Billyboy

Thank you so very much Stroller!! THAT was very most informative and actually helped put things into proper place for me. I believe that one spelling was, if not the actual one, then so close as to be the one, that I got what I said from. I was going with what it sounded like to me to get MY version of the spelling. It "sounded" like I spelled it..at least what I thought I remembered. Thank you SO verymuch for researching it as professionally as you did!! What a nice thing to do! Some darn great people here in DD!! Reakun, I'm SO happy anything I said or did might have given you a spark!! Giggles. I love the folks in here SO much!! They just make you feel good inside and it's so nice to be able to be "me" and still be the "other me" !! Let me know what ya come up wif, k? Hugs all ????

Hi Itscordell, My first visit with THIS Dr (there have been many Drs), was very much like I said. About my wearing diapers...I actually brought one of mine with me to show what kind I use and to discuss it, if he felt it necessary. He didn't find it important enough to talk about (the diapers) much more than to say that he couldn't even tell I was wearing diapers! Was nice to hear, lol. The exam went on and I was told to get some internal photos (x-rays, M.R.I.'s) and to reschedule for follow up. When I did, it went downhill for me before getting better! This Dr actually saved my life (that seems to happen pretty often for me), when he found somethings wrong with the x-rays and M.R.I.'s. I ended up in emergency surgery the very next morning!! Three more in the following weeks!! I had no idea what was causing pain, but when he saw what it was, I went under "the knife" the very next morning before 5am!! As I said, it got worse before getting better. Gettin yer peepee worked on isn't always so much fun! Can even be painful for a stretch, but the alternatives are far worse!! Get the lil guy some attention!! He's a part of your body that puts up with a LOT of "abuse" and rarely complains about it!! If the lil fella's whinin, might be best to listen! Whatever anyone says about your diapers is way less concern than havin yer winkie cut off at the base!! Just while I've got yer attention....havin a choice about when an where you release your water is by far a betterthing than losing that!! I've found that I use less diapers as an incon than when I was playing!! Reletively speaking that is. Good luck and let us know how things go, ok? Billyboy ?

I just looked for that word myself raekun and I couldn't find it either! Now I'm fairly certain it wasn't from something I had taken! I'm pretty sure that, at some point in my past, that word WAS said to be what the English version of raccoon came from. I'll keep lookin. ????

Howdy Hi raekun! From what I learned in early life (because I was fascinated with raccoons), was that the English spelling and pronunciation of the word "Raccoon" CAME from the Native Amercan.."raccanoonie" AND I DO NOT THINK THAT IS THE CORRECT SPELLING OF THE NATIVE AMERCAN WORD. Now you've got me curious and wanting to research it! I really love the people in this place and you are another wonderful and amazing person! Thanx for sharing your time with me! I'll see what I can find. Hugs for you my friend raekun ???

And we've worn out our welcome on this thread. For further depravities, we should politely move our conversation to another area? Been fun though! Thanx fer thuh chat Diaperedrider! ?

Ya halfta put lantern globes on 'em! ? BTW, please, next time ya use the goat, couldya please notfeed him chili? Thanx ?

Oh the experiences I've had with urologists! I'll leave out the actual surgeries. My first visit to "my" urologist went this way...(hellos from nurses who knew me from other places), Dr S....."Hi, you can't even tell you're wearing one!" .. The rest of the initial examination proceeded without further discussion of whether I was wearing panties or one of those things that keep you from having sex! To him, it just was...that I wear diapers. Didn't even ask if necessity. Please, no matter what, if you are in distress with your urinary, please please, don't let anything petty stop you from learning what's going on!! Please! Waiting can prove the worst thing. You health professionals on here...how many times have you heard..."If (they) had only come sooner"... So sad. ?

Ok, bein as nobody else mentioned THIS part...and just why is the age difference THAT bad a thing? I mean, this is..wait..uh 2000 something! These things aren't all that bad a thing in this day. She's not like 16 or sumpin right? In my time, I've known several..uhmm, younger gals holdin my legs in the air! An we even played diaper games too, giggles. Last one..this is a true story...She: 27 Me: 52. It was great until she wanted children. I'm da little one!! We are STILL friends to this day and she has two beautiful little ones! I am poppop ??

