Exposing others to diapers

[DLmach]

Thought it would be neat to hear about how anyone has, in some form, either shown, talked about, or brought up diapers/the topic of ABDL's, or anything related, to others- intentionally. Example: I once felt the urge to spread my DL desire so bad that I Iinvited a female friend over, and left diapers out to see her reaction. In this particular story, she never even noticed them. I have a few other stories from real experience, I just want to see what you all got!

[BriGuy]

They say a picture is worth a thousand words. I've shared this side of me with most those who are close to me.

My wife and I headed to an Indian casino.

Halloween at a local bar.

Playin on the beach with an old friend. Sharing my Abdl side has opened up a whole new world of fun experiences. I highly suggest it.

[DLmach]

Thats great! I'd love have something like that with someone. What I meant by this thread though, is situations where you don't fully comne out or explain to someone.

[BriGuy]

Ah. I guess I'm an all in or not kind of fella! LoL

[Repaid1]

Ah. I guess I'm an all in or not kind of fella! LoL

I'm voting your a all in kinda guy, that with the baby coming!!

[AwakenEvil]

I dont force my kink on others. Thats a lame thing to do. I'm probably the minority here.

[Baby Brian]

I would never force a kink or fetish on to someone else. Of course, I have shared my diapers which are a part of me with others.

I did accidentally have a coworker walk in the bathroom stall just before I was going to change. My new diaper was sitting on the sink in plain view, but I can't be sure he noticed or recognized what it was or just hasn't said anything.

[Little Girl Milly]

I've never had a need to deliberately expose myself to those who don't need to know. I'd definitely never leave nappies/powder lying around just so that people can see them. To me, that's the equivalent of leaving a dildo/handcuffs/collar/etc etc on the table without the other person knowing previously; it's be embarrassing and unnecessary.

[babybabbles]

I agree with your opinion milly.

Not everyone need to be involved in others personal life ways for it not safe too, so many folk just can not understand our needs to express self as such a way we are and feel in side that much us a whole part of life.

While other as even like my self may find true satisfaction of expose it to others, still not enough open mind people to not be judgmental for others different life ways.

Yet in this world, like we just getting the world to except from the new born young one born that it is a normal way for people of same gender to marry and be happy openly.

[Nat]

I have walked on a nude beach in my diaper. I don't leave my diapers out in the open, it would be unintentional if I did. I once left a bag of my used diapers in the garage and the bag fell open and one of them was exposed for anyone to see if they look at the bag. That was how my mom knew I had pooped in a diaper because that diaper was left wife open showing everyone what i did in it and my mom told me she doesn't want me giving her any information about my choice and I told her I wasn't giving it to her and she said leaving bag open with dirty diaper sis sharing it with her. Luckily she wasn't mad and she used to get mad at me for pooping in a diaper so I always did it alone and not have the diaper be exposed in the trash. But yes it will happen that she might see them like the time I was in the bathroom showering and I had taken off my diaper and left it lying on the floor and she chose to come in to use the toilet so of course she will see my used diaper. If she or my father choose to come in my room while I am getting changed or dressed, they may see me in one. I choose to not sneak around worrying about getting caught or being seen in one. If it happens it happens. I just want to live my normal life and wear diapers like its no big deal.

[Elfy]

I dont force my kink on others. Thats a lame thing to do. I'm probably the minority here.

[DLmach]

Interesting. Well I must say, I honestly never thought of it as rude or innapropriate, but I can see how one can consider it so. I've only done these thing to people I was already sexually active with, and I guess I wanted to get a sense of their reaction in hopes I could one day fully share with them. But on the other hand it is technically a selfish act, especially if I get off on it.

[BriGuy]

I'm voting your a all in kinda guy, that with the baby coming!!

Got that right!

[Marcie_06]

I've gone swimming in a diaper and plastic pants. I noticed some looks, but never any comments

[Andrew87]

I understand that need to share this part of your life with others and yearning to find a person that is accepting of this but how we do this and find that person is important I believe. I feel that it is inappropriate to just force this fetish on unsuspecting people. Like wearing just a diaper at a beach or making others see your diapers. I wouldn't even think forcing friends to figure it out by leaving diapers around your house as a great thing tbh. I know that I would want to really stumble onto a big dildo or bondage room at a friends house. Actually I have stumbled onto sex toys that friends didn't put away and it made me really uncomfortable. Typically I would say share this kind of stuff with your partner or if you have a friendship where you talk about sex and links then maybe with that friend but mostly I would say this is a pretty private thing and it should be that way. Just my two cents

Andrew

[oliver d]

Intenionally I only brought it up to my wife who has the right to know to strangers never and I don't think this should be flashed around in the open or forced unto others

[Baby Brian]

I understand that need to share this part of your life with others and yearning to find a person that is accepting of this but how we do this and find that person is important I believe. I feel that it is inappropriate to just force this fetish on unsuspecting people. Like wearing just a diaper at a beach or making others see your diapers. I wouldn't even think forcing friends to figure it out by leaving diapers around your house as a great thing tbh. I know that I would want to really stumble onto a big dildo or bondage room at a friends house. Actually I have stumbled onto sex toys that friends didn't put away and it made me really uncomfortable. Typically I would say share this kind of stuff with your partner or if you have a friendship where you talk about sex and links then maybe with that friend but mostly I would say this is a pretty private thing and it should be that way. Just my two cents

Andrew

I can agree with your reasoning when you believe diapers are a fetish, but what about those that are legitimately incontinent, or otherwise need them for legitimate reasons (mental/security reasons included)? Diapers are not necessarily a fetish (even if you only like wearing them), and as such are not sexual by nature. When this is the case it is a completely different situation- especially when at the beach when the point is to not be covered up yet diapers are still necessary.

