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  1. In A Word... 1 2 3 4

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  2. Down There! 1 2 3

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  3. Relationships 1 2 3 4

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  4. Nap Time! 1 2

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  5. Socially Acceptable 1 2 3 4

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  6. Crossing Over 1 2

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  7. Does That Make Me Crazy... 1 2

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  8. Vices 1 2

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  9. Snack Time!

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    • I really look forward to my twice daily poo poos in my nappy. I love pooping!
    • Thank you so much, dear Littlebedwetterboy! Yes! Feedback feels very good. Besides, without this feedback, you have no idea whether you are being understood. Whether the characters and actions are being portrayed correctly. I am also interested in whether others find their own experiences reflected or, as you put it, were able to gain new perspectives on the affected characters. Tom's freezing up over his own helplessness is very typical. The fact that Tom encounters so many other bedwetters is a "literary" exaggeration. I personally only experienced this a few times myself. But it was always very important to me. "How do other parents deal with this?" "How do the affected children?" For Tom, it is a MIRROR of himself. Through this, he realizes how others perceive him in this situation. Because this is such an authentic experience, I repeatedly give in to the temptation to show Tom: "This is how you appear to others," especially to the caregivers. Poor Pia, for example. She might hope that nobody saw her diaper pants; except for her sister, maybe nobody knows. She lives in fear that it could come out tonight. In reality, for someone who goes through the day—and especially the evening—with a bit of interest and curiosity, there are far too many clues. Tom is not the only one putting two and two together here. But he won't say anything. We all know it. The other mothers might know it too. They won't say anything either, and that is an additional burden. For both of them! Tom realizes: "It is that obvious," and probably for me too. Mike surely knows already. Paul? Ashley? How do you behave correctly then? How ridiculous do I look right now? Tomorrow, my Superman pajamas will look even sillier to the others. Even without a diaper. It will happen more often that Tom is confronted with fellow sufferers like this in order to understand himself better. This realization is also part of his freezing up. So please forgive me if I deviate from the absolute truth from time to time. In the story, I mainly want to make the feelings understandable. The shame, the fear that you have yourself. The curiosity of others. The overwhelmed state of the caregivers. The malicious joy of other mothers. The arrogance of some doctors.     Thank you so much for taking the time. For my story. For Tom. And for your comments, which offer a glimpse into your soul.
    • I love all the range of Kiddo range of nappies. I'm excited to get them tomorrow. I kinda have a nappy addiction. I promsied myself I wouldn't buy any more nappies for 8 weeks but couldn't help myself again. I think I have too many lol.  
    • I'm relatively new to the area and I've heard the Phoenix area has somewhat of an active ABDL scene. Can anyone confirm this?
    • Oh it is possible because I've been in nappies a lot these past 10 years and once I learned to keep my sphincters completely relaxed and unclenched after peeing I've noticed a further progression in loss of my continence particularly this past year where I have gone 24/7 with a noticeable smaller bladder and uncontrollable weeping which is only really noticeable if I concentrate on the end of my penis and I can feel the trickle of pee. My bladder does feel different, there isnt any pressure when I pee now,  there aren't any sphincter spasms/clenching when I've peed and I'm just letting out small dribbles and gushes out all the time with uncontrollable weeping in-between, I tried going without a nappy and after 10 minutes had small droplets of pee in my underwear. With pooping I poo without any clenching also, just let it slip wherever I am which feels wonderful. But I don't think incontinence is doable in a year like in the 12 month program says. It takes a long long time to learn to be unclenched and shrink your bladder to be able to wet at the slightest urge in dribbles and gushes because naturally your bladder will hold urine so you'll just larger voids and keep control but once you wet at the slightest urge like I have its my continence has gone downhill rather fast.
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