I'm thinkin you'll get just EXACTLY who/what you want/need!! You are a good and decent person. Offer THAT! Yup, mine really IS something very special, but for me. It doesn't have to be MY story to be good for others. Each of us has our own story to write. Get busy with a pen lil bra! You have SO much to offer! Show 'em THAT about you. Good fishin there ppdude! ??

Howdy ppdude! Well, the first step? Ya know..if ya wanted me to, I could prolly help ya redo an advertisement about selling yourself to a prospective "buyer"! Yers wasn't all THAT bad, but...well, maybe just a wee bit more subtle..just to start with. Just a suggestion. In my first profile, I never mentioned diapers. I "might" have eluded to being a "little", but I didn't put it right out there. Tell about you. You are more than your disability. And more than diapers. It's really a B I G thing with YOU. Might not be with (her?). Do you like riding a stolen Harley up mainstreet backwards? Let them know THAT'S the stuff you do! Show that you are a real person. You ARE a real person, a good person! The widowed part is perfectly acceptable (you ARE after all), so saying that is ok. Try not to sound "needy and wanting". I'm fairly certain a prospective "buyer" wants a little something for their investment, ya know what I mean. Think about it...Here's a prospective buyer walkin down the street...hey, here's somebody who needs just about EVERYTHING! But offers to change my diaper. Hhmm. Wait, I don't wear diapers! Better keep lookin. What are your "other" interests? What did you do most of your life (suggest NOT including master - who in there), what do you do now (same advice). Let them know what CAN do, not what you can't. Let them know you are fun..you do things even tho disabled. Start with vanilla like type interests. Learn about them, what THEY are interested in. Try not to jump into the lap of first person who contacts you and say..."mama, change my smelly diaper!" Prolly won't get a reply, just see Bugs Bunny smoke! So, even on this site, just a bit of discretion could go a long way. Just sayin my friend. ???

Litterally...I know THOUSANDS!! Knowing that you are more than your disabilities is a start. I am severly disabled and, honestly..sad for my amazing wife, but like everything in life, there aren't very good garrentees I'll even be here this time next year. It's ok by me. I've known long enough that it's just part of my everyday. But nuff 'bout me... I was actually found (or did I find her), on a site similar to this one! I have several sisters and brothers and one of my sisters and one brother were found (or did THEY find?), their respective S.O. and were married!! Yeah, I know, sounds too good. That's what I went into it thinkin! Really, I was just so very lonely, tired of being nothing like I used to be, seeing EVERYTHING that's wrong with me and thinking there's absolutely NO good woman who is EVER gonna want me!! I put up a few older pix of me, so they could see I actually did have all four legs and three arms at one time! I also put up a few recent pix, so they could see that, even with only a few arms and legs, I can STILL do things! That I really AM a person and, guess what, I can be fun!! And I can love just as good as the next one! I started getting messages day and night!! Was given private numbers to talk to them and very quickly with most, asked to meet with them!! I ALWAYS stayed respectful, conciderate and did NOT act desperate!! I did NOT take advantage of every phone number given me and I took my time "picking" those I got along with best. There was this one... Hehe. She stayed through all the others (one of my specialities is chasing good people away), and as others came and went, thereshe always was. Ya know what, SHE didn't have any pictures!! I LIKED that because I got to know HER not a vision and fantasy!! You know what I'm saying...generally it's physical first. Not so with her! She was..OMG!!! I fell in love with her before I knew what she looked like!! We finally met after about a year of messaging, then talking on the phone (she did finally send me pix of her and...did I say OMG!!??)! As I said, I/we took our time. Then one day, I...Mr no self-esteem lacking self-confidence, took a trip and, unannounced and uninvited, showed up at her work!! Yeah I did!! She didn't even know who I was at first, lol. Then, after a couple co-workers had said a few things, she finally got it that it was me! Hehe. She startedsmiling this B I G smile like a little girl and stated bumping into everything as she "tried" to finish up something she was doing. I waited patiently (not!!!), and then she came out to me and we went around a corner where nobody could see us...I "gently" pushed her up against a wall, held her head in my hands and I kissed her!! Yeah I did!!! I picked her up from work that night and we've been together ever since!! I've never loved ANYTHING or ANYONE as much as I do this good woman!!! Until my end day, I am happy and every bad thing that's ever been in my life goes away each time she smiles!! My apologies to everyone for my long-winded explanation to ppdude. My love and hugs to all... ????