[Andrew87]

I can agree with your reasoning when you believe diapers are a fetish, but what about those that are legitimately incontinent, or otherwise need them for legitimate reasons (mental/security reasons included)? Diapers are not necessarily a fetish (even if you only like wearing them), and as such are not sexual by nature. When this is the case it is a completely different situation- especially when at the beach when the point is to not be covered up yet diapers are still necessary.

. By the logic should you also where a colostomy bag out in the open? What about other medical devices that are not designed to worn openly? I think that this comes down to decency and respect for others. beyond that there are plenty of examples of things that should be left covered or concealed in public.

I was at Bonnaroo a few years back and I saw a guy that had a disorder that caused him to sweat a bloody sweat mixture, he walked around shirtless and not only was this undliggtly and disturbing to a large portion of the crowd it was unsafe as his body was touching others. Not really an acceptable practice by our societies mores.

Now back to saying what if they are incontinent, well I ask you this how many people that are incontinent do you see flashing diapers or just wearing those while outside. I would say a very small minority because it is just not how we behave. Even having babies run around in just diapers is in bad taste unless in the privacy of a home or backyard.

This sides not mean a diaper bulge or maybe a waist band sticking out or any other accident realizing the fact you are diapered as bad but intentionally showing them off is.

I am sorry you can try to reason it out or justify this action but the fact that you have to find justification is vindication of my view and that of societies. It is exactly the same reason why you do not walk around in public in just underwear.

When I hear stories about how people try to put themselves into situations in public where they are porpusely show others their diapers or walking around in soiled undergarments disturbing others with smells, leaks and even puddles, it only reminds why sometimes we are our own worst enemies when it comes to being an accepted fetish in main stream eyes.

Let's show some decorum and act as adults.

[gweg]

. By the logic should you also where a colostomy bag out in the open? What about other medical devices that are not designed to worn openly? I think that this comes down to decency and respect for others. beyond that there are plenty of examples of things that should be left covered or concealed in public.

I was at Bonnaroo a few years back and I saw a guy that had a disorder that caused him to sweat a bloody sweat mixture, he walked around shirtless and not only was this undliggtly and disturbing to a large portion of the crowd it was unsafe as his body was touching others. Not really an acceptable practice by our societies mores.

Now back to saying what if they are incontinent, well I ask you this how many people that are incontinent do you see flashing diapers or just wearing those while outside. I would say a very small minority because it is just not how we behave. Even having babies run around in just diapers is in bad taste unless in the privacy of a home or backyard.

This sides not mean a diaper bulge or maybe a waist band sticking out or any other accident realizing the fact you are diapered as bad but intentionally showing them off is.

I am sorry you can try to reason it out or justify this action but the fact that you have to find justification is vindication of my view and that of societies. It is exactly the same reason why you do not walk around in public in just underwear.

When I hear stories about how people try to put themselves into situations in public where they are porpusely show others their diapers or walking around in soiled undergarments disturbing others with smells, leaks and even puddles, it only reminds why sometimes we are our own worst enemies when it comes to being an accepted fetish in main stream eyes.

Let's show some decorum and act as adults.

[Andrew87]

Let's just ignore the fact that you missed the point of my post and decide to go on the attack. Let's clear a few things up to start:

1. Just because some people feel the attire they wear is appropriate does not mean it is. this goes for the other way of one person find what someone else is wearing offensive that it is in fact offensive.

2. No where did I say it was wrong to wear in public or to use said undergarments. Whether by need or want.

3. The fact that you can say anecdotally that people are at beaches in just diapers and plastic pants does not make this the truth nor does it make it the norm.

4. I never said an accidental leak or mess wrong wrong. Purposefully going into a crowded environment and doing it is wrong.

5. Yea some people do let there kids run around in public in just diapers but it is by no means consider in good form or taste. Argue that all you want I am sorry it is not.

6. Saying that you are a part of society does not mean you have the same views of society as a whole...

if you want to pick fights or make personal attacks on me go ahead it is the Internet and that is what some people feel the need to. I honestly do not care. I will not reciprocate or further it in anyway.

Good day.

Seems to me you are stretching this way beyond reasonable.

