Disgusted

[Honu]

The part of this that disturbs me is that there might be anti-AB activists that think they have to change us and not just our diapers. It's encouraging that even the younger people here already understand the binge/purge cycle and more importantly, that wearing diapers isn't discussed in the religons I know about.

I like the responses most of ya'll have offered

Aloha,

Honu

[DiaperBoyKR]

The part of this that disturbs me is that there might be anti-AB activists that think they have to change us and not just our diapers. It's encouraging that even the younger people here already understand the binge/purge cycle and more importantly, that wearing diapers isn't discussed in the religons I know about.

I like the responses most of ya'll have offered

Aloha,

Honu

I think its definitely good that most of us have had the opportunity through the internet to see that theres more than one of us in the world out there, and learn from the experiences of others. Especially the binge/purge cycle. That can be a doozy the first time it hits you if you arn't really prepared for it.

As far as the religion thing goes, of course none of the established religions are going to have talked about diapers in their seminal scriptures....most of them are well over 2000 years old! Its like expecting the Founders to have conceived every possible upcoming situation in America when they were writing the Constitution. When one is examining what is good/bad in terms of a religion or belief system you have to compare it to what was addressed already in the Scripture and make application. And I suppose thats what makes it hard for many people, especially for many extremely religious individuals.

[Mr. Sea Otter]

Going by the IP address it is the same person who has done this several times before. For that reason I'm not wasting my time deleting his accounts anymore. Am beginning to suspect he is from one of the anti-AB groups (self haters basically) trying to put anti-diaper thoughts in people's minds.

That's really just pathetic. I hope the OP get his head screwed on straight someday.

[d_drew12]

you could always be going through a binge/purge cycle as well. don't let religion control your life completely.

Don't you think this is a bit hypocritical. How about don't let diapers control your life completely. There are a lot and I mean A LOT of people here that let diapers run there entire life. They might not even think so but it does in small or big ways, think about your own life, if you revolve things like relationships, friends, activities, whatever around your diapers or fetish, then in one or many aspects this diaper fetish has some control on your life.

Now after all these posts and finding out who this guy really is, yeah, I'm not a fan of how he eluded us but like many people including myself, we have all probably at some point felt the way he did in his original post as far as the fetish goes, or at least most of us anyway.

I've said it before and will say it again. This is more than a fetish, it's an addiction. Hate to break it to you but if you can't stop yourself from doing it, it's an addiction.

Wikipedia defines addiction:

The term "addiction" is used in many contexts to describe an obsession, compulsion, or excessive psychological dependence, such as: drug addiction (e.g. alcoholism), video game addiction, crime, money, work addiction, compulsive overeating, problem gambling, computer addiction, nicotine addiction, pornography addiction, etc.

Main Entry: addict

Function: transitive verb

Etymology: Latin addictus, past participle of addicere to favor, from ad- + dicere to say - More at - diction

Date: 1534

Results

1. 1 to devote or surrender (oneself) to something habitually or obsessively - addicted to gambling

2. 2 to cause addiction to a substance in (a person or animal)

Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary copyright © 2009 by Merriam-Webster, incorporated

I'm just glad I'm not addicted to drugs, alcohol, or other things people fantisize about that are fetish like or addiction like rapist, murderers, robbers, etc. Many of these people can't stop themselves either and it's a fetish or addiction. Just be happy yours is a diaper addiction. Either way, I still feel it is not right and I shouldn't have this fetish. I feel as long as I can keep it under control, and not let it control my life and my everyday actions, then I am okay with not doing anything about it (still don't like that I desire diapers or wanting to be fully incontinent thought). The only thing I do is wear a diaper sometimes when it's not medically necsessary and that's all. Most of us won't stop because it's pretty harmless as far as addictions go but honestly, don't let it run your life and try to overcome it if it does. Just my advice.

[Repaid1]

Okay don't flame me for a religious war or anything, but diapers or their equivalent are mentioned in scripture of the Bible. As far as nothing being updated for 2000 years, does not the Bible say that it is written of Gods hand. And if God knows everything before during and after, didn't he know about Pampers??? Just say'in...

[DiaperBoyKR]

LoL this is true Repaid. And yeah, the Scripture was written of God's hand, but there were lots of things that weren't addressed in the Book. I think that if diaper wearing was sufficiently Hell-worthy it would have probably been mentioned. It's where you take the diaperwearing, and the obsessions that come with it that I think God's more concerned with rather than what underwear you choose to wear.

The only Scripture I can think of that would be (mildly) unsupportive of what we do would be 1 Corinthians 13:11: "When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things." Aside from that, I don't know of anything that would speak in the direction of our lifestyle.

[Codymoogle]

The only Scripture I can think of that would be (mildly) unsupportive of what we do would be 1 Corinthians 13:11: "When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things." Aside from that, I don't know of anything that would speak in the direction of our lifestyle.

