Billyboy

Thank you so very much Stroller!! THAT was very most informative and actually helped put things into proper place for me. I believe that one spelling was, if not the actual one, then so close as to be the one, that I got what I said from. I was going with what it sounded like to me to get MY version of the spelling. It "sounded" like I spelled it..at least what I thought I remembered. Thank you SO verymuch for researching it as professionally as you did!! What a nice thing to do! Some darn great people here in DD!! Reakun, I'm SO happy anything I said or did might have given you a spark!! Giggles. I love the folks in here SO much!! They just make you feel good inside and it's so nice to be able to be "me" and still be the "other me" !! Let me know what ya come up wif, k? Hugs all ????

Hi Itscordell, My first visit with THIS Dr (there have been many Drs), was very much like I said. About my wearing diapers...I actually brought one of mine with me to show what kind I use and to discuss it, if he felt it necessary. He didn't find it important enough to talk about (the diapers) much more than to say that he couldn't even tell I was wearing diapers! Was nice to hear, lol. The exam went on and I was told to get some internal photos (x-rays, M.R.I.'s) and to reschedule for follow up. When I did, it went downhill for me before getting better! This Dr actually saved my life (that seems to happen pretty often for me), when he found somethings wrong with the x-rays and M.R.I.'s. I ended up in emergency surgery the very next morning!! Three more in the following weeks!! I had no idea what was causing pain, but when he saw what it was, I went under "the knife" the very next morning before 5am!! As I said, it got worse before getting better. Gettin yer peepee worked on isn't always so much fun! Can even be painful for a stretch, but the alternatives are far worse!! Get the lil guy some attention!! He's a part of your body that puts up with a LOT of "abuse" and rarely complains about it!! If the lil fella's whinin, might be best to listen! Whatever anyone says about your diapers is way less concern than havin yer winkie cut off at the base!! Just while I've got yer attention....havin a choice about when an where you release your water is by far a betterthing than losing that!! I've found that I use less diapers as an incon than when I was playing!! Reletively speaking that is. Good luck and let us know how things go, ok? Billyboy ?

I just looked for that word myself raekun and I couldn't find it either! Now I'm fairly certain it wasn't from something I had taken! I'm pretty sure that, at some point in my past, that word WAS said to be what the English version of raccoon came from. I'll keep lookin. ????

Howdy Hi raekun! From what I learned in early life (because I was fascinated with raccoons), was that the English spelling and pronunciation of the word "Raccoon" CAME from the Native Amercan.."raccanoonie" AND I DO NOT THINK THAT IS THE CORRECT SPELLING OF THE NATIVE AMERCAN WORD. Now you've got me curious and wanting to research it! I really love the people in this place and you are another wonderful and amazing person! Thanx for sharing your time with me! I'll see what I can find. Hugs for you my friend raekun ???

And we've worn out our welcome on this thread. For further depravities, we should politely move our conversation to another area? Been fun though! Thanx fer thuh chat Diaperedrider! ?

Ya halfta put lantern globes on 'em! ? BTW, please, next time ya use the goat, couldya please notfeed him chili? Thanx ?

Oh the experiences I've had with urologists! I'll leave out the actual surgeries. My first visit to "my" urologist went this way...(hellos from nurses who knew me from other places), Dr S....."Hi, you can't even tell you're wearing one!" .. The rest of the initial examination proceeded without further discussion of whether I was wearing panties or one of those things that keep you from having sex! To him, it just was...that I wear diapers. Didn't even ask if necessity. Please, no matter what, if you are in distress with your urinary, please please, don't let anything petty stop you from learning what's going on!! Please! Waiting can prove the worst thing. You health professionals on here...how many times have you heard..."If (they) had only come sooner"... So sad. ?

