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Vaseline would work but maybe try and buy some lube instead. As for vibrators, It can honestly change how you masturbate and makes that fun time in diapers a lot more interesting as you dont need to use your hand like normal. I would suggest looking at lovehoney, they sell really good toys at a decent price although they are somewhat basic, perfect for beginners or those curious. www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31087 this is the one i use personally and it's great imo but its definitely on the expensive side. Also don't be afraid to ask sexual questions. Everyone has insecurities but it's completely ok to be curious and experiment in the bedroom.

Basically I've been exploring my little side a lot more with my bf but recently I've had an issue. I've been getting into littlespace so I'd diaper up and I'd start doing some more....adult...things in it. But as soon as I finish I just don't feel little anymore and i have to change back into big clothes since I'm not 24/7, and I don't like it, partly because it feels like a waste of a diaper just to use it for a sexual urge then change. But also because for me those sexual activities are part of the fun of being little and i want to do my deed then just continue doing my thing without feeling big immediately after. Does anyone have any advice?

The paci daddy got me is from LittleForBig, but the box had no sizing info or anything on it so I'm not sure

So me and my boyfriend (well i suppose i should say daddy) have been exploring deeper into the ab side of myself and his to an extent. He's good at being a daddy but not a dom and im a good dom but only in the bedroom so we tend to switch a bit. But today my daddy bought me a paci! I honestly love it and it kinda marks a good starting point for exploring abdl together. But im aware of the teeth related issues that can come from using pacis and rubber bottle tips a lot. So does anyone have any tips on how to avoid the future issues? Tl;dr: daddy bought me a paci, how do i avoid fucking my teeth up in the future?

I'm curious since (obviously) i see a lot of posts that talk about messing in diapers instead of the toilet. But today i had an experience. I was rushing home and i was touching cloth i wasnt diapered and i wouldnt have had time so i rushed to the toilet and all hell broke loose out of my ass! All i could think was "im so glad i didn't do this in a diaper" And it made me wonder, has anyone else had an experience like this? Just overall not a fun messing experience that you're either glad went into the toilet or regret that it didnt

This was a really good read, do you think you would make a part 2? It would be interesting to see the newly broken alex meet his master and what they get up to?

Not wearing right now lol but Abena M4's! They're the second brand of adult diapers i have ever bought (still sorta new around here lol) I'm nearly out though so I think I might try Tykables Overnights or PeekABU's next ;3

I've admitted it before lol, I used to steal diapers out of our guest bedroom (usually reserved for when my baby niece stayed over) in my mid teens as i was first finding my place in this community Somehow i didn't get caught xD

Honestly just draw your favourite animal then colour it with your favouite colours. If you don't feel comfortable with drawing yourself you can use a free lineart base so you just have to colour (tho make sure to credit the artist that made the base you used)

Oof yepp even now it's still weird to me since im not that much of an ab. So basically i met a girl on an online dating site (strange bc im gay) we have everything in common, she's super hot, the perfect girlfriend. We meet up at a bar, drinking and chatting when i end up passing out. I woke up a few hours later in the woman's basement, strapped down to a chair wearing nothing but a diaper. Then she comes into the room and explains that she roofied me in the bar, how im almost the perfect man for her but im just not obedient enough for her, so she's going to change that by making me "her little boy." Then she leaves the room and a giant screen loads up in front of my and starts playing a hypnotism track that will make me completely obedient and obsessed with her so i will do anything that she asks of me. Eventually time progresses and somehow im still keeping control of myself, every so often she (who for the sake of simplicity i'll just call mommy now) comes in to feed me from a bottle and change my diaper. More time passes and i realise the only way i could get away is by playing dumb. So i start being quiet, struggling less and being obedient to her. Doing everything i can to make her think she got what she wanted. At this point mommy would now be dressing me in full abdl clothes, changing my diapers, feeding me, bathing me, playing with me, even giving me an enema. She'd be making sure she's present whenever i mess my diapers so she can film it and all sorts more. Finally, one day i hear mommy talking to somebody and i recognize the voice as belonging to my best friend. And mommy is basically bragging to her, about how her best friend is gone and hes just "my baby" now. Then she takes my friend through to see me and laugh at her as she watches me sat in a crib drawing with crayons. When i get the idea to write a tiny note to my friend in the corner of the drawing and give her the page. My friend then gets taken out of the house and leaves. Then some time later, i hear a lot of commotion in another room, and i found out that my friend had seen my note, and came back to get me out. The commotion stops and my friend rushes into the room as she says she knocked mommy out and starts unlocking the crib as i start sorting myself out to leave. The last thing i do before leaving (and then waking up) is turn on the hypnotic track, strap mommy in the chair and make sure she feels everything i went through, then set up an online dating profile to make sure she'll find a dom who would actually take care of her still. Sorry for the long post just thought this would be interesting

