Asking for advice about useing vaseline in special time as well as improving that time.(NSFW)

[Solomon_Wishes]

Hey everyone,

I am guessing for most people you can already guess what I mean by special time, but just in case you don't I mean masturbation. Hopefully, this subject doesn't upset anyone from reading this post but masturbation is completely natural and no one should ever be embarrassed about talking about it or doing it. Either way, I have marked the title as not safe for work, just in case.

I am wondering what are the up and downsides of using vaseline while masturbating in a diaper. Will the diaper absorb it or anything like that?

I want to use vaseline because when I masturbate in my diaper I find the tip of my you know what gets sore and it can feel like a little bit of burning if I have masturbated a few times over the week which can make peeing a little uncomfortable. I don't have any STD's or anything like that, I know this for a fact. It's just from the friction of the rubbing I am pretty sure. But this has discouraged me from doing it very often, I will leave it a week or more in between to stop from being so sore.

I use a wireless vibrator which has been really nice in making the special time feel even better and has reduced friction from traditional methods.

As for improving my special time I find as a diaper lover there are very limited resources around on the internet in terms of videos and such. I find it very understandable that a lot of people wouldn't want to post videos on public sites whilst being involved in pornographic videos for one, let alone but in such a video and be diapered. I don't imagen it would help if you were able to be identified in such a situation for obvious reasons. But none the less, I wonder if anyone could point me in the right direction to find such resources. It does make me feel a little uncomfortable asking about such a thing, but it's not like there are many other places that have a community of diaper lovers to ask such a question.

One last question to anyone with experience of using vibrators as I'm sure there may be a few, are ones that are wired any better than wireless ones like I have at the moment, maybe a bit stronger in vibration? I am not sure if it is worth investing in one or not.

As always on the forums here I really appreciate people who take the time to read my posts and also reply to them. Thanks

 

[want4mor]

Trying to masturbate while being diapered is hard (pun intended). The wicking material is definitely not a low friction layer. Putting some petroleum jelly inside will help but it doesn’t dry out and will be slick for a long time. Not sure I could handle that if keeping the diaper on. If you take it off after “loading” it then what does it matter? The load will usually get absorbed over time but with both the jelly and the load it is a mess. Use some k-y jelly. It washes off easier and it is water based. 
If you are looking for diaper porn, go to pornhub. They have a variety of diaper related videos. To each his/her own, but I like the ones where the girl finds out that her girlfriend is into diapers. Then things get super sexy from there. But I digress. They have a lot there. Hope this helps. Good luck. 

[wetste]

There Is imo no better feeling than smothering loads of baby cream and I mean lots all around the penis and bum. And just humping away. It's my favouritest way really slippy and slidey.

As for porn. Porn hub as mentioned 

[Crinklz Kat]

Used to use vaseline.  But it wasn't the greatest solution.  While it resolved the "rug burn" issue, it does interfere with the primary function of the diaper!  I then moved onto hand lotion, then baby lotion.   I prefer the lotion over vaseline because it's easier to apply - just squirt a bunch  up front, apply, and done.  It also doesn't interfere with absorption as much as the vaseline does.   And it just smells so much nicer too. 

I get the lotion now from the warehouse club to keep cost to a minimum.

19 hours ago, want4mor said:

Trying to masturbate while being diapered is hard (pun intended). The wicking material is definitely not a low friction layer.

This was the one thing I really loved about the Attends of the 1980s...  the micropore liner!   Yes, it was a nightmare for long term wear, but for pleasure seekers, once it got wet inside, it was a dream cum true!    I have 6 or 7 left of the institutional version left in my "archives".  Every few years I'll take one out to relive the past for a bit.

 

[A_Person]

Vaseline would work but maybe try and buy some lube instead.

As for vibrators, It can honestly change how you masturbate and makes that fun time in diapers a lot more interesting as you dont need to use your hand like normal. I would suggest looking at lovehoney, they sell really good toys at a decent price although they are somewhat basic, perfect for beginners or those curious. 

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31087 this is the one i use personally and it's great imo but its definitely on the expensive side.

Also don't be afraid to ask sexual questions. Everyone has insecurities but it's completely ok to be curious and experiment in the bedroom. 

