Being ok with myself messing my diaper.

[Young1]

So today marks the 3rd or 4th time messing my diaper. I'm finding it difficult to accepting myself of doing it. But today I am starting to be ok with it if I do it every so often. My husband  doesn't know I have messed my diapers  except for 1 time, I told him I wanted to know what it felt like. And he was fine with it.

How do you messers mess your diaper, position wise, full standing, on your knees, or slightly bent at the knees? Just curious if there is a good way to position without it getting everywhere. 🤔 

I may start doing it more often to see if I will ever be ok with myself messing in my diaper on a regular basis. 

Any advice is appreciated 🖖

[SpiderBaby]

33 minutes ago, Young1 said:

So today marks the 3rd or 4th time messing my diaper. I'm finding it difficult to accepting myself of doing it. But today I am starting to be ok with it if I do it every so often. My husband  doesn't know I have messed my diapers  except for 1 time, I told him I wanted to know what it felt like. And he was fine with it.

How do you messers mess your diaper, position wise, full standing, on your knees, or slightly bent at the knees? Just curious if there is a good way to position without it getting everywhere. 🤔 

I may start doing it more often to see if I will ever be ok with myself messing in my diaper on a regular basis. 

Any advice is appreciated 🖖

That's awesome Big Brother, congratulations! I'm glad your husband is okay with it. I'm really glad you like it too. Big hugs! My advice would just be to go poopies in whichever way you feel most comfortable in. Especially cuz that's how babies and toddlers do it and that's what they like the most. However I wouldn't do it too much unless you want to lose full control of your bowels, depending on your situation and how you feel about it, that can be rough to get used to. But if you find that you like the idea of losing control then I wish you the best of luck. Just be careful because something like that can't be undone.

[Goodnitesboi]

I also like to mess my diaper every so often, but I'll usually do it after I've wet my diaper as well. 

I'll mess either hunched over or in a squatting position. 

[Whatsthatsmell]

I’ve been pooping my diapers for 20+ years.  The last 10 I have pooped almost exclusively in diapers and have had zero control issues.  I bend over the counter and fill my diaper every morning.  The toilet really hurts my heomoroids.  

[Moochie]

I mess my diaper in a very natural position by just relaxing. Sure, sometimes I have to push, but usually relax with a brief glassy eye gaze as I feel my poopie fill my diaper. It is difficult to mess my diaper sitting down, I have to lift up from my chair while I go potty in my diapee and then sit back down for "The Big Squish." I have a warm "Big Squish" right now that feels soooo good. Fortunately I don't mind changing and cleaning up after I messed my diaper.

[willnotwill]

Usually standing (don't really need to squat or bendover).   Sometimes I've had to do it in the car.

[rusty pins]

I may mess my diaper a couple times a month, usually on a weekend when I know I'll have the house to myself most of the day.  That gives me time to do it, enjoy it for a while, get cleaned up and air out the house.  It's a mindset I get into, knowing early in the week that I'll be able to poop my diaper that coming Saturday.  Usually within 15 minutes of getting the house to myself, I'll put on my diaper and wet it. Usually knowing I'll be pooping my diaper, I'll hold off using the toilet.  I log onto DailyDiapers and start reading the forums.  I will stand, squat slightly and push out a load in my diaper.  Unlike Moochie, I usually have to really push and push to get it out, even when I have to go.  Same thing when I sit on the toilet to go.  Standing and squatting a bit helps it all end up in the seat of my diaper without leaking out.  Very loose stools might be a different matter, though.  Sometimes I may walk around the house a little feeling the mess in my diaper bump around in back, other times I slowly sit down and feel it mush and flatten.  A very liberal coating of Vaseline all over my butt, between my butt crack, legs and scrotum makes the clean up much easier as the mess won't stick to my skin as much.  Detachable hand held shower helps a lot with clean up.

Some people mess all the time in their diapers, some mess once a day or so, and others mess when they feel like it.  It all depends on the individual.  Young1, my friend, I'm glad your hubby is OK with you doing it, and also glad you are beginning to feel OK with messing your diaper.  Just like when a person first starts wearing diapers, they are often nervous and have some trepidations.  Maybe the feelings they are wierd or sick or something.  The more they do it the more comfortable they feel.  Eventually those original feelings give way to acceptance and enjoyment as that person branches out more and more.  I say listen to your feelings, do it when you feel like pooping your diaper, enjoy it and don't overdo it if your feelings start to turn negative,  If that should happen, back off a little.  You know, "too much of a good thing". 