Hi Howdy Little Fox! I SO hope you find a daddy! Bein lonely is SO very hard!! Thereare a few really great daddies in here and I've even been a daddy before to a wonderful little girl. Now it's my turn to be little and enjoy being loved just because I'm me...little or big, my wife/mommy adores me!! Ya know what...I feel same about her!! I would drag my naked body across 20 miles of prickly-pear cacti and broken glass just to grease the front axle on the laundry truck that brought her clean jeans back home to her..if it only gave her a smile for me to do it! Not much I wouldn't do for her! My hopes are you can find that one who does these things for you! Makes you run like a puppie to the door when that one comes home! Make breakfast in bed, dinner at night! EVERYTHING you can for that one special person, because of all they do for you and give of themselves for you!! How I hope all the lonely beautiful folks here can find happiness and end the loneliness that plagues us and eats our lives away! Why, because we are diapered..or take care of those diapered?? It's only PART of who/what we are! I believe it won't be very long before some nice, loving, caring daddy comes along and adopts you and sweeps you up into his arms and you just can't stop from giggling you are so happy!! Good luck babygirl..you are so precious ???????

Hi Chaddy..have fun!! ?

Diaperedrider, where do I get tickets for your next show?? Giggles. You folks are the best!! An you gals who likes gals, come on...give 'em lost lonely "typical males" a break! They just don't know any better!! As a guy who grew up with a gay sister and a lesbian brother (or sumpin), I learned WAY more than some "in the business" might know! It's hard to be different...whether gay, lesbian, incon, likes smokin pot while riding a goat naked down mainstreet everyday at 3:30am with candles on front and back playing LedZepplin!! Different is different and we all struggle. Advice is a great thing, understanding compassion is triumph (not the motorcycle though). Hugs Miss Loren (HOLEY MOLEY YOU WRITE WORDS GOODER-N-SHE-IT!!WOW!!), and hugs Miss lily~nyan, from a not "gross boy", just a friendly person who is male by birth! (didn't choose). Solidarity is great. Isn't that what we are in here for? Just sayin ????

ppdude, you are more than welcome to talk with me anytime you want or need..anytime, day or night! I'm using my "mouth filter" as my mommy calls it so I don't say anything too wrong, but both of us (wife/mommy and myself), have had loss simular to yours, so might understand some. Mine wasn't spouse..sister. Wife lost her hubby and found me after going through "the stages". We talk about him. He was hers for so long and then... What kind of man for her would I be if I prevented her from talking about him! He was a kind and good man to her and I'm grateful to him for taking such good care of her for me. If I could shake his hand and give him a hug, I would certainly do it!! Happily! I hope he knows that I'm doing my best to take just as good care of her and love her so deeply and devotedly as he. So, if I haven't said anything wrong..yet, we're both of us here to talk whenever you may want. Hopes are that when time goes by, as it always does, you'll put things into places. Then, like my wife/mommy, the new chapter of life will plop right down in front of you and introduce themselves to you and something will happen that you never ever expected and all the bad will find IT'S place and you can find all you could want! Hugs my little brother and some love too ????

AbabeBill, you are just simply amazing! You do such a great.job sayin hello to new folks! You made me smile! Your personality and non-judgemental attitude is so warm and friendly! After lurking here for so long, getting MY welcome from you was like getting my favorite actors autograph!! Giggle. Couldn't hardly believe I finally got MY welcome from you!! Hehe. So, from me...thanks! And again, welcome here John! ?????

. Hey thanx Jay! That's so sweetof you to say that! I have not a single doubt in the world that you'll get that very special one who loves you for you and you can love that person back!! You seem to be a very warm, friendly lil fella and I don't see why you wouldn't be snatched right up by the one who sees just how cute your little really is! I'm lucky in everyway because the one who loves me, loves ALL of me! We aren't only just babies, etc...we are people just trying to live and be happy like everyone else!! If ALL that's seen about us is what they "THINK" they see, well it's that old thing...if I HAVE to explain, you probably wouldn't understand!! So I thank you for your message and invite you to message me anytime! Enjoy this wonderful, magical place that so much has been put into! I'm havin a BLAST!! ?????????

