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Me too, DPF was one of the first sites I found. It was back in the 90s when I first purchased a computer and logged on to find DPF. I found and attended two of three DPF parties. and learned a lot about not being the only one.

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I also joined DPF back in the early 80's. I became aware of them out of a Penthouse spread about Tommy. The Times that I came home and found that gray envelope sitting on the table were the best days of my life. To learn that there were "women" into this was a great day as well. The Ambassadors for your state or area, the Partys that they threw also great times. Even the Babysitter list was great, I used it once. But it wasn't all that grand of a experience as my sitter ended up being blind and couldn't really care for me. huh.gif

I try and think that I do recognize some of the more mature members here, but it's hard to say. After all we are talking about 30 years ago. I wasn't around there much after the pay to play thing got started on there. I barely used there chat as it was a HNG fest. I didn't like the idea of being around 12 and 13 year olds, even when I myself was in my 20's.

I do miss the DPF of old, but the DPF of the late 90's was just a cesspool of perv's with the good sprinkled on top. It's a shame it's gone, but we have moved on for the better.

I too miss Tommy and would like to have a update on him, but he choose to have his chapter closed, so so be it. thumbsup.gif

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I picked up a Penthouse Variations magazine in the late seventies and there was an ad for DPF. It was an eye opener to say the least and for the first time I was not the only one with these thoughts. DPF and Tommy really helped me through those early confusing years and I for one will be forever grateful to him. What DPF was in the end was tragic but it gave us many years of hope and understanding. Come to think of it. I was a member of DPF before personal computers! I am fifty-five now and still happy in diapers.

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When I joined DPF in October 1990, Christine was already a beloved member. At that time I was 26, working as an attorney and profoundly urinary incontinent. Only 3 weeks before I mailed in my DPF membership application had I learned about playing Adult Baby as a coping strategy. My sister Missy and I went to an early Halloween party wearing matching Onesies over functioning diapers. Two really sweet fellows introduced themselves. They were dressed as big baby boys. Both of them told us about their good friend Tommy who had started DPF in the late 1970s. The next morning I wrote to Tommy, telling him how much fun I had at that West Hollywood costume party. In that letter I gave Tommy my home phone number, explaining that as a second year associate attorney I worked long hours.

Just a couple of days later Tommy left me a phone message on my machine. I returned his call fairly late. We spoke often from then until the summer of 2001. The week after Thanksgiving 1990 I had to fly to San Francisco for my law firm. During that trip I had a free afternoon. So I called Tommy. He invited me to lunch, saying he would meet me at the ferry dock in Sausalito. It was so beautiful looking ahead to Marin county and back seeing San Francisco getting smaller. Tommy was charming. The restaurant was across the street from the dock, with a spectacular view and marvelous food. After we ate Tommy drove me to the hillside home he shared with Marky. That was when Tommy gave me a stack of back-issue newsletters and asked my permission to publish my account of the Halloween party.

Even now once in awhile I get an e-mail or a DD PM from someone who remembers me from my DPF column or who I met at a party.

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I joined DPF in 1990 but unfortunately didn't attend any of the parties or functions as it seems they were always either too far away or on a day I had to work. The one party that I know of that was held in San Diego and fell on a day off it was POURING down rain and according to Preston, the host, no one showed

My current screen name came from DPF.

Angela, I remember your column, and we exchanged a message or two.

I still have all of the DPF newsletters from those days. I remember looking forward to the times when I would go to the Post office to check my PO box, hoping that my newsletter was there. There was another member that had a box just a few boxes away from mine. but I never ran into them.

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I also joined DPF back in the early 80's. I became aware of them out of a Penthouse spread about Tommy. The Times that I came home and found that gray envelope sitting on the table were the best days of my life. To learn that there were "women" into this was a great day as well. The Ambassadors for your state or area, the Partys that they threw also great times. Even the Babysitter list was great, I used it once. But it wasn't all that grand of a experience as my sitter ended up being blind and couldn't really care for me. huh.gif

I try and think that I do recognize some of the more mature members here, but it's hard to say. After all we are talking about 30 years ago. I wasn't around there much after the pay to play thing got started on there. I barely used there chat as it was a HNG fest. I didn't like the idea of being around 12 and 13 year olds, even when I myself was in my 20's.

I do miss the DPF of old, but the DPF of the late 90's was just a cesspool of perv's with the good sprinkled on top. It's a shame it's gone, but we have moved on for the better.

I too miss Tommy and would like to have a update on him, but he choose to have his chapter closed, so so be it. thumbsup.gif

Wow,that is how i found out about dpf to.I joined in 84.I went to tommys second dpf rooster party in 85.It was held over a weekend of doing a bunch of diffent things.

