions and trying to live up to self-imposed standards. And it’s been a grand total of maybe 3 months before I jumped back in. I’d like to start here and see if anything happens. I also think it’s kind of a good litmus test to see whether or not “I have what it takes.” I’ve noticed my interest waning quite a bit recently and the changes and upkeep are becoming more of a drag. But I’ve tried to reinforce against this with hypnosis and continued use. So, it’s going. No loss of control, really, but I’m trying to enjoy diapers for their intrinsic value and not focus so much on my own fixation on being incontinent. And really hoping that maybe, just maybe, I’ll notice some kind of progress along the way.

Wow. I must be doing something wrong with mine, I don’t average quite as much mileage. Interesting method with the slit cutting… and yeah, like you said, the thrill would probably not be worth the potential damage done.

@rusty pins, in the instance you’ve described (4-5 hours messing) or those who have stayed in dips for days messing, how is this possible? Would you avoid urinating this entire time or find another outlet? It seems like filling beyond capacity and leaks would be inevitable.

Velvet Underground.

Since you have two, I’ll do the same. David Gilmour and Mark Knopfler. They both have so much feel and the best clean tone I’ve come across. Knopfler’s finger playing is like ASMR.

That’s a good point, apologies for not making that distinction. Bed messing while fully protected is what I meant. And to be more specific, I guess I meant either completely unconsciously or semi-unconsciously. Just curious if that’s actually something that happens to folks around here and whether that’s a nice or a negative experience. Thanks for sharing! Would you say that this is an enjoyable experience for you at all or neutral/annoying/negative? I hope I’m not getting to personal.

Sorry if you were looking for a story, don’t have one. Sometimes I just get stuck in random thoughts and they keep reoccurring, so hoping to get it out here. I’m just wondering - is bed messing on a somewhat regular basis a thing for any here (guessing this may be a given for bowel ic)? Is it a good experience or bad? Any stories you’d care to share?

Hi @Diaper Duck, I haven’t read all of the replies but I got the feeling the general advice might be to avoid keeping it a secret as it will be too hard to cover. I would agree except… I don’t think it’s entirely off the table. I did this off and on for many years as a teen at home. Obviously the 3 considerations (think I read this upthread a few days ago) would be purchase, storage, and disposal. Of course wearing undetected is another component. I think you could tackle that best by only wearing at specified times? Only while your parents are at work maybe? And maybe to bed at nights? @Beccathelittle had some interesting bits in her untraining thread where she said that she actually started with bed wetting training. While I think the majority have found bed wetting to follow day time incontinence efforts, maybe bed wetting would work for you to start? Might be fun to try. Purchase - you can get North Shore and BetterDry products (maybe Tena or Attends?) from Northshore care and have them delivered to Walgreens or FedEx (this is an option at checkout). Find a good hiding spot? Maybe you have a box for your belongings or a few boxes of old junk? Store at the bottom or find another solution? Your car? Disposal - suddenly become a very attentive son when it comes to trash duties? Take out daily or every other day or have a secret trash spot? That one gets a little tricky I guess. But there is the ethical component -maybe some underlying guilt? I hope not. I guess when it comes to bodily functions it isn’t anyone’s business but your own. What I listed is also a lot of work…but maybe it’s worth it to you? Good luck!

Thanks for all the feedback! I might try the Bambino. Trying to look for something that I can use at the gym and some other random instances. So far a lot of the pull-ups I’ve tried are duds. The “cloth” just ruins them for me.

@Beccathelittle, this was a nice read. Can’t wait to hear the anniversary update. If it’s not too personal - how did the hypnosis stuff and your custom file go? Any benefit now looking back?

Crazy talk. I can’t conceive of holding it much longer than a half hour when the urge hits… How did it go? Were you able to hold out?

Does such a mythological beast exist? I’ve been looking but not finding one.

Better Dry. I’ve been trying out Mega Max but they’ve been a crock for me. Leaking a lot, but maybe it’s just my build? ?

So I was wondering if anyone has experience with untraining in the form of focusing on accidents and part time diapering. This has been the case for me as I wear while working from home 8 hours a day, 5 days a week. I’m hoping to use this as a stepping stone to full incontinence. I’ve also been trying to visit the restroom every 30 mins to 1 hour when undiapered to support the untraining. Is this effective at all in your opinions or is it a waste? Been going for around 1 month pretty consistently though I do kind of suck at the schedule outside of diapers. Not many “gains” so far…