[DLmach]

So let me share what I've experienced recently. I just started using this dating site and this girl messaged me. We started talking for awhile and then she mentioned diapers at some point during the conversation. I told her that I once wore a diaper as a joke, not sure why I told her this..I guess I wanted to test her reaction. She thought it was funny, and asked me if I had a pic of it. I told her I did, and I sent her a pic I happened to have. She thought it was funny, and has been non stop bringing it up. So tonight I met her for a date, first thing she says is "have your diapers on tonight?". As we had a few drinks, she brought it up maybe 5 more times. Its become our inside joke. I joked with the idea about her wearing one, and she abviously refused jokingly. Now my question is, what do I do? She seems like someone I'd actually like to date. But now I have this guilt, yet excitement build up. Part of me wants to explain it to her eventually, but part of me wants to break the diapers out, in a joking way, when she's over my house, and see what happens. Now I don't feel like I'm using her, but I feel like it would be a waste to not bring it up as we have already broke the ice on the subject. Thoughts?

[Baby Brian]

. By the logic should you also where a colostomy bag out in the open? What about other medical devices that are not designed to worn openly? I think that this comes down to decency and respect for others. beyond that there are plenty of examples of things that should be left covered or concealed in public.

I was at Bonnaroo a few years back and I saw a guy that had a disorder that caused him to sweat a bloody sweat mixture, he walked around shirtless and not only was this undliggtly and disturbing to a large portion of the crowd it was unsafe as his body was touching others. Not really an acceptable practice by our societies mores.

Now back to saying what if they are incontinent, well I ask you this how many people that are incontinent do you see flashing diapers or just wearing those while outside. I would say a very small minority because it is just not how we behave. Even having babies run around in just diapers is in bad taste unless in the privacy of a home or backyard.

This sides not mean a diaper bulge or maybe a waist band sticking out or any other accident realizing the fact you are diapered as bad but intentionally showing them off is.

I am sorry you can try to reason it out or justify this action but the fact that you have to find justification is vindication of my view and that of societies. It is exactly the same reason why you do not walk around in public in just underwear.

When I hear stories about how people try to put themselves into situations in public where they are porpusely show others their diapers or walking around in soiled undergarments disturbing others with smells, leaks and even puddles, it only reminds why sometimes we are our own worst enemies when it comes to being an accepted fetish in main stream eyes.

Let's show some decorum and act as adults.

If it really came down to decency and respect for others then why is it ok to wear a speedo or thong? Obviously those people dont care enough or maybe some exposure is acceptable at the beach after all.

And yes, I do see adults wearing what many others would consider less than acceptable clothes. Heck, check out people of Walmart.com. The same can be said for teens wearing their pants below their ass, or babies running around in just a diaper.

I can appreciate you thinking none of this is acceptable exposure, but the truth is that a great deal of society doesn't care what others think and allows it any ways.

In this same regard I do not have to justify my wearing a diaper at the beach. THAT is all the vindication I need.

[Baby Brian]

So let me share what I've experienced recently. I just started using this dating site and this girl messaged me. We started talking for awhile and then she mentioned diapers at some point during the conversation. I told her that I once wore a diaper as a joke, not sure why I told her this..I guess I wanted to test her reaction. She thought it was funny, and asked me if I had a pic of it. I told her I did, and I sent her a pic I happened to have. She thought it was funny, and has been non stop bringing it up. So tonight I met her for a date, first thing she says is "have your diapers on tonight?". As we had a few drinks, she brought it up maybe 5 more times. Its become our inside joke. I joked with the idea about her wearing one, and she abviously refused jokingly. Now my question is, what do I do? She seems like someone I'd actually like to date. But now I have this guilt, yet excitement build up. Part of me wants to explain it to her eventually, but part of me wants to break the diapers out, in a joking way, when she's over my house, and see what happens. Now I don't feel like I'm using her, but I feel like it would be a waste to not bring it up as we have already broke the ice on the subject. Thoughts?

It sounds like she is really interested in you wearing one, and obviously you do too. I say go ahead and wear one, maybe even tell her you kind of like wearing it too. Gauge her reaction to that and if it's positive then roll with it, maybe even expand on it too. If it's negative just blow it off as a joke and remind her she was the one that requested it in the first place.

[AwakenEvil]

It sounds like she is really interested in you wearing one, and obviously you do too. I say go ahead and wear one, maybe even tell her you kind of like wearing it too. Gauge her reaction to that and if it's positive then roll with it, maybe even expand on it too. If it's negative just blow it off as a joke and remind her she was the one that requested it in the first place.

Thats more suspicious than a nun doing squats in a cucumber field

[babyleanna75]

Some one mentioned that you wouldn't wear underwear in public. That's a sham women do it all the time when wearing a bikini or no shirt just a sports bra, and some women will actually undress and wear their bra and panties swimming at beaches or private pools. The only thing different between bras and panties and bikinis is the bra is designed for support and much sturdier. Call me old fashioned but I have strong Christian values that makes me discussed with some of the provocative female clothing out there. As for diapers if it were acceptable to wear a diaper in t-shirt and didn't have friends or family members that doesn't know I wear diapers then I would do it also have Co worker's that could possibly see them.