Wow, this is almost exactly my situation.
wish I could help out the OP but my wife is pretty awesome about keeping me supplied in diapers. There was even one time when money was super tight and we were arguing over what to spend money on and she was STILL ok with me getting some more diapers!
I’ve tried all three and in my opinion the ABUniverse ones are probably the ones you’re looking for. Give them a try 😉
they swell, they’re squishy, they hold a ton.
ABU Europe edition booster pads are the biggest and softest in my opinion. And I don’t know what it is about them but they swell a CRAZY amount when you wet. I mean like they double in thickness. It’s ridiculous. I never buy anything else for boosters.
Sometimes I ask but I really don’t think I need to, she’s fine with me wearing. The times I don’t ask she doesn’t even blink. I think when I ask it’s more of a validation of her acceptance. Either way, it’s pretty cool to have a spouse that is pretty accepting.