Ok, bein as nobody else mentioned THIS part...and just why is the age difference THAT bad a thing? I mean, this is..wait..uh 2000 something! These things aren't all that bad a thing in this day. She's not like 16 or sumpin right? In my time, I've known several..uhmm, younger gals holdin my legs in the air! An we even played diaper games too, giggles. Last one..this is a true story...She: 27 Me: 52. It was great until she wanted children. I'm da little one!! We are STILL friends to this day and she has two beautiful little ones! I am poppop ??

I'm thinkin you'll get just EXACTLY who/what you want/need!! You are a good and decent person. Offer THAT! Yup, mine really IS something very special, but for me. It doesn't have to be MY story to be good for others. Each of us has our own story to write. Get busy with a pen lil bra! You have SO much to offer! Show 'em THAT about you. Good fishin there ppdude! ??

Howdy ppdude! Well, the first step? Ya know..if ya wanted me to, I could prolly help ya redo an advertisement about selling yourself to a prospective "buyer"! Yers wasn't all THAT bad, but...well, maybe just a wee bit more subtle..just to start with. Just a suggestion. In my first profile, I never mentioned diapers. I "might" have eluded to being a "little", but I didn't put it right out there. Tell about you. You are more than your disability. And more than diapers. It's really a B I G thing with YOU. Might not be with (her?). Do you like riding a stolen Harley up mainstreet backwards? Let them know THAT'S the stuff you do! Show that you are a real person. You ARE a real person, a good person! The widowed part is perfectly acceptable (you ARE after all), so saying that is ok. Try not to sound "needy and wanting". I'm fairly certain a prospective "buyer" wants a little something for their investment, ya know what I mean. Think about it...Here's a prospective buyer walkin down the street...hey, here's somebody who needs just about EVERYTHING! But offers to change my diaper. Hhmm. Wait, I don't wear diapers! Better keep lookin. What are your "other" interests? What did you do most of your life (suggest NOT including master - who in there), what do you do now (same advice). Let them know what CAN do, not what you can't. Let them know you are fun..you do things even tho disabled. Start with vanilla like type interests. Learn about them, what THEY are interested in. Try not to jump into the lap of first person who contacts you and say..."mama, change my smelly diaper!" Prolly won't get a reply, just see Bugs Bunny smoke! So, even on this site, just a bit of discretion could go a long way. Just sayin my friend. ???

Litterally...I know THOUSANDS!! Knowing that you are more than your disabilities is a start. I am severly disabled and, honestly..sad for my amazing wife, but like everything in life, there aren't very good garrentees I'll even be here this time next year. It's ok by me. I've known long enough that it's just part of my everyday. But nuff 'bout me... I was actually found (or did I find her), on a site similar to this one! I have several sisters and brothers and one of my sisters and one brother were found (or did THEY find?), their respective S.O. and were married!! Yeah, I know, sounds too good. That's what I went into it thinkin! Really, I was just so very lonely, tired of being nothing like I used to be, seeing EVERYTHING that's wrong with me and thinking there's absolutely NO good woman who is EVER gonna want me!! I put up a few older pix of me, so they could see I actually did have all four legs and three arms at one time! I also put up a few recent pix, so they could see that, even with only a few arms and legs, I can STILL do things! That I really AM a person and, guess what, I can be fun!! And I can love just as good as the next one! I started getting messages day and night!! Was given private numbers to talk to them and very quickly with most, asked to meet with them!! I ALWAYS stayed respectful, conciderate and did NOT act desperate!! I did NOT take advantage of every phone number given me and I took my time "picking" those I got along with best. There was this one... Hehe. She stayed through all the others (one of my specialities is chasing good people away), and as others came and went, thereshe always was. Ya know what, SHE didn't have any pictures!! I LIKED that because I got to know HER not a vision and fantasy!! You know what I'm saying...generally it's physical first. Not so with her! She was..OMG!!! I fell in love with her before I knew what she looked like!! We finally met after about a year of messaging, then talking on the phone (she did finally send me pix of her and...did I say OMG!!??)! As I said, I/we took our time. Then one day, I...Mr no self-esteem lacking self-confidence, took a trip and, unannounced and uninvited, showed up at her work!! Yeah I did!! She didn't even know who I was at first, lol. Then, after a couple co-workers had said a few things, she finally got it that it was me! Hehe. She startedsmiling this B I G smile like a little girl and stated bumping into everything as she "tried" to finish up something she was doing. I waited patiently (not!!!), and then she came out to me and we went around a corner where nobody could see us...I "gently" pushed her up against a wall, held her head in my hands and I kissed her!! Yeah I did!!! I picked her up from work that night and we've been together ever since!! I've never loved ANYTHING or ANYONE as much as I do this good woman!!! Until my end day, I am happy and every bad thing that's ever been in my life goes away each time she smiles!! My apologies to everyone for my long-winded explanation to ppdude. My love and hugs to all... ????

