Soiled diaper, messy diaper, poopie diaper, potty diaper, loaded diaper...all the same and ohhh so pleasurable for me in the solitude of the early morning before my wife gets out of bed. This morning's diaper was verrrrrry soiled. Currently in my office with a wet Tena Ultra diaper, no soiled diapers at work. I can wet my diapers without anyone noticing, but a soiled diaper around my colleagues is against my "Diaper Code of Ethics."