Ahh but "becoming a man" doesn't equal just physical maturity...Many people are young for their entire lives.

~ moogle

[johnbunkerDL]

I'll let repaid1 run blocking for me as I sneak this one through the defender's lines I know of many people who thought they were 'cured' of many things by religion but I've never known it to last Why? These things are who you are and what you were meant to be. The entity you're running to hoping for help in getting rid of them is the one who put them there in the first place You might convince yourself that you're "healed" and happy for awhile but it will fade away and you end up back where you started with less time to handle it than you had before

Bettypooh

Yes! Finally someone has said it, we are who we are because that is how god (the entity that made us) made us, and to run to him/her to help with correcting who we are is pointless. I am by-polar and I thank god every day for being by-polar (sarcastically speaking) but to ask him for help in correcting this would just be plain pointless. Although I have trouble accepting being by-polar (and I hate god for it) I have come to terms with being a diaper lover.

[OMFG]

Every time you wear a diaper, God kills a kitten. FACT!

[DiaperBoyKR]

Ahh but "becoming a man" doesn't equal just physical maturity...Many people are young for their entire lives.

~ moogle

Yup, exactly my point moogle. I don't see it as a direct challenge/condemnation to the lifestyle we lead, just a statement that when one becomes an adult he/she needs to deal with adult things. And taken in context of the entire passage (which is always the best way to interpret scripture), the verse is being used to illustrate how one should act in his spiritual life...and doesn't indicate that all people "become a man"

@ OMFG: Dude no offense, but your attempts at humor are really lame and distasteful. I respect the fact that you don't like religion, but that doesn't mean you have to make fun of the people who are religious or their faith. Whats being discussed here is a often a serious concern for individuals of faith, and all comments like yours do is enflame tempers. Freedom of Religion is a two-way street buddy. You're free to worship and believe whatever you want, but the same goes for us. Please show some respect in that regard.

[DailyDi]

As a Christian I believe in a loving God who accepts that we are incapable of perfection and expects us only to honor Him and try our best to be good people.

With that in mind: Diapers make me a better person. When I am diapered I am comfortable and confident; and when I am feeling comfortable and confident I am more outgoing, more helpful and more giving. And as a "weird" person, I am compassionate of other peoples differences and am capable of loving anyone.

Does a loving God care more about my underwear, or how I treat others? Does God care where we urinate?

[tigon]

I am about 99% sure the Christian Bible says nothing about wearing diapers. I went to private school for 8 years, so I have been through all or most all of it at some time. But I do wish you your best. I sometimes feel like this love for diapers and baby things is a blessing and a curse. I love to wear diapers, onesies, footie pajamas, drink from a bottle, use a pacifier, and etc., but at times I can perceive how easier it would be without such an innate desire. I have tried before to ignore it, even gone a few years without indulging (due to a relationship I was in), but every time I come back, every time I give in to what my inner self wants.

As a joke (and I really do not mean any harm by this or mean intentions), in most images of Jesus on the cross it does often look like he is wearing a cloth diaper. Please do not take offense, I just like to take happiness and enjoyment where I can.

Best of happiness to you ABDL247, please just have an open mind. Even if you do not indulge, do not be disgusted with us. We are doing no harm and are finding happiness, and finding innocent happiness to me seems very Christian friendly.

[AutieAB]

I'm an atheist so I have no concerns about what might happen to me after I pop my clogs...

But...

I would imagine that if I'm totally wrong and I cop it one day and find myself at the pearly gates, something tells me that St Peter's yard stick for admission won't be what underwear I chose, what my kinks were, which church I did or didn't go to or how much I did or didn't pray. Methinks that the admission qualification would be whether I was a decent person in how I dealt with those around me. Honestly, if you think there is an all powerful, omniscient god, what on earth makes you think he's got enough free time to give a rat's backside about your choice of underwear?

[Scoobie]

What are you going to do with your old stash?

[Knuxie Fawks]

I'm sick of all this anti-ABDL shit. If you don't like it or are "done with it" then don't try to drag the rest of us down, just leave. If you found religion, that's great, but please don't push your religion upon others, it's rude.

[Knuxie Fawks]

As a Christian I believe in a loving God who accepts that we are incapable of perfection and expects us only to honor Him and try our best to be good people.

With that in mind: Diapers make me a better person. When I am diapered I am comfortable and confident; and when I am feeling comfortable and confident I am more outgoing, more helpful and more giving. And as a "weird" person, I am compassionate of other peoples differences and am capable of loving anyone.

Does a loving God care more about my underwear, or how I treat others? Does God care where we urinate?

*gives DailyDi an Emmy and a Nobel Prize for such a wonderful statement*

[DailyDi]

*gives DailyDi an Emmy and a Nobel Prize for such a wonderful statement*

oh Crap, Kanye is going to be really pissed now!

