mamabug Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 So recently, more like a few days ago, I opened up to the guy I'm currently talking too, about my mommy fetish. To say that I was embarrassed, would be an understatement. Usually, when it comes to sex stuff, I'm not shy about it. I'll talk to anyone about anything. But..when it comes to talking to someone outside of the ABDL world, I don't like it, lol. I was shaking, I was avoiding eye contact and everything. I'm comfortable with who I am, so I say, but yet, telling someone that I care about...this side of me...it's very scary. I was scared of being judged, for being called a weirdo, and even worse for being called a pedophile. Now, in all perspective, I KNEW, he wasn't going to go that far, but I did honestly believe he would be weirded out, or something. But, that wasn't the case at all. He was completely okay with it...and it was as if I just told him that my favorite ice cream was cookies n creme. It made me think that most of the time, that is probably how the reaction goes. My ex-boyfriend was a little weirded out at first, but he got over it and actually got a little involved. 2 Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 Congrats on getting your true feelings out. Even if it doesn't "produce" anything at least now you don't have to feel compelled to hide it. Accept every "win" no matter how small- they do add up in the end!' Link to comment
minachan16 Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 It might be that we've come to a point in time where fetishes and kinks are something that we expect our partners have. If anything, I think when your significant other knows that about you, it deepens the relationship. While kink is becoming more and more known in the world, it is still not something you ever want to be public about and it shows how much you trust that person to know your kinks, as well as how much you care for them that you would trust them with that information. Link to comment
Spiderman Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 Well mama bug first off I consider you very brave for even telling him about it. Link to comment
oddlynappied Posted April 13, 2016 Share Posted April 13, 2016 On ?12?/?04?/?2016 at 7:04 AM, mamabug said: So recently, more like a few days ago, I opened up to the guy I'm currently talking too, about my mommy fetish. To say that I was embarrassed, would be an understatement. Usually, when it comes to sex stuff, I'm not shy about it. I'll talk to anyone about anything. But..when it comes to talking to someone outside of the ABDL world, I don't like it, lol. I was shaking, I was avoiding eye contact and everything. I'm comfortable with who I am, so I say, but yet, telling someone that I care about...this side of me...it's very scary. I was scared of being judged, for being called a weirdo, and even worse for being called a pedophile. Now, in all perspective, I KNEW, he wasn't going to go that far, but I did honestly believe he would be weirded out, or something. But, that wasn't the case at all. He was completely okay with it...and it was as if I just told him that my favorite ice cream was cookies n creme. It made me think that most of the time, that is probably how the reaction goes. My ex-boyfriend was a little weirded out at first, but he got over it and actually got a little involved. Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 13, 2016 Author Share Posted April 13, 2016 Thank you everyone I do feel better telling him and it gets it out in the open, so if I start kind of start getting into it...he will be aware of what is going on lol. I mean, I can sit here and hope that someday he will be into trying it...but honestly, it's more important that he is accepting, so I'm very excited! He asked me a little more about it the other day, like why I'm into it and everything, in a non-judgemental way Link to comment
DiaperedAllTheTime Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 14 hours ago, mamabug said: Thank you everyone I do feel better telling him and it gets it out in the open, so if I start kind of start getting into it...he will be aware of what is going on lol. I mean, I can sit here and hope that someday he will be into trying it...but honestly, it's more important that he is accepting, so I'm very excited! He asked me a little more about it the other day, like why I'm into it and everything, in a non-judgemental way Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 14, 2016 Author Share Posted April 14, 2016 3 hours ago, MarkSmith said: Interesting that you enjoy being a "Dommy Mommy". Link to comment
DiaperThief Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 I've been into wearing diapers since pretty much the moment I got out of them. In fact, I gave myself this handle because the first instance of my diaper wearing was after I stole a couple of pampers from my daycare Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 15, 2016 Author Share Posted April 15, 2016 7 hours ago, DiaperThief said: I've been into wearing diapers since pretty much the moment I got out of them. In fact, I gave myself this handle because the first instance of my diaper wearing was after I stole a couple of pampers from my daycare Link to comment
Diapered Jason Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 27 minutes ago, mamabug said: I'm a rare breed it seems like Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 15, 2016 Author Share Posted April 15, 2016 3 minutes ago, Diapered Jason said: Not really. I am the same way, just as a sub. Whenever I go to a kink event, at least around where I live, there is usually a good mix of Doms and subs that are both male and female. While I find more dominant females are interested in say feminization of a male sub, diapers are still not that uncommon. Other fetishes like balloons or knives are less common I have found. I didn't mean I was a rare breed, JUST because I was a female dom, I meant a rare breed as in a mommy-dom, who also doesn't wear diapers (I have yet to see someone like me, in that regard). I also have zero interest in feminization...well just because I like my guys to look and act like guys (just my preference). Not saying there isn't anyone else like me, I have yet to come across anyone. Link to comment
