Snugglebear

The timing really depends on the relationship. If it's just a fling maybe no need to bring it up. If it's something more enduring honesty is the best way to go. My situation is different than yours as I talked with my wife about my DL desires while we were dating so she was already OK with diapers when we got married.

I think the fact she once bought a colouring book and

I admit I have a wonderful wife. That being said, open, honest,

I was most recently changed by my wife last night. We're

If you'd like some constructive advice then might I suggest writing

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So, I had an absolutely horrible day at work the other day and came home very stressed, very grouchy and all in all in just a bad mood. When I walked in the door I had already texted my wife, I didn't want her to get the grouch without some warning. She grabbed her coat, told me she had a surprise for me and told me to get back in the car. She then proceeded to take

I was speaking with Laurie at Rearz and they are a special run print done by Comficaire. My wife absolutely loves me in them.

Simple, communicate your desires, give her time to assimilate the conversation, be supportive and ultimately accept she may not be comfortable with your request. You can't change someone else's comfort level; you can only create a facilitative environment. Snugglebear

People who want the truth may want to take a look at snopes.com regarding the origin if this fad. Although it is true the fad originated in prisons the assertion it has to do with rape or sexual availability is incorrect. Rather it came to be from ill fitting prison uniforms. Let's try not to further propogate myths Snugglebear

Lying about lying doesn't some how make the original lie better. I agree with taking things slowly but adding another layer of lies isn't a solution. Think of how upset your girlfriend will be if she discovers this new set of lies. "Truth" shouldn't be a deceptive action in an attempt to re-write history to suit your own ends. Personally (take that for what you will) either you value truth or you don't. Snugglebear

Can an admin please close this thread and remove the under age poster. Amost 18 isn't the same as being 18. Thank you.

The first thing I'd want my significant other to do would be to talk with me rather than random people on the Internet. Sure you'll get a bunch of different ideas from people on here but that doesn't mean they'll turn on your boyfriend. Asking online will 100% get you the fantasies and desires of the people responding but it won't necessarily work for both you and your boyfriend. Remember, the person who best know what excites your boyfriend is him. Snugglebear

I have a travel bear that my wife gave me four years ago and he always travels with me. She doesn't let me leave for the airport, cottage or anywhere without him. My female colleagues love him and usually want a picture whenever we go to a new city. I wouldn't have a melt down without him but I certainly wouldn't be happy. Snugglebear

You may hear people suggest that you write a note to explain things. As much as I believe in "to each their own" I REALLY don't advise that route. A note can leave your partner adrift and cause them to turn online for information. Personally I'd rather be there to explain my kink than let some random website do it when it may not be accurate of my desires but instead reflect someone else's fantasies. Second (to me) a letter looks like you're embarrassed about the topic. Confidence can go a long way in turning a potentially difficult conversation into an easier one. Take some time when both of you aren't in a rush and have a frank and honest conversation. Lay out the facts, be calm, be ready to answer questions and above all be open to a two way dialogue. Although the conversation will discuss diapers it is more about having an honest relationship than diaper wearing. Best of luck. Snugglebear and Raccoon

There's not one single universally right answer to your question. Your going to get some members advocating telling her and some advocating not to tell her. Some will say if she loves you she should participate while others will say she doesn't have to participate but she should at least accept your desires. From my perspective, for whatever it's worth, I told my wife after we'd been dating but before we got engaged. It went very smoothly because she's open minded and because I made sure to present it calmly, factually and like it isn't a big deal because it truly isn't. My wife and I have integrated diapers quite well into our marriage. If your fiancee views it as weird, wrong and disgusting you may have a harder time. The biggest thing is you need to know what you want before you talk to her. Some people want their spouse's involvement and others not so much. You need to consider your desires, her comfort level and what each of you want out of life. It's important BOTH of you are able to make an informed decision. If you want to chat further feel free to flip my wife and I a message. Snugglebear

Perhaps an important question to ask before figuring out how to tell her is WHY you want to tell her. You've stated she already knows you wear them so why does she need to know you like to wear them? If you're friends what is the benefit? What do you want/think the outcome will be? If you can't clearly identify how telling her will make your relationship better maybe spend some time considering your motivation. Snugglebear

I have dealt with Laurie at Rearz many times and I've never had any problems or found her to have any attitude. I am really surprised at your experience because it's contrary to everything my view and I have found. I would recommend Rearz for both product selection and service. Snugglebear and Raccoon

They wouldn't think anything. It's simply one of many products they sell.

Lol, the "I want" posts always have a tendency to amuse me because they say so very much about a person. You consider me "rude", " a dick" and an "a hole" which is certainly your prerogative; however, you ask for something VERY specific for free and then act impatient when nobody hands it to you TWO DAYS later. It is that attitude of self entitlement that makes me laugh and shake my head. It is also that attitude that spurred my post but I appreciate your incorrect assumptions That all being said, I don't need luck, I work hard, buy my wife and I what we need/want, have all the vanilla and kink items we want and don't beg for hand outs but I appreciate your best wishes Snugglebear

I will share the secret that will let you get exactly what you want, ready . . . . . go online google it, pay for it and receive it. Seriously, you post asking for a very specific free handout and then ONLY 2 days later post an impatient "anybody?" two word post. Why should people spend their money to buy things for you? Try being self sufficient, may get you what you are looking for far faster than asking for handouts. Snugglebear

Lol, and do either of you actually think this is going to get you a positive outcome? You put in zero effort and believe somehow that will attract someone? Come on. Seriously guys, if you ask people with partners who participate, myself included, you will definitively find it takes some effort. It takes adult interaction, communication and time. Maybe try posting your likes, dislikes, what you want to find in a partner, what you have to offer a partner and more. Remembet 0 effort = 0 results.

I have to agree with Elizabeth, a photo of your crotch would be bad enough but a photo of your crouch . . . . well now that's just a massive turn off to most girls

Sure, be an adult and choose not to read them. There is nothing that requires people to read something they'd rather not Just part of internet survival.

Hell no, I value my friends, my family, my career, my dog, my life to put it bluntly. Diapers, AB play, etc. is just one part of my life it isn't something that defines me. Doing what you described is too much like throwing away my life for a small portion of who I am as a person. Snugglebear