Good for you for sticking with the fight! Based on some of the shows I have seen about gender reassignment, they often require you to live as the gender you wish to become. It may help things along to compile the evidence that you have been living as a fully incontinent person for some time. Information like how many diapers you use and how long you go between changes. This may sound weird going to any future appointments with a wet diaper may reinforce how serious you are about this. Just my suggestions. Stay Strong!