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    • Second attempt at a story on here.   I went super silly the first time. Going to try for something a little better this time.   Borrowing from a sub-theme that I've seen a handful of times in the forums, over the years, but putting my own spin on it.  Hope everyone enjoys.  Feedback always appreciated, please just be decent about it.   Night Moves  Chapter 1 Hunter shifted uncomfortably and then slowly swung his legs over the side of the bed.  He tried to move as gently as he could, but he could already hear Jake sigh.  “Damn.” He thought as he sprinted to the bathroom.  The relief was incredible as he emptied his bladder, but he also felt guilty.  He was really trying not to wake up his fiancé, but it wasn't easy.  Jake was a light sleeper.     The next morning, Hunter sat uncomfortably as he ate his breakfast. The tension that morning had been unbearable. He knew Jake was mad, Jake was only like this when he was mad. He just wasn't sure why exactly. He hadn't done or said anything, but every time he tried to ask he was dismissed with a non answer.    “I have to head out early for that meeting, can you drop the boys off at school?”   “Of course, babe, but can we-” Hunter quickly realized he was talking to his soon to be husband's ample backside, as he walked out the door. No kiss, barely a goodbye.  He would have to sort this out sooner than later.     It was unusual for the two of them to bicker.  They were not your typical couple.  There was an age gap with Jake being 27 and Hunter being 38.   That was never a problem for them, but obviously others had their own feelings. Most of the family had been supportive, anyway.  Both were very career oriented and responsible, so there were never any concerns about maturity or power dynamics.  Neither looked their age, often being mistaken for an older college dude and a 30 year old, so that wasn't much of an issue either.  They got along really well and moved in together pretty quickly. They have been dating for 2 years and engaged for only a few months.    Jake was responsible for his two younger brothers, who lived with the couple since they moved in together and who Jake had been caring for over the past 5 years. Their father had left many years earlier and their mother was doing Federal time for financial crimes.  From the moment that Jake and Hunter became serious, Hunter loved the boys as if they were his own brothers. They loved him back. It was a very smooth transition to all living under one roof. Hunter insisted upon it.  He and Jake both had good jobs, there was no reason they couldn't live together comfortably, as a family of four.   Luke, 15, and Mason, 12, were actually pretty well adjusted kids for all that they have been through. Luke was the better athlete, pretty much a star at three sports. Mason was also a little bit of an athlete, but more of the gamer type.  Both were very strong academically, not geniuses, but very solid grades and no bad reports.   Mason came down first and fixed himself some breakfast. He sat back down at the table. He was usually the first up of the two, as he was the more organized and punctual one.  Luke was a little less organized and definitely more of a slob by comparison.  He was also habitually late.     “Hunter, can you please talk to him again?”   “Still?”   “Look.  I don't want to bring it up to him. I know It's not his fault that it happens, but he still has to do his part. It's getting kind of unfair to me.”   “No, it's definitely unfair to you.  I'm really sorry, Mace.  I'll bring it up with him so it doesn't seem like you tattled.”   “Thanks, man.”  Mason smiled and Hunter smiled back. These two coming into his life or just so much more of a bonus than just getting the man of his dreams.  They were good kids and the brothers that he never had.    Luke came running down the stairs about 10 minutes later. Half dressed. He had no shoes, his shirt over his shoulder, and a pair of jeans on.  "Almost managed to dress himself".  Hunter thought.   “Lucas, I'm sure you were well aware that we have to go soon so just grab something to go okay? So I can drop you guys off.”   “Got.  I'm sorry.” And Hunter could tell that he really was. It wasn't entirely his fault. Most guys his age didn't have to deal with mornings like his. It was unfair, but psychological scars don't always heal and growing bodies sometimes take longer to catch up with themselves.     Shortly after, the boys were loaded into Hunter's SUV.  He dropped off Mason at the middle school before heading to the high school campus a few miles down the road to drop off Luke. He nudged Luke to take out his earbud for a second.    “I'm not saying this to embarrass you or make you feel bad, but I really need you to do a little better at emptying your bathroom pail.  It's not fair to Mason and it's not sanitary.”   Luke turned red.  “Is he really complaining to you now?”   “No.  The smell is pretty obvious when you go in there, bud. You know I drop off clean towels for you guys all the time and take care of your laundry. I notice these things.”   “It sucks.”   Hunter pulled over in the front of the parking lot, away from the entrance, so they could have a minute to talk.    “I know it does, bro.  It's not fair. At your age you should be focusing on your sports, girls, school, your future.  I hate what your parents' actions have done to your life, but the reality is that you aren't dry at night.  You wet the bed, you need diapers, and those diapers are your responsibility to make sure they are disposed of and the bin is emptied regularly.”   “You're right, I'm sorry.  I just-  I thought it would be better, Hunter. I thought I would be getting better by now. I'm worse. It's more nights than not.”   “Look I won't say it's not hard on you. It limits your social life a little bit, it makes things a little awkward for you, but nobody knows outside of our household and it's just something you have to deal with for now. Just keep being you and don't let it get you down too much.”   