So I haven't really posted in a long while. but i got some tea to spill! First things first: I have a boyfriend, we've only been dating a month, but he's amazing. and one surprising thing is that only after about a week of dating, i felt comfortable enough to tell him about being a DL. Even more surprisingly, is that when i explained it to him, he was completely comfortable with it, and willing to explore it with me as much as i felt comfortable with. He was the reason i was able to go to my local pharmacy and buy a pack of adult diapers (a 12 pack of Tena pants) I've sent him multiple pics of me wearing them, and even a couple of wetting vids, and he even said he found it hot! I think the strangest thing though is that we were watching youtube together when he got curious and ask me to open a particular "adult website" to show me what kind of "abdl videos" i enjoy watching, since he does know that for me, abdl is a sexual kink. This is an opportunity I never thought i would ever be able to explore with someone, or at least be able to explore it so comfortably, I always expected that if I ever told a partner I'd be having to justify myself and try to compromise with them. I truly wasn't prepared for them to be completely fine and just as excited as I am to explore this side of myself. I guess i got lucky with this amazing man!

Ngl i'm not really the type to read online stories or fanfics like this, yet for some reason this particular story really engaged me so massive props Elfy! I genuinely don't know where this is gonna go next, personally i hope jack ends up out the picture, hes just such a typical r/niceguy character, you did a great job writing a "love to hate" character.

Well, I recently came to a strange realisation about why this community (for the lack of better phrasing) turns me on. For some context, All through my life, I have sought comfort in being in control of my surroundings, not in the sense of controlling others, but in the sense of knowing myself, and being sure of my peripherals and the situations I am in. I technically found i had this fetish since i was 14, then it was about the sensual feelings, the sound and feeling of the diapers, the looks of them. and while that definitely is still a major part of being a dl for me. I've recently realised why this might be what turns me on. For the past couple of days I was randomly looking back over some of the daydreams I've had, or even a few of the wet dreams that I can remember, and so many times, i distinctly recall 2 major scenarios playing out, in most of my regular daydreams, some kind of scenario played out where I was forced to make some kind of drastic decision and I was the only one allowed to make the choice, again going back to how i seek comfort in knowing I'm in control of myself. Yet in those other scenarios, I was the helpless one, I was always forced into a situation where i was held against my will, forced to put all my trust into somebody i didn't know at all, except for the fact i knew they had some kind of intentions with me. Normally for most people this would be a complete nightmare yet i always found it intriguing, and somewhat thrilling, the idea of being forced to trust someone while i'm sat completely helpless. The best example would be I've had multiple dreams about being kidnapped, or brainwashed against my will, forced and controlled to give all trust and power to somebody else, and such. (don't look into it too much i don't care about seeking meanings and mantras from dreams, i know they're not real and all it's just an interesting realisation) And in a way, that feeling is a great way to describe being an abdl, because, when you're literally sat in a diaper, there isn't much point trying to make a stand or argue, because no one will take you seriously, and you'll be helpless in front of others. So I guess overall while i definitely do like having control of myself and my actions and surroundings, I guess there is another part of me that finds it thrilling to give that control to somebody else, to have to trust somebody that much and not entirely know what their next action will be. Not only does it explain partly why i'm turned on by diapers and such, it also explains why i am more of a bottom in relationships as well. This was just a weird ramble but I needed to vent a little.

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Hiya, tldr I'm a dl from the uk, not really interested in the ab side of things. I've been a lurker on this site for about 2 years now and i decided I'd finally make an account. to me diapers are mostly a sexual thing as well as for general comfort, i really just enjoy wearing and using them. however there's a few issues: 1: i live with my parents still, but that's an issue I think i can work around. And 2: the only diapers I can wear currently are my baby niece's diapers, I usually go downstairs when everyone else is asleep and grab one, then wear and have fun in diapers without anyone knowing. and I want to actually get some proper adult diapers for a change, something with some capacity to hold as well as fitting my body well. So my question is, what size of diapers should i go for, I'm thinking of getting some abenas in, not pullups, although i've seen loads of different types, like m4's s4's ect. and i don't know what I should be looking for, (if it's needed my waist size is 32")