Howdy Silver! Ex military here! Me too...interested since memory started for me! I can't EVER remember a time I wasn't interested! Great intro and YES...you are safe here! These are some of the very most bestest people in the whole wide world...whether involved in our lifestyle or just "regular" folks, these people here are the very best!! You'll fit right in and most likely, somebody's gonna find you little wraskle and fall right square in love with you!! Your intro sounded like every mommy's and daddy's dream baby and bein so little tiny, the one who gets you gets a precious little one to hold, feed, cuddle, burp (of course! Don't want tummy upsets ?), and keep that tiny hiney happy with fresh soft dipies!! I think you did yourself a good thing coming here! I know I did and I've met some of the finest, kindest, caringest, loving, friendly and like minded folks ever!! The folks who started this home for all of us had a dream, back before it was cool to wear diapers...and they devoted their life to making this the very best place on the net or otherwise!! I once knew a boy named Tommy who started something before the web and he put a lot into his as well. This home port for us diapered delinquents is by far THE place to be for every reason unimaginable! If it's not here, then we prolly aren't interested in it!! Good job to those who did this and welcome Silver!! Please excuse my lack of writing skills. Yer good at it! Giggles ???

Howdy babygirlannie! I don't know if you looked at the dates of the previous posts you replied to. They are from the 2016 era and might notbe active anymore. I'm new to this wonderful little island on the internet myself and altho I'm not "in" Philly, I'm in York co, not really too awful far away! I looked at your profile, but musthave missed actual age and gender. I am NOT judgemental of ANY choices by any of us here(of course that's as long as no harm to anyone), and so whatever or whoeveryou are, if you want/need a friend, we are here! We being..wife/mommy and me..little/husband! Sounds like a countryand western song doesn't it!! Giggle. So anyhooo, glad you are here and welcome to you babygirlannie!! I've met some of the most nicest people here and I'm sure you will as well. Hugs baby ?

WOW!! Thank you for that really sweet kind welcome! I'm SO happy for you to have found that one person in da whole wide world who is loving and supporting of this part of your life! The fact that this isn't ALL we are, we are regular people too! We work and play just like people do! So finding the one who will give us what we need IS such a special thing. I DO look fwd to meeting many new friends and having the times I've missed all my life! I've already been welcomed by some of the sweetest, nicestkids you can imagine! Wannatripbaby jumped right in and said howdy! Made me smile! Ok, my mommy wants me, giggle. When she calls, I jump to her srms! Thank you again for the sweetwelcome...hugsnstuff???

