DaStickman

I have Tuesday and Wednesday all to myself through the day. My whole family depart for childcare / before school care / work at 7am and aren’t back until 5pm. As such, I make a concerted effort to be padded and during that window oftentimes find myself wanting to poop. Right now, I’m enjoying quite a full LFB Blushing Baby Pink diaper, with a colourful press stud diaper cover and locking plastic pants. The key sits within a timed locker, I’m locking it for one hour increments and extending as it unlocks. Ideally I would like to remain padded in this state for several more hours, however I’ll see how I go. The clean up will be a lengthy affair!

Hello everyone, and thank you in advance for reading my reply! I’m a life long ABDL with thoughts having emerged into my subconscious as young as 16. Nearly 30 years later and I’m still working out what “balance” looks like. My wife was told when we were dating, only a couple months into the relationship. She even went so far as to post on here seeking advice to understand. I found that awesome at the time and it filled me with hope that her open mindedness meant indulgence and involvement. Sadly, this was never to be to the levels I was anticipating. There is a baseline acceptance of me as I am, diapers and all. Periods of therapy and counselling have allowed me to be accepting of the status quo - and the long term implications of where I want her to be versus where she will be in the context of a supporting partner. I had always saw myself as a DL with no AB tendencies, however that has shifted over the course of my journey. As that shift has occurred, I’ve asked more of my wife to support me. However due to her limitations (with her own bouts of counselling) she will only assist with the occasional diapering. She’s super conscious of the wet diaper smell and often requests I change or remove my diapers entirely over the course of the night. Having had 3 kids with our youngest just getting into toilet training, it’s been 9 years of dealing with babies and diapers. Because of that, she’s as far away from being interested in my diapers as she ever was. Will she show interest in the future? I am not convinced but I am equally accepting of this. During a joint counselling session, she even went so far as to express consent with me finding a play partner / mommy figure to indulge my side. However I’m very monogamous and have struggled internally with that acceptance. In my mind it’s playing out as “but I don’t want anyone else, I want you”. She doesn’t understand that. Ultimately, life is about balance. Balancing the family life and the adult life and the “little” life. I will not part from the world I’ve built with her for sake of a want to pursue wearing diapers and being little more often. Thanks!

Well played... ???

Hi Oznl, Happy New Year. When I read this post my heart sank for you and the frustrating experience you’ve endured over the years of your marriage. Only for so long can you realistically block the urges that are the authentic you to please others - a girlfriend, spouse, partner or wife. Im glad you’ve approached this level headedly and are actively challenging her on the “issues” that she has with you wanting to wear. In your eyes - it hurts no one and it’s a mechanism for stress relief. How could that possibly cause harm? I’ve experienced a similar breakdown in understanding with my wife and had my own “line in the sand” moment. I’ve taken to being upfront, honest and my authentic self. There are differences in approach and reaction in our two stories but I’ll say that it’s helping strengthen our relationship. I wish you the best of luck. Cheers

@dl-kc

A very well written and concise article - thank you for the link!!

Yeah it's just a re-badged 15 stone babies...

OP, you posted the thread and within six hours from first to most recent post you've written off what most in the community consider a very reliable provider. I dread to imagine your stress if you dealt with AB Universe or Aww So Cute!! Relax... You will be responded to I'm sure of it.

There shouldn't be any reason why you can't contact Padding Plus, however they are a distributor of Snuggies and are based in Melbourne, Australia. I assume you live in Aus yes? They have a mobile advertised on the website which is almost always answered. Best of luck

I've spoken with the owner, he's posted on Fetlife over a number of groups that shipment cleared earlier than expected - thus making the availability a touch earlier...

Shipment in March? An Aussie based company PaddingPlus (Google will link you) is selling them, with deliveries and pickup available next week. Looking forward to my substantial order, will post a review and pics if time allows!

My one and only 'unintentional' poopy diaper came from some bad reaction to food the previous night. I was watching TV on the couch in an aww so cute (for me, these are quite restricted dips... Almost too tight in all areas) dip, suffice to say that I had what could truly be described as a blowout!! Unbeknownst to me at the moment of explosion, some had managed to push out from the side gathers and into my pants. It's fair to say, the next half hour or so was containment, management and a long hot shower. Had I been wearing an Abena M4 or even a Bambino or ABU, that may not have happened. I learned the true value of proper fitting dips!!

There are a number of groups on Fetlife which has had a number of recent ABDL meet ups - link here https://fetlife.com/groups/94265 which - which should get you interested. If not on there, add yourself and say hi... I'm on there as dastickman if you wanna add me

Hello! Is this meant to mean something? Welcome anyways!

I just had myself a messy diaper... Have got the day off work so have decided to pop myself in front of the xbox and play GTA5 whilst diapered... Might enjoy this a while yet!