NightWitch

They said they don’t care what I wear lol I’m terrible at making a decision ?

I still try to make it to the bathroom when I can. I wear pull-ups out of the house. I only wet a little bit in my pull-ups and keep using them until they’re mostly full before changing.

Tomorrow I’m going to ditch my pull-ups for a regular diaper to do my holiday shopping in. Which should I wear?

Ooof this happens to me too sometimes ???

Sometimes..my partner will (lovingly) tease me about my diapers. But most of the time, it’s fine.

In what way(s) have you become incontinent? I was put on a medication that had side effects that led to me having to urinate a lot. I made the decision to continue the medication as the benefits outweigh the risk. I started wearing pull-ups to bed and out of the house, diapers when at home. I can go short periods of time without diapers if needed but it’s a bit of a gamble if my panties will stay dry. How long did it take you? It’s been roughly 9 months of this medication. I noticed being able to just wet myself instead of try to hold it all the time became easier around 3ish months. How long have you been incontinent? If it's been a long time, would you say your memory of being continent is in any way unclear? As I said, I’m not fully incontinent, I can hold it for short periods of time. How was your continence before you decided to become incontinent? I used the bathroom relatively frequently, also had to get up to use the bathroom at night 1-2 times Did people tell you anything about it before you did it, for example by encouraging you, warning you off, dismissing it as impossible? If people told you things, to what extent do you feel those things have been borne out? I told my doctor about my increased urge and frequency but not about wearing diapers to manage. My partner knows and fully supports me. Have you tried to regain your continence? Were you successful, fully or partially? If partially, to what degree? I have not tried to regain full continence. If your answer to the above question is "yes, partially," why would you say it was partially and not fully? Since you reached the point of partial recovery, have you found your controlbacksliding at all or has it remained stable? N/a How do you feel about your incontinence? After developing it but before the present, have you ever felt very differently about it? Do you feel differently from how you expected to when you started out? Somedays it feels really stressful, like last week when my pull-up leaked at work. I feel embarrassed sometimes when I don’t make it to the bathroom on time or I just don’t even try to make it. Diapers were part of my kink for a long time. So sometimes it feels sensual and exciting. It is also nice to be able to finish up a task instead of rushing to the bathroom in the middle of it. I’m hoping the shame feelings will go away sooner than later.

I was planning to wear a dress with tights and a long sweater. I suppose I’ll have to just try it on in the morning before leaving to make sure it will work. Of my diapers that aren’t the printed abdl ones, I have megamax, tena slip maxi, or InControl elite to choose from. My partner is coming with me to the store so it will be nice to have some company with me!

Currently wearing a Cuddlz unicorn print ? I absolutely adore the pastel colors. Decent absorbency too!

Lol I should give that a try. It might earn me a spankin tho ?

At work ?

Butt pats for sure ? something super sexy and embarrassing when your partner knows you have a diaper on and knows you’re going to use it. Sometimes they ask me if I’m still dry (which of course I always say yes) haha

Of course!

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Minor. I can go decent periods of time without pull-ups/diapers. But I feel less stressed in at least a pull-up.

Very open with my partner and that’s about it

It sort of depends on the current state of mind I’m in lol. Sometimes I feel really embarrassed, gross, and weird. Other times it’s exciting, or almost uneventful. I avoid messing but sometimes my partner is into it so I make an exception. That always makes me feel so embarrassed and little. But they enjoy it ?‍♀️

I’ve been wearing pull ups nearly 24/7 for the last few months. Tomorrow I’m going to do some holiday shopping and I’m thinking about wearing an actual diaper for shopping. It would be nice to do my shopping without having to stop at all for the bathroom. But I feel so so nervous about wearing a diaper. Im sure no one will notice but it’s kind of nerve wracking for me. Any tips to get over it? I plan on going to a shopping center about an hour from where I live to avoid running in to people I know.

Recently I’ve been experiencing some combination incontinence. When I’m out and about I like to wear pull-ups to deal with this. I still try to make it to the bathroom so a lot of times I only wet my pull-ups a little bit. I have been pulling down my wet pull-ups to use the toilet but pull them right back up until they’re getting close to the leaking point, after about 2-3 hours. There’s just something so naughty feeling about using the bathroom and walking back out with a wet pull-up. I wish I had the confidence to wear actual diapers out in public. I bet that feeling is even better.

I’ve been wearing off and on for almost a decade. I didn’t have any control issues until I started taking a certain medication. It was decided the benefits of the medication outweighed the risk so I’m still taking it. Some days it’s hard, putting on pull-ups in stead of underwear. But I still have enough control that I can go without protection, just not for an extended amount of time.

I totally understand this feeling. I have a supportive partner which is really helpful. But sometimes I get that weird shameful feeling when I change my diaper or if my partner changes me. I started out being a DL but recently have been struggling with some real incontinence issues. I wish I had a solution for you. But you’re not alone in these feelings.

Update I had few events/appointments this last week that I wasn’t totally comfortable attending in diapers/pull ups. And wow was that harder than I thought it would be! I find that I can only go about 45 minutes without feeling like I have to go use the bathroom. I had one close call that resulted in slightly damp panties. But at least it was on my walk back into my house. It felt so great to put on a thick diaper after being out without any protection. Good to know that I can still manage without but definitely confirms it, I belong in diapers.

Hello everyone! Still wearing the pull-ups to work and out of the house most days. At home I’ve taken a liking to wearing actual diapers during the day time. Just pull-ups at night. No bedwetting has happened but I still have the desire to become a bed wetter. I’m just hesitant as I’m at a level of continence (or incontinence?) during the day that I’m okay with. I’m not wanted to make that any more severe. Although I’m sure if I keep up the diaper use it might happen anyway ?

Hi everyone! Little update! Still dealing with the same issues. I’m still wearing pull-ups to work and outside of the house most of the time. But I have been wearing actual diapers at home during the day. I’m not struggling with any nighttime accidents so only pull-ups at night. So overall things are going pretty well. My partner is still super supportive.

I’ve been trying out different types of pull-ups for at work and when out-and-about. When at home I’ve been wearing incontrol active air. I’ve been working up the courage to wear the active air outside of the house, but I’m still feeling nervous about someone noticing. I experience some mild urge and stress incontinence and can still make it to the bathroom on time most of the time.