DiaperThief Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 1 hour ago, mamabug said: I hope I answered your questions, I feel like i rambled on a bit lol No, that actually answered a lot. Thank you for sharing! I honestly had no idea that people with your interests even existed! I've been extra hesitant to join message boards like these, or to explore my kink, because everyone I talk to is interested in stuff that I can't begin to relate to. I love wearing/using diapers and I've only ever dreamed of having a partner change me, but I've never had any interest in AB stuff. I've even found people who share my adult love for diapers, but most of them do not consider themselves to be sexual beings, meaning they are aroused by diapers, but only use them to masturbate and don't like to have sex with diapers or like to have sex at all for that matter-- a sentiment I cannot share. Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 15, 2016 Author Share Posted April 15, 2016 17 minutes ago, DiaperThief said: No, that actually answered a lot. Thank you for sharing! I honestly had no idea that people with your interests even existed! I've been extra hesitant to join message boards like these, or to explore my kink, because everyone I talk to is interested in stuff that I can't begin to relate to. I love wearing/using diapers and I've only ever dreamed of having a partner change me, but I've never had any interest in AB stuff. I've even found people who share my adult love for diapers, but most of them do not consider themselves to be sexual beings, meaning they are aroused by diapers, but only use them to masturbate and don't like to have sex with diapers or like to have sex at all for that matter-- a sentiment I cannot share. There is actually a lot of people here, that find the use of diapers sexual (usually are more DL's that find it sexual, while AB/AK's find it more comforting). It's really not that uncommon. I'm sure you could find someone who loves wearing diapers like you and is a sexual person, or even introduce someone into the community, because that seems where most 'mommy' types come from. Don't ever think you're alone in this fetish, because you're not! There is so much a wide arrange of people here that like diapers in different kinds of ways! But we all have common interest Link to comment
DiaperThief Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 5 hours ago, mamabug said: There is actually a lot of people here, that find the use of diapers sexual. I suppose the best way to meet people would be on sites like this? I've always wondered how one would "come out" about this kind of stuff or find someone who shares the same interests without the internet. Link to comment
bo3996 Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 When i was in college i did tell a few ppl. Its . Great feeling of acceptance. But i was outed and really destroyed my life. I had to move back to my state of birth. I hope it does work out for u Link to comment
rusty pins Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 35 minutes ago, bo3996 said: When i was in college i did tell a few ppl. Its . Great feeling of acceptance. But i was outed and really destroyed my life. I had to move back to my state of birth. I hope it does work out for u This is one reason I have kept my DL side to myself with the exception of a DL friend I have who is also a member here. Link to comment
bo3996 Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 Well i was in . Rough part in my life between transitioning front the army to the real world. I had issues finding a center for myself. Dont get me wrong i didnt blast it. I told a girl i was trying to talk to and a few close friends. Well the girl was the one who outed me. But by me telling ppl and got outed. It did help me. I found a dom on fet who directed me and help me understand myself. Its not always bad but it did hurt me alot being outed. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Thanks for the info bo3996, but my last sentence " Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 There's a saying from a notorious group of folks: Two can keep a secret if one is dead So unless you're willing to have the world know it's best to say nothing. But in intimate relationships there has to be trust and sharing. I watch out for people who share secrets about other people because they are not trustworthy, and I don't want anyone in my life who cannot be trusted 1 Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 24, 2016 Author Share Posted April 24, 2016 I do stand by when I say that what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. Why do your family and friends need to know that you like to wear diapers? That you may even be into bottles, onesies, cribs and so forth? What does that even do? The only ones that CAN be able to share with the rest of the world are those that NEED to use diapers and even that isn't really necessary. I do believe, though, that you should tell your partner before it starts to get serious so they can make a choice. I know there are plenty of people here who have been married for a long time and kept this secret...well a secret. I don't agree with that. I'm not going to bash anyone that does, but I think it's unhealthy. Link to comment
Diapered Jason Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 4 hours ago, mamabug said: Thanks, Bettypooh, but I don't think I'm one to have an endless amount of partners to choose from. After all, choosing someone...requires more than just accepting my fetish. I have a lot of coral morals/beliefs that I would want to share with someone. Soo the pool gets even tinier LOL Coral beliefs? Hmmm... The best advice I can give you is to look locally for people who already know they want to be subs. Link to comment
mamabug Posted April 24, 2016 Author Share Posted April 24, 2016 Not sure what I meant by coral lol an obvious mistake of course. But, what I mean, there are things that are more important to me, than just sharing a fetish - such as religious beliefs, similar interests, same views regarding children and whatnot... So, no, I'm not going to start looking for a partner based on the fact if he's a sub or not. To me, personally, that's foolish and not Link to comment
Diapered Jason Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 9 hours ago, mamabug said: My fetish is Link to comment
bo3996 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 On 4/22/2016 at 7:00 AM, rusty pins said: Thanks for the info bo3996, but my last sentence " Link to comment
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