[Spanky]

I'm glad that your husband is okay with it and that you are exploring it. I usually poop into my diaper standing up and then sit down in it and let it squish all over my butt and up between my legs to my nut sack.

Sometimes I'll poop while sitting down in my recliner. That requires more pushing.  I enjoy the feeling as it comes out and usually flows to my crotch area and fills that area up between my legs.  It usually stops at my nut sack.   It's an awesome feeling,  gooing poopy while sitting in a diaper that is already messy.  Second and even a third poopy in the same diaper is absolutely incredible. 

Sometimes,  pooping while walking is amazing,  too, feeling the load bulge out the seat of my diaper and move around as I walk.

Hopefully it helps. 

[le Hollandais]

I like to mess my diaper standing, knees slightly bent. I have to push. Thus I mess a little at a time. It makes messing more fun. And a wet diaper makes it even better.

[Three Rivers]

I only mess my diaper in the privacy of my own home, but as far as positions go normally standing. But I have been on my hands and knees to fill my diaper as well.

[astrodiaper]

I'm okay with it once in a while, but with what I suspect is IBS-D, I don't care for it. I didn't mind it when I was younger, and there are times where it was tolerable. More often than not, if I want to wet, I gotta poop too. On rare occasions, it's coming whether or I want it got or not. Thankfully, those are times where I do have a diaper on.  

[Young1]

Today marks the 5th or 6th time I've messed, and I'm still finding it hard to find a position where I'm most relaxed to mess. 

But alas I was able to and enjoyed all of 30 seconds with the diaper still on, til I took it off. I'm terrified of getting a rash so sitting and squishing around in it isn't in my books to do. At least not right now. 

 

[Moochie]

Many years ago there was a popular psychology self-help book titled "I'm ok, You're ok." Well...t's early morning and you know what that means for me. My Seni Quatro diaper covered with a pink Trifects pant is wet and messy. So comfy and soothing this morning. I'm ok!!!!!!! but wet and poopie.

[Whatsthatsmell]

On 4/21/2025 at 1:14 PM, Young1 said:

Today marks the 5th or 6th time I've messed, and I'm still finding it hard to find a position where I'm most relaxed to mess. 

But alas I was able to and enjoyed all of 30 seconds with the diaper still on, til I took it off. I'm terrified of getting a rash so sitting and squishing around in it isn't in my books to do. At least not right now. 

 

It takes a little while to get a rash.  Even in an ammonia situation.  You should be able to sit in it for 20 min without issue.   And if you do get a rash they really aren’t that bad. 

[wellpaddedagain]

On 2/17/2025 at 10:47 AM, Young1 said:

So today marks the 3rd or 4th time messing my diaper. I'm finding it difficult to accepting myself of doing it. But today I am starting to be ok with it if I do it every so often. My husband  doesn't know I have messed my diapers  except for 1 time, I told him I wanted to know what it felt like. And he was fine with it.

How do you messers mess your diaper, position wise, full standing, on your knees, or slightly bent at the knees? Just curious if there is a good way to position without it getting everywhere. 🤔 

I may start doing it more often to see if I will ever be ok with myself messing in my diaper on a regular basis. 

Any advice is appreciated 🖖

Congrats on the diaper messing 😊

my advice? Just lean into it. My wife knows I mess but I’ve never done it around her.
I don’t really feel guilty. “You like what you like” (her words, not mine). 
As for position. I LOVE getting on my hands and knees and letting go after holding it in for just a little bit to make that sense of relief all the more enjoyable. 
Welcome to the wonderful world of messing 😉

[Young1]

5 hours ago, wellpaddedagain said:

Congrats on the diaper messing 😊

my advice? Just lean into it. My wife knows I mess but I’ve never done it around her.
I don’t really feel guilty. “You like what you like” (her words, not mine). 
As for position. I LOVE getting on my hands and knees and letting go after holding it in for just a little bit to make that sense of relief all the more enjoyable. 
Welcome to the wonderful world of messing 😉

Thanks! It's definitely an experience that's for sure, im starting to like it but only on occasion type of thing.