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I love reading these accounts of Tommy and his parties, newsletters picked up at poboxes, old friends catching up. It was these ground breaking actions by a few individuals which led the way for a whole generation. "Thanks yall"

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I also joined DPF back in the early 80's. I became aware of them out of a Penthouse spread about Tommy. The Times that I came home and found that gray envelope sitting on the table were the best days of my life. To learn that there were "women" into this was a great day as well. The Ambassadors for your state or area, the Partys that they threw also great times. Even the Babysitter list was great, I used it once. But it wasn't all that grand of a experience as my sitter ended up being blind and couldn't really care for me. huh.gif

I try and think that I do recognize some of the more mature members here, but it's hard to say. After all we are talking about 30 years ago. I wasn't around there much after the pay to play thing got started on there. I barely used there chat as it was a HNG fest. I didn't like the idea of being around 12 and 13 year olds, even when I myself was in my 20's.

I do miss the DPF of old, but the DPF of the late 90's was just a cesspool of perv's with the good sprinkled on top. It's a shame it's gone, but we have moved on for the better.

I too miss Tommy and would like to have a update on him, but he choose to have his chapter closed, so so be it. thumbsup.gif

I disengaged in about 1996 when the newsletter started printing letters from underage and allowed mixing between legal and underage. I did use some of the web facilities like links and site rating in the earlier part of this dacade.

Things I dislike about the present AB culture.: oppressively disposable-diaper oriented and Little Girl is being overshadowed and eaten up by Sissy. Both of these have zero resonance with me and I feel like a fish out of water.

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I found DPF in 1985, which woke me up to the world of AB. I also met a few people through there.

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I joined DPF in the late 1980's or early 1990's before the internet. Different name I used than what I use online. I believe I used my real name back then because of the mail system. Couldn't use a fake name for the post office unless you got a PO box or something.

I started when everything was through snail mail, LOL.

Yep, same here

I also joined DPF back in the early 80's. I became aware of them out of a Penthouse spread about Tommy. The Times that I came home and found that gray envelope sitting on the table were the best days of my life. To learn that there were "women" into this was a great day as well. The Ambassadors for your state or area, the Partys that they threw also great times. Even the Babysitter list was great, I used it once. But it wasn't all that grand of a experience as my sitter ended up being blind and couldn't really care for me. huh.gif

I try and think that I do recognize some of the more mature members here, but it's hard to say. After all we are talking about 30 years ago. I wasn't around there much after the pay to play thing got started on there. I barely used there chat as it was a HNG fest. I didn't like the idea of being around 12 and 13 year olds, even when I myself was in my 20's.

I do miss the DPF of old, but the DPF of the late 90's was just a cesspool of perv's with the good sprinkled on top. It's a shame it's gone, but we have moved on for the better.

I too miss Tommy and would like to have a update on him, but he choose to have his chapter closed, so so be it. thumbsup.gif

I picked up a Penthouse Variations magazine in the late seventies and there was an ad for DPF. It was an eye opener to say the least and for the first time I was not the only one with these thoughts. DPF and Tommy really helped me through those early confusing years and I for one will be forever grateful to him. What DPF was in the end was tragic but it gave us many years of hope and understanding. Come to think of it. I was a member of DPF before personal computers! I am fifty-five now and still happy in diapers.

I found DPF the same way.

When I joined DPF in October 1990, Christine was already a beloved member. At that time I was 26, working as an attorney and profoundly urinary incontinent. Only 3 weeks before I mailed in my DPF membership application had I learned about playing Adult Baby as a coping strategy. My sister Missy and I went to an early Halloween party wearing matching Onesies over functioning diapers. Two really sweet fellows introduced themselves. They were dressed as big baby boys. Both of them told us about their good friend Tommy who had started DPF in the late 1970s. The next morning I wrote to Tommy, telling him how much fun I had at that West Hollywood costume party. In that letter I gave Tommy my home phone number, explaining that as a second year associate attorney I worked long hours.

Just a couple of days later Tommy left me a phone message on my machine. I returned his call fairly late. We spoke often from then until the summer of 2001. The week after Thanksgiving 1990 I had to fly to San Francisco for my law firm. During that trip I had a free afternoon. So I called Tommy. He invited me to lunch, saying he would meet me at the ferry dock in Sausalito. It was so beautiful looking ahead to Marin county and back seeing San Francisco getting smaller. Tommy was charming. The restaurant was across the street from the dock, with a spectacular view and marvelous food. After we ate Tommy drove me to the hillside home he shared with Marky. That was when Tommy gave me a stack of back-issue newsletters and asked my permission to publish my account of the Halloween party.

Even now once in awhile I get an e-mail or a DD PM from someone who remembers me from my DPF column or who I met at a party.

Yep, I've found you a few areas, I used to be OCbaby back when internet started booming, That was also my nick in AOhell 3.0/1 for a few yrs.

I disengaged in about 1996 when the newsletter started printing letters from underage and allowed mixing between legal and underage. I did use some of the web facilities like links and site rating in the earlier part of this dacade.

Things I dislike about the present AB culture.: oppressively disposable-diaper oriented and Little Girl is being overshadowed and eaten up by Sissy. Both of these have zero resonance with me and I feel like a fish out of water.