I often feel so bad for those who talk about wishing to have someone change them. I'm just so fortunate to have the girl in my life that I do! As I'm urine incon, I've found "alternative" ways of dealing with that which included a Bards incontinence clamp (tourcher device), and probably even worse, sometimes hair ties. Yuk, I know, but I would! Well, my girl gets EXTREMELY upset with me when she finds I've done this, for one reason or another...usually to save her some sort of diaper involved work! She will quickly get out a diaper and get me "comfy"! Ohhh I just love the look in her eyes as she tenderly changes my diapers. The soft touches. The gentle words. Her ABSOLUTE PREFERENCE to have me in a diaper!! For me, for my health and comfort! As I'm only urine incon, I don't HAVE to poop my diapers, but she more often than not tells me to "just poop"! She says it's not healthy holding my poopies in. Her cute questions throughout the day..." Did you poop?"..."Are you wet?" Then factual statements are also precious to me..."Come on, lets change you're diaper!" ... "I don't want you sitting in a poopie diaper too long so you don't get a rash"! (She IS right!!!) ... "I'll change your diaper, get you all nice and clean, then if you have to go poop again, just go!!" Pee, well that's a given. It just does. I miss the days of choice. I'm SO grateful for my mommy and all she does for me!! Even though she's not a diaper wearer and prolly never will be, she's TOTALLY supportive of me wearing and using my diapers!! Recently she's been researching about adult "baby diapers". The ones with designs and colorful characters etc on them. She really wants to find and try the one tape on each side diaper because, she says they're more like baby diapers. BTW, I am far more DL than AB, but just really during diapering time, I regress into little and she SO knows how to indulge my little!! She can make a diaper change last for 15 minutes, when she feels I need the extra attention, but she can whip one off in the back of our vehicle in a parking lot in what seems like only seconds to be private and descreet! She's just really very good at what she does and I couldn't ask for more!!! I love this good woman more than the word implies or states! I would do ANYTHING for her and do everything I can to make her feel loved, pretty and happy! She's worth ANY effort!! I've never seen a more beautiful woman in my life and I question my good fortune everyday, several times a day!! The way she walks, the sound of her voice, the look on her face as she finds an extra messy poopie in my diapers and her... "Oh my God!!" Jokingly as she opens it and inspects the damage!! She NEVER, EVER shames me or makes me feel guilty for using my diapers!!! We were walking around in a small town not long ago. I felt the need to poop. As what we were doing, I had put the clamp on (she HATES that thing!!), she said just go ahead and we'll go back to the vehicle and change you. I told her my situation and she was not pleased!! She said ... "Lets get you in a diaper! Don't you dare go in your pants!" Then I farted and she got this look on her face has me laughing even now and said... "Oh you didn't, did you?" I said... "No, I'm holding on. Should we just go into that convenience store so I can go?" She said she would rather just put me in a diaper, let me go and she would change me! But me, trying to be conciderate of her relaxing time out without all the responsibilities of me, the house, her work and everything else, I offered to go bathroom! As it worked out, they were remodeling the bathrooms for expansion and the lady said there's a porta-potty around back for "convenience"! We DID go around back and....OMG!! Not a chance she would let me go into that thing, let alone USE it!!! Another fart and she grabbed my hand and pulled me to our vehicle!! She keeps a diaper bag in it at all times.."just in case"... And this was that! Giggle. So in a diaperI was put! She hugged me as I sat up and she helpedme up, pattedmy bottom and we went walking back over to the antique train display as if nothing was any different than with anyone else!! There were no other people there at the time and we're very conscious of respect of others, but sometimes...when ya gotta go, ya gotta go!! She somehow knew when it was going and just waited for a minute, then asked if I was finished and told me I'm a good boy!! Giggle. She sorta took our time getting back to change me so if I wasn't all done...well, you know! She gently sat me down in the car door....SQUISH..... Layed me back and did what she does so well. This just one small example of my good woman!! She is a Lady of class as well and wouldn't concider going out without being "fixed up" with good clothes, make up and everything!! She's so pretty that she could wear a burlap bag and still be gorgeous!! She takes care of me and our home just as well as she does my bottom!! I'm a pretty lucky guy. You can bet your everything that I do everything I can for her as well and she gets her way without argument from me!! So, there's some of my good fortune. Again, I feel terrible for those still alone. That was me also for most of my life!! Good luck to all and everyone!! It's my deepest wish that all could have just who they need and want! Be honest up front. Show your love and willingness to do as much (more), for your prospective caregiver. Don't just be needy and think that a daddy or mommy is just living to change your diapers and take total care of you!! Be real folks! Seperate the fantasy from realityand be a responsible adult when necessary! ALWAYS appreciate and respect all your caregiver does to keep your hiney happy! Give as much as you can for that amazing, loving, caring person keeping that padded butt comfy!! If you make it your life goal to give MORE than you get, do EVERYTHING in your power to outdo anything they do, be open, honest, respectful and appreciative, then it's not very unlike finding a vanilla SO! Make it worth their while doing this extraordinary stuff for you! Just a few thoughts on how good it is and can be! I'm SO sorry I got carried away with my post!! I hope I stayed on topic even if long winded. LovenHugs to all ?

Hiya Lil! Sure hope you find who yer lookin for! In the time between then and now, have it good and smile ?

Hi to you and my heart hurts for you. Honestly, I can't say what I would do in your situation! Love and hugs lil brother ?

You crack me up Raccanoonie (Native American for raccoon). I like you already!! BTW, I left a bowl of good quality dog food on the back porch! Help yerself lil guy! Glad to meet ya! Curious...are you a "furrie"?

Hi mommy! Good to have more of you girls around! You can say hi to my mommy and talk kids about anytime! My mommy's pretty an I love her SO SO very much! I hope you find you lil one and you can be as happy as me an mommy are! Hugs ???