[Transfusionelle]

Solomon take it from a sissy that masturbated for many years before finally finding a girlfriend that taught me the joys of a good prostate massage and the use of butt plugs. there ar many other ways to orgasm without irritating the head of your penis. Been there done that. I loved the feeling of releasing a good load into my diaper for years after I was divorced. The number one rule is to get off with the least pain and or exerting yourself. You can get a suction cup dildo and use it in the shower and also very efficient way to keep clean. But try to use something a bit less heavy than petroleum jelly. That stuff stains sheets too. Vibrators are great and porno stimulates the senses. Nothing wrong with watching porn and giving the crank a yank. As long as you get off with little or no pain, do what makes you peak !!

[want4mor]

On 5/6/2020 at 8:10 PM, Crinklz Kat said:

 

On 5/6/2020 at 8:10 PM, Crinklz Kat said:

This was the one thing I really loved about the Attends of the 1980s...  the micropore liner!   Yes, it was a nightmare for long term wear, but for pleasure seekers, once it got wet inside, it was a dream cum true!    I have 6 or 7 left of the institutional version left in my "archives".  Every few years I'll take one out to relive the past for a bit.

 

That brings back a memory I had of when I bought some Attends with the micropore lining! I had ordered some Attends 10 w/Waistband diapers but they got in the regular Attends 10 w/o the waistband. I remember putting them on wondering what it was as I had never felt that lining before. It was weird after wetting it and feeling how slick it was. I never tried to masturbate in those but I guess I should have! Thanks for unlocking that memory! 

[Three Rivers]

I have used Vaseline for years as my normal diaper routine.  I normally coat everything from between my legs starting at the back hole up to and including all my man parts. It have never interfered with my diaper capacity. Ocassionaly I will place some additional lube up front when needed to get off. I normally use some wipes first before I get in the shower for final cleaning. 

[tomcddl]

 

On 6/20/2020 at 11:35 AM, Three Rivers said:

I have used Vaseline for years as my normal diaper routine.  I normally coat everything from between my legs starting at the back hole up to and including all my man parts. It have never interfered with my diaper capacity. Ocassionaly I will place some additional lube up front when needed to get off. I normally use some wipes first before I get in the shower for final cleaning. 

I have used vaseline like you said quite a lot and like it I also use baby oil gel it is easy to put on and use. and if you want a little more you can just squirt a little more down your diaper for a little more slippery feel. 

[feralfreak]

On 5/5/2020 at 10:49 AM, Solomon_Wishes said:

Hey everyone,

I am guessing for most people you can already guess what I mean by special time, but just in case you don't I mean masturbation. Hopefully, this subject doesn't upset anyone from reading this post but masturbation is completely natural and no one should ever be embarrassed about talking about it or doing it. Either way, I have marked the title as not safe for work, just in case.

I am wondering what are the up and downsides of using vaseline while masturbating in a diaper. Will the diaper absorb it or anything like that?

I want to use vaseline because when I masturbate in my diaper I find the tip of my you know what gets sore and it can feel like a little bit of burning if I have masturbated a few times over the week which can make peeing a little uncomfortable. I don't have any STD's or anything like that, I know this for a fact. It's just from the friction of the rubbing I am pretty sure. But this has discouraged me from doing it very often, I will leave it a week or more in between to stop from being so sore.

I use a wireless vibrator which has been really nice in making the special time feel even better and has reduced friction from traditional methods.

As for improving my special time I find as a diaper lover there are very limited resources around on the internet in terms of videos and such. I find it very understandable that a lot of people wouldn't want to post videos on public sites whilst being involved in pornographic videos for one, let alone but in such a video and be diapered. I don't imagen it would help if you were able to be identified in such a situation for obvious reasons. But none the less, I wonder if anyone could point me in the right direction to find such resources. It does make me feel a little uncomfortable asking about such a thing, but it's not like there are many other places that have a community of diaper lovers to ask such a question.

One last question to anyone with experience of using vibrators as I'm sure there may be a few, are ones that are wired any better than wireless ones like I have at the moment, maybe a bit stronger in vibration? I am not sure if it is worth investing in one or not.

As always on the forums here I really appreciate people who take the time to read my posts and also reply to them. Thanks

 

if you cant find diaper sex porn its because you havent been looking,  im not proud of it but i have lots i saved to my hard drive

[PuraVidaDip]

My dermatologist recommended vaseline on my bum for my fecal incontinence. I use it almost nightly on my member. Keep a large jar by my bed. It's the best thing for me to use and I've tried lots. I find that unless you are using a BetterDry/Crinkles, the vaseline works great! Some diapers like the BetterDry fall apart from vaseline.