Very Very true, So many Sissy's claiming to be female to get attention, & then wonder why they get dumped when they come clean to someone that is specificly looking for a woman. If your a trans so be it but don't lie to people. You want to be female so be it. But until the RS, Your a wanna be. Speek truths. You can put in profile that your female but state in first few lines that your a pre-op. If your a post-op. You have already taken the step. So only say you can't have kids because of surgery or such.

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There's no way you found DPF in 1997 when you were 12 and are 22 now. That was 13 years ago, so your lying somewhere. Just thought I'd point it out.

And this is really silly. I was just sitting around on AOL and entered 'adult diaper' into the search bar. I've always been OBSESSED with the things, so it was really just a matter of putting two and two together. It's the exact same way that any teenager is going to end up looking for porn if you leave them alone with the computer.

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Very Very true, So many Sissy's claiming to be female to get attention, & then wonder why they get dumped when they come clean to someone that is specificly looking for a woman. If your a trans so be it but don't lie to people. You want to be female so be it. But until the RS, Your a wanna be. Speek truths. You can put in profile that your female but state in first few lines that your a pre-op. If your a post-op. You have already taken the step. So only say you can't have kids because of surgery or such.

My solution to that was to list my physical sex in the part there and then list as a Girl. Anyone with a decent background in AB and three working brain cells would figure it out in two seconds. With the advent of "Sissy" the whole thing has been glurred, with the DPF roster you had two codes F for Little Boy and G for Little Girl. I think a Sissy would have listed FG. It would be nice if we could use the old DPF code system here. I find that modern AB just cannot handle the sex/gender issue well. Suffice it to say that I am Shirley Temple; not Little Lord Fauntleroy if that helps

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My solution to that was to list my physical sex in the part there and then list as a Girl. Anyone with a decent background in AB and three working brain cells would figure it out in two seconds. With the advent of "Sissy" the whole thing has been glurred, with the DPF roster you had two codes F for Little Boy and G for Little Girl. I think a Sissy would have listed FG. It would be nice if we could use the old DPF code system here. I find that modern AB just cannot handle the sex/gender issue well. Suffice it to say that I am Shirley Temple; not Little Lord Fauntleroy if that helps

At least you are 1 of the few honest gender questionable people on the web. Congrats.

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At least you are 1 of the few honest gender questionable people on the web. Congrats.

That is a metter of self-defense. Too often I have made presumptions about a person I am dealing with and found out that this person was nothing like me. This way, if you choose to contact me, and you have brains enough to look and have some knowledge then you know what you are getting. Your next job is to look at my blog and gallery

which reminds me. I get friend requests from "sissies" and I go look at their profiles and find a bare cupboard. Now, taken as a whole, I have only about 40% in common with Sissy and they only about 30% in common with me which means pretty slim pickin's around which I would not try to build a relationship of more than the most superficial kind. Now it may be that lurking under that designation is a specific person who will be a very good match for me but I cannot discern that.

It might be a good idea to contact someone before putting out that request.

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Very Very true, So many Sissy's claiming to be female to get attention, & then wonder why they get dumped when they come clean to someone that is specificly looking for a woman. If your a trans so be it but don't lie to people. You want to be female so be it. But until the RS, Your a wanna be. Speek truths. You can put in profile that your female but state in first few lines that your a pre-op. If your a post-op. You have already taken the step. So only say you can't have kids because of surgery or such.

I find it ironic how everyone bitches about how queer people won't stop making a big deal out of it, yet they demand that trannies walk around with a sign on their chest.

I am entirely honest about the fact that I'm a post-operative transsexual to the people with whom it should matter. There is absolutely no reason for me to include such information in something so cursory as a profile though. If you have a reason to talk to me apart from something sexual, well then it shouldn't matter until something sexual comes up. If you are sending me a message with the explicit intent of sex alone, I don't give a shit about you anyway.

As the profile is written, it asks for a gender, not a sex.

What a miserable place for you to decide to make a statement about this. If it bothers you so much go write a topic.

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Sheeze when responding to posts from Angela and Christine I feel like I am meeting those who I idolized when I was younger. LOL

I visited DPF several times and even ordered some of their diapers. The cloth diaper that I ordered was absolutely awesome - cant remember the name of it but it was most excellent. The disposable were not much to talk about though.

The site, for me at the time was difficult to maneuver through. Not really to sure but I never really like the site layout so I didnt visit very much.

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I found DPF threw Penthouse Letters Form. There was an add in the back for diaper lovers and such. I was looking at it with friends and they were done with it and threw it out. I grabbed the mag and wrote a letter right away, I think I was 23 at the time. I signed up for the newsletter as well as wrote many letters to guys around the country. I had a great time corresponding with others that are DL's like me. I met a few guys and had some diaper fun. One guy was well off and gave me sleepers, cloth diapers and some plastic pants. I was in heaven!

I'm glad DPF was there to help me realize that I wasn't alone. Until that point I was truly convinced that I was a lone pervert.

Thanks Tommy!

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