BigC300 Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Somehow, our community needs to reach out to this guy and save him from himself! He keeps reaching out to the wrong people in his quest to satisfy his fetish urges. They just keep calling the cops on him. I wonder if Backpage.Com is blacked out in New Hampshire? This guy just can't seem to hook up with a person to satisfy his needs. Now the Cops are talking about kiddie porn on his computer. From news accounts over the past couple of years, it's obvious this guy has a diaper fetish, he is not a pedophile who wants to play with little kids. The people he keeps contacting to request diaper changes are adult caregivers. This is so sad to see this young man going off to prison for life. Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Where do you get the idea that there is a kindred spirit here unless you think kiddie porn is compatible with ABDL? He's just a scumbag or he is a few tapes short of a Tena because only scumbags and mental jockeys put kiddie porn on their computers. Why anyone would want to apologize for him I have no idea. It seems that if he had a computer he could google up "diaper" at any time and trip over a raft of us. The fact that he "keeps [dealing with] the wrong people" can not be an accident after the third time. He has probably been warned at least twice. We are old enough to know the shape of the world. Let's keep it simple 1 Link to comment
Snugglebear Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 I don't understand why you think this person is owed anything by any AB/DL person let alone the larger "community". That individual has consciously made some bad choices and continues to do so. He has the same ability that any other adult has to find proper ways to indulge his kink. He is an adult and needs to take responsibility for his actions and if he keeps doing the same thing thing that resulted in the cops being called the last time he needs to face the consequences. If you want to associate with him that is your choice but why invite someone who generates such negative attention here? I highly doubt inviting him here will result in anything other than people casting unwarranted and unwanted negative attention here. 2 Link to comment
BigC300 Posted August 5, 2013 Author Share Posted August 5, 2013 All the previous newspaper stories over the last year have described a person requesting adult caregivers to change his diaper. None of those news stories described a person approaching or having anything to do with actual children. Now, in this latest episode, he is still trying to lure adult caregivers to change his diaper. The police now have determined he has kiddie porn on his computer but they have to go to court to get his computer later this month? Something just doesn't add up here. A pedophile is never interested in adult caregivers, they are always focused on relationships with little kids. Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Did he ever hear of Google search into which he could have put "diapers" or the like? If not, how did he find the kiddie porn? I cannot even find it and I do not want to. He would have to have been awful stupid or awful ignorant to not do this. Cannot find ABDL material but CAN find pedo!?! This does not pass the smell test Link to comment
drynot Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sometimes law-enforcers will play fast and loose with the rules trying to stuff you up for crimes that you didn't necessarily commit. 1 Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 its called escalation... most sex offenders did not start off offending in the most violent ways, but worked up to it... I don't understand why anyone who chooses to deceive people needs 'our' help. 2 Link to comment
rusty pins Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 its called escalation... most sex offenders did not start off offending in the most violent ways, but worked up to it... I don't understand why anyone who chooses to deceive people needs 'our' help. Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Not only could he have just as easily googled up "diaper" and found a galaxy of ABDL's as find kiddie porn. but he probably had to PAY fot the KP and he could have found ABDL material for not one red rouble, nay, not so much as a fuschia farthing Now that I think of it, he paid money to avoid us. I am crushed: do you hear me? Absolutely C R U S H E D!!!. and it is not like he had to put up with me. he could have put me on his "ignore" list, just like I did 1 Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 As someone has already said, we aren't being told much information. Link to comment
GLaDOS Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Okay, lets be careful with the insults here. I truly believe that calling people scumbags, dirt bags, pedophiles, weirdos, or any other insults, just because of what the liars at the press station said they were, is wrong. I dont know the entire story, but lets not judge over what the press has told us. We can have our opinion, but in all honesty, its America's professional court systems that decide if the man goes to jail or not. Things can really change, like how George Zimmerman looked like he was going to be guilty, but in the end was innocent. All we can do is wait it out, but it was this mans decision to show off his fetish. Lets be honest guys, I love being a ABDL, and im proud. Other then using a diaper every once in awhile and keep it concealed, I don't do anything else, and I think that is enough. Now its your choice if you wants to have mommys and daddys, but when you go and publicly advertise yourself, its gets bad. Trying to pull stunts to get people to change you, or act retarded to get people to change you, now that is a little too much don't you think? In all honesty, I keep my love of diapers hidden. It wont cause problems, or build up to cause problems that way. Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Well we either take as it is or not. Once we start kibitzing, kvetching and second-guessing then we end up spinning it off into a Conspiracy Theory with speculation, for which spin doctors are paid handomwly and finally deteriorating into trying to establishwhat "is" is. To keep things simple, direct and to the point was the purpose of Occam's Razor. Nest thing you know, we'll have it that the "kiddie porn" was actully the astronomical reading on an asteroid that will hit the Earth in two years and this is all some kabuki dance to keep that hush-hush while Edward Snowden is whisked away by the Russians and Chinese for secret talks in the Urals as Al Qaeda is keeping up with the Kardasshians awaitning the "Hammer of Allah [the asteroid]". Meanwhile, back at the ranch, A-Rod is.... Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Well we either take as it is or not. Once we start kibitzing, kvetching and second-guessing then we end up spinning it off into a Conspiracy Theory with speculation, for which spin doctors are paid handomwly and finally deteriorating into trying to establishwhat "is" is. To keep things simple, direct and to the point was the purpose of Occam's Razor. Nest thing you know, we'll have it that the "kiddie porn" was actully the astronomical reading on an asteroid that will hit the Earth in two years and this is all some kabuki dance to keep that hush-hush while Edward Snowden is whisked away by the Russians and Chinese for secret talks in the Urals as Al Qaeda is keeping up with the Kardasshians awaitning the "Hammer of Allah [the asteroid]". Meanwhile, back at the ranch, A-Rod is.... 1 Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 If this is true, then to quote Mr. Bumble "the Law is a ass". However if we get all wound up in speculation, which most of what is coming donw now is, the, as I say this thing spins off into the next time-space continuum and we come down with a bad case of paralysis by Analysis due to second-guessing. because there get to be too many unknowns. By the time this thing gets spun out, we will believe that a bride doll or a pap tart is child porn. Spread that over the whole of society and we are on the verge of flying apart Link to comment
drynot Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 I really think we're getting close to that already. Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 I really think we're getting close to that already. 1 Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Well, be that as it may. Unless you have evidence. FACTS of the story, to the contrary, you take the story as is We have 3 threads going where the OP and some others did not like what they were getting from the original stories so things that were not part of it get brought in that may or may not be true. As I said this can be spun into the end of the world and it will all seem reasonable. This is how the tinfoil tiara crowd operates. It is not the reasoning process that has gone awry, it is the process of premises where things that are controversial are first suggested and then woven into the become part of the whole Even if I agree with you about the insanity: And I do, having seen some of the antics that are part of "zero tolerance". You have to show how it IS, not COULD BE operating in these things. In fact this sort of things is part of what happens in "zero tolerance". That is why you have rules of evidence and standards of proof in the evaluative process; and this is an evaluative excersize The nest thing you know, these speculations (speculative with respect to the story) get woven in with the tale and two or three short paragraphs becomes WAR AND PEACE and nobody knows what the actual story is. This is the modus operandi of Coast to Coast This must have been the subject of psychological studies somewhere but fro my experience this is the trait of the young or the over-"educated" As Freude put it "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar". I do not know the context of the quote but I would think that it was a comment on persons who take took his theories all out of proportion. Weaving tales of the sexual implications of things, in the Freudian sense was a cottage industry in psych class. But the wiser of us understood that this was either classroom excersizes or jokes and the instructors kept reind us about such things In fact, the 3 threads where this is happening remind me of Receiver Operating Characteristics (ROC) curve studies of Signal detection and Signal to Noise ratios and how Noise gets greater on down the line as each stage puts in its own two cents. The ROC model is used because the chain of events resembles similar effects in the study of analog radio essage transmission After awhile, it starts to look like "busy" wallpaper Link to comment
BigC300 Posted August 7, 2013 Author Share Posted August 7, 2013 Here's a link to one story: http://www.unionleader.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20130801/news03/130809870&template=mobileart&template=printart Link to comment
drynot Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Unfortunately, once you're guilty in the minds of the public no ruling or decree or anything proving your innocence will change their minds. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 I'm with Rosalie- this has gone to the point of widespread paranoia regardless of fact. And the law is a ass, usually enforced and handled by persons of a similar vein What the over-senitivity toward protecting against the legitimate problem of Child Porn is doing is making us paranoid in trying to avoid problems with the law. It's Orwellian in nature as we become too scared to do anything that may be noticed whether it is innocent or not This is why I am against setting physical definitions of porn concerning objects and not people that are not necessarily sexual in nature Act against evil actions, act against clear evil intent, do not act against that which may be innocent, but instead investigate it to see if there is obviously evil intent or whether there has been a clear tendency toward physical actioin on those intents Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 I'm with Rosalie- this has gone to the point of widespread paranoia regardless of fact. And the law is a ass, usually enforced and handled by persons of a similar vein What the over-senitivity toward protecting against the legitimate problem of Child Porn is doing is making us paranoid in trying to avoid problems with the law. It's Orwellian in nature as we become too scared to do anything that may be noticed whether it is innocent or not This is why I am against setting physical definitions of porn concerning objects and not people that are not necessarily sexual in nature Act against evil actions, act against clear evil intent, do not act against that which may be innocent, but instead investigate it to see if there is obviously evil intent or whether there has been a clear tendency toward physical actioin on those intents Link to comment
drynot Posted August 8, 2013 Share Posted August 8, 2013 And that is the road we are going down. Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 8, 2013 Share Posted August 8, 2013 And now children will will die for a lack of adults willing to step forward and do good Those who caused that see this as helping children Perhaps we should help them similarly, adult to adult? Link to comment
rusty pins Posted August 8, 2013 Share Posted August 8, 2013 In todays society, even good Samaritans feel guilty if they try to perform an altruistic act. 1 Link to comment
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