Hi Howdy Little Fox! I SO hope you find a daddy! Bein lonely is SO very hard!! Thereare a few really great daddies in here and I've even been a daddy before to a wonderful little girl. Now it's my turn to be little and enjoy being loved just because I'm me...little or big, my wife/mommy adores me!! Ya know what...I feel same about her!! I would drag my naked body across 20 miles of prickly-pear cacti and broken glass just to grease the front axle on the laundry truck that brought her clean jeans back home to her..if it only gave her a smile for me to do it! Not much I wouldn't do for her! My hopes are you can find that one who does these things for you! Makes you run like a puppie to the door when that one comes home! Make breakfast in bed, dinner at night! EVERYTHING you can for that one special person, because of all they do for you and give of themselves for you!! How I hope all the lonely beautiful folks here can find happiness and end the loneliness that plagues us and eats our lives away! Why, because we are diapered..or take care of those diapered?? It's only PART of who/what we are! I believe it won't be very long before some nice, loving, caring daddy comes along and adopts you and sweeps you up into his arms and you just can't stop from giggling you are so happy!! Good luck babygirl..you are so precious ???????

Hi Chaddy..have fun!! ?

Diaperedrider, where do I get tickets for your next show?? Giggles. You folks are the best!! An you gals who likes gals, come on...give 'em lost lonely "typical males" a break! They just don't know any better!! As a guy who grew up with a gay sister and a lesbian brother (or sumpin), I learned WAY more than some "in the business" might know! It's hard to be different...whether gay, lesbian, incon, likes smokin pot while riding a goat naked down mainstreet everyday at 3:30am with candles on front and back playing LedZepplin!! Different is different and we all struggle. Advice is a great thing, understanding compassion is triumph (not the motorcycle though). Hugs Miss Loren (HOLEY MOLEY YOU WRITE WORDS GOODER-N-SHE-IT!!WOW!!), and hugs Miss lily~nyan, from a not "gross boy", just a friendly person who is male by birth! (didn't choose). Solidarity is great. Isn't that what we are in here for? Just sayin ????

ppdude, you are more than welcome to talk with me anytime you want or need..anytime, day or night! I'm using my "mouth filter" as my mommy calls it so I don't say anything too wrong, but both of us (wife/mommy and myself), have had loss simular to yours, so might understand some. Mine wasn't spouse..sister. Wife lost her hubby and found me after going through "the stages". We talk about him. He was hers for so long and then... What kind of man for her would I be if I prevented her from talking about him! He was a kind and good man to her and I'm grateful to him for taking such good care of her for me. If I could shake his hand and give him a hug, I would certainly do it!! Happily! I hope he knows that I'm doing my best to take just as good care of her and love her so deeply and devotedly as he. So, if I haven't said anything wrong..yet, we're both of us here to talk whenever you may want. Hopes are that when time goes by, as it always does, you'll put things into places. Then, like my wife/mommy, the new chapter of life will plop right down in front of you and introduce themselves to you and something will happen that you never ever expected and all the bad will find IT'S place and you can find all you could want! Hugs my little brother and some love too ????