Well i was in . Rough part in my life between transitioning front the army to the real world. I had issues finding a center for myself. Dont get me wrong i didnt blast it. I told a girl i was trying to talk to and a few close friends. Well the girl was the one who outed me. But by me telling ppl and got outed. It did help me. I found a dom on fet who directed me and help me understand myself. Its not always bad but it did hurt me alot being outed.