when I can. If I am out and can find a private stall. Many of the urinals are so tiny I do not want to take the chance of missing
At home, I am usually in a babydoll, dress or skirt so there, too
Most people will have no idea you are wearing unless you make it obvious that you are in a diaper. I wear diapers to college a lot and have never been found out. Plus the more you feel uncomfortable in a diaper around people the more people will notice something is wrong with you. Just try to take small steps like wear a diaper while going for a walk or to the store. The more you wear the more comfortable you'll be.
Let me start by admitting that I am a corporate litigation partner in a major law firm. I have never practiced as a criminal defense attorney.
Consider that even without specific laws against people older than toddlers wearing exposed diapers in public, should prosecutors decide to make an example of somebody they could well bring adults showing off diapers in a public park to trial.
Would you want to be wearing a diaper the first time you made pals in a holding cell?
Please think about the explanations parents of children seeing your diapers in a park will need to offer. What if such a parent is related to a police chief or DA?
Members of DD have proudly worn diapers in public during events of which everyone was warned things could get weird. Other DD members have true stories of being mistreated for innocently wearing diapers.
Just consider the downside risks.