Chris24 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I had a chat with a boy from a gay dating site. he said he was 18 but later it turned out he was only 16 - it wouldn't be a problem cause where i live the age of conset is 14- . the main problem is that he isn't my type at all. he looked differently on his pictures, and when i talked with him on skype it turned out he is a bit fat and not my type at all. He is kind and nice and a really cool little guy and i don't want to hurt his feelings. the problem is that he tells me he have already fallen in love with me. and i just don't know how to say i don't Love him that way. he is lonely . Doesn't have too many friends who accept him. but he isn't my type and even if he was i wouldn't want people to call me a pedophile.... cause our society wouldn't accept our realitionship even if its totally legal here... so, what should i do? please help! Link to comment
Repaid1 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Well drop the "fat" part. And simply explain everything you said above....I would probably reword the part about not your type too. Tell him the good parts that you like about him, but you don't share the feelings and the fact that he is underage doesn't work for you, I would then explain that because of that you just think it's best to sever contact. Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 14 will get you 20...lol sorry couldn't help saying it. Link to comment
Nat Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Just tell him he is too young for you. You don't date anyone under 18. Hopefully in two years he will forget about you and have moved on and won't crawl back to you because he is now considered an adult. Link to comment
DLdapper Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I usually just say no. If it won't work for you, it won't work for him. :/ Link to comment
beallucanb Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 You are only going to meet him not jump in bed with him at first sight, why not meet him at a restaurant like Micky D's then explain the age difference thing. Link to comment
Chris24 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Share Posted September 29, 2014 i talked with him again. i told him gently i am asexual and i don't want to have sex with anyone -what is actually true-... he said he didn't want to "rape" me or anything like hat but he still wants to meet me. he also told that i misunderstood his feeling cause he isn't in love with me he just "LOVES" me. ok, he admitted that he has a crush on me. so, i think i'm going to meet him. i would like to have him as a friend cause he is cool and actually cute even if he is not my type... Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Making friends is GREAT. You don't have to go any further than that if you don't want to. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I'd just tell him that he's not really my type- nice and all, but something just doesn't 'click' with me and I can't say what it is. Best of luck for you- see ya later! Link to comment
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