[Crinklebritches]

Does God care where we urinate?

Yes he does! And that's why he invented Diapers!

[curiositykilledthecat]

Yup, exactly my point moogle. I don't see it as a direct challenge/condemnation to the lifestyle we lead, just a statement that when one becomes an adult he/she needs to deal with adult things. And taken in context of the entire passage (which is always the best way to interpret scripture), the verse is being used to illustrate how one should act in his spiritual life...and doesn't indicate that all people "become a man"

@ OMFG: Dude no offense, but your attempts at humor are really lame and distasteful. I respect the fact that you don't like religion, but that doesn't mean you have to make fun of the people who are religious or their faith. Whats being discussed here is a often a serious concern for individuals of faith, and all comments like yours do is enflame tempers. Freedom of Religion is a two-way street buddy. You're free to worship and believe whatever you want, but the same goes for us. Please show some respect in that regard.

Okay, that scripture is referring to an individual's spiritual development. Paul was using a natural progression of life to explain how believers are yo grow in their faith. This isn't an anti-abdl scripture. Also, why hasn't this thread died yet, lol?

[DiaperBoyKR]

Okay, that scripture is referring to an individual's spiritual development. Paul was using a natural progression of life to explain how believers are yo grow in their faith. This isn't an anti-abdl scripture. Also, why hasn't this thread died yet, lol?

That was kind of my point....if it didn't come across that way, I'm sorry. What I was trying to say was that that was the closest thing that I could find that ANYONE could point to as justification to tell us that what we were doing was discouraged by Scripture. BUT as you pointed out, and I was trying to, it refers to ones spiritual life (in the context of the passage) not the physical being of the body.

And this thread will never die. It is destined to become t3h 3p1c 7hr34d.

[Honeywell6180]

Okay, I am officially done with this fetish (or lifestyle), I have simply became disgusted with it to be honest, I was thinking "how could I love pooping or peeing on myself and enjoy it?" I am honestly sick to my stomach when I think of that now, I am officially done with this, no offense to you all. But this is something I've struggled with for years, thinking I could enjoy wearing diapers, but now I've realized that I don't enjoy wearing no more, I actually think even wearing them is uncomfortable now and then just the thought of using it on my self (yuck), so sorry I gave it a try but I have nothing more to do with this fetish, now I'm sure everyone probably thinks I'm bluffing and that I'll come back, but I won't no offense, but I just think it's disgusting now, maybe the good Lord is making me feel this way and if so Praise God! I also realize it's time to mature and get with a girl and most of all focus on God and my ministry that God has called me to do (preaching), so if an admin sees this, could you please delete my account ? Although I know you usually don't do that, I would appreciate it and God Bless you all and I'll be praying!

This does make some good sense. Although it was a bad experience overall, I am sure it was also a learning experience. You saw for yourself what people with disabilities have to go through each day, and it is not pretty. It is a sad fact that some folks have to apply these garments in order to avoid discomfort, often just to function in a semi-social setting. And they tend to severely limit the places that the wearer can go, and activities they can enjoy while adding to the awful stigma. People who require these, for what ever reason, are often viewed as being retarded even if they have normal intelligence. I would gladly trade the diapers for a normal life, normal relationship, normal family, normal memories, normal abilities, and a house and car like 70% of the population has. And maybe even have a pilot's license to show for instead of services from the State. At least you have a fighting chance to obtain your goals.

Honeywell6180

[freswith]

As a joke (and I really do not mean any harm by this or mean intentions), in most images of Jesus on the cross it does often look like he is wearing a cloth diaper.

Nice joke. So why did they put a loincloth on him? Were they really worried that the public might be more offended by the sight of gentialia that by the sight of a man dying in agony?

Is the loincloth merely a later addition? The Greeks were uttelry unconcerned by nudity, the Romans and the Jews only slightly. Did it serve a practical purpose in the way that diapers are applied to condemned men? It would be desirable to stop the condemned man pissing on his tormentors as they stood below jeering. If he did, they could hardly punish him any more, could they?

[DiaperBoyKR]

Actually the images that we have of Christ wearing a loincloth or some sort originated in pre-Renaissance religious iconic art, and became more pronounced with the 17th and 18th century taboos against nudity. In all likelihood, Christ was naked as he was executed. It would have been a humilation factor to the condemned and was common practice when Romans executed someone by crucifixtion. And lets think about it logically....if they were going to humilate someone who was going to die by taking away his clothes, why would they leave him his underwear? It was generally a artistic method used to avoid artistic renderings of Christ nude on the cross.

[Saschadzg]

Same with all the transsexual regret in the net.

[Sophie ♥]

I just want to take a moment to point out a bit of irony I hope will cheer you all up.

The original poster's name was ABDL247.

I'm sorry, but that's hilarious.

-Sophie