They hugged it out and then Hunter dropped off his soon to be brother-in-law and headed to work. He felt a little better after that interaction. At least he could be useful to one of the boys in that family today. What could have Jake so pissed on a day like this?    Jake sat back in his chair and relaxed. It was stressful, but he got through it. A huge presentation, he nailed it, but he was exhausted. He still had no idea how he pulled it off. He pulled out his phone and looked at his screen. He looked at the picture of him and Hunter. He loved Hunter, that man was his whole world. The way he took in the boys without a second thought. The way they had made their own little family at home. It was all so perfect, but it couldn't keep going on this way.  The nights of inadequate sleep, dragging during the day at work, was becoming an issue. One that he did not have an immediate solution for.    That weekend, Jake was relieved that Hunter tended to the house and the boys and let him sleep in. It had been twice that night. Just spread out enough to break up what could have been a restful sleep. Hunter took Luke to his baseball game, Mason was with a friend and Jake had the house to himself. He spent the entire morning on the internet researching.    It wasn't his fault. That's what Jake had to keep reminding himself. Hunter was a good man, it wasn't his fault. The doctor was positive everything was normal and all the testing confirmed it. The doctor lightly joked that Hunter was just getting old before his time.  The frequent trips to the bathroom at night we're not always the case. Admittedly, Hunter got up to use the bathroom a little more often than Jake, even at first.  It was only every so often so Jake didn't think that much of it.    It wasn't until they moved in together that Jake quickly realized the extent of his partner’s calls of nature.  At first it was a minor annoyance, but now it has become serious. To the point where Jake had started to prod Hunter about getting everything checked out. Hunter was a bit resistant, he was a proud adult man, but even he admitted that he got up a lot to go. Still, he was insistent that he never had any trouble going and that he was never that close to having an accident. Regardless, Jake insisted. The doctor's analysis satisfied Hunter, but not Jake. Jake still couldn't get a good night's sleep.   Last month, Jake even started sleeping on the couch.  It became an uncomfortable situation for everyone. The boys thought they were fighting, but Jake didn't want to embarrass Hunter so he didn't dispel the notion. Admittedly, he also missed his man. He wanted to cuddle, he wanted to be able to indulge in all the things that come with a relationship. He was starting to run out of ideas. After two weeks he finally moved back into the bedroom.  Hunter promised he would try harder to not get up as much. The first night he didn't get up at all.  For a few days, he cut down his liquid intake, used the bathroom right before lights out.  Jake admitted that Hunter really tried. Unfortunately, the reprieve only lasted a couple days. On the 4th night he made a trip. Same thing the next night. Same thing a couple nights later. The last week had been a mixed bag but there was at least one trip each night. Most nights it was two. One night it was actually three, because they had gone to a friend's house and consumed some beverages of the adult variety. They had walked home, because the house was down the road, but Jake knew they were in for a long night.    The low spot came, however, only a few nights ago. Hunter knew that Jake had a big day at work. He didn't want to disturb him. He knew he was already taking so much from his partner. He woke up at 1:00 a.m. It would have been the worst time to get up and go because it would have broken up Jake's sleep. Hunter ignored it and closed his eyes. But he had to go bad, really bad. He fought it, somehow managed to will himself back to sleep.  Only 2 hours later, both of them were up in shock. To Hunter's utter humiliation, he wet the bed.  Jake wanted to say something in frustration, but he saw how dejected Hunter was and he quickly realized that Hunter must have tried to hold his pee for him. How could he be mad at him for that?   He had kept a diary. He wanted the receipts if he ever had to confront Hunter about the situation. After googling a bunch of different things, he came upon a Reddit thread. At first he laughed about it, thought it was some kind of weird kink, but then he read… and read… and read…
    • The heavy wetting is problematic for side sleeping. As mentioned, het a full mattress protector AND a washable bed pad. For really heavy wetting (like I have) also consider a booster. Something that will help wick your pee to dryer areas of your diaper. I like the large or extra large eternadry boosters from Northshore. Also consider wearing good diaper cover over your diaper too, but make sure there's an absorbent layer in between your diaper and the cover. Lastly, whenbyou wake up at night needing to pee, do not move. Just let your bladder empty, and if you leak then so what. Stay in that same position and try to fall nack asleep. After enough times you should start pee more easily, and wventually without waking up.
    • I also tried making one once. I used a bath towel and plastic shopping bag. I made sure to tuck in the edges and it actually did work, but only for a sgirt wgilr. Eventually my dad came knocking on my bedroom door and I had to take it off in a hurry.
    • I find having my wife ask me in public if Im wet and need a change humiliating as well.  And when she pulls out a diaper to change into I race to the bathroom trying to not let it be seen.    Also if my wife comments that "it looks like I need a change" Im immediately self conscious about how it looks.
    • I don't really have a choice in that. Being incontinent it's going to happen anyways. Though the real question is would I wear Depends again if someone paid me $20, even knowing it's going to leak within the next 2 hours. If I need an extra $20, then yes I would. Otherwise no.
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