Elenwen

I'm really sorry for all those, who had to go through this... And so glad I was born way past those times. Can't help wondering, though, how my bladder problems, that started not so long after my own potty training would have been dealt with, if I lived back then?..

But that's all really awful! I don't believe anyone had to go through something like that!..

Abena and Molicare. Abena has more absorbency, Molicare has better fit. But both brands are pretty good.

Well, maybe so...

I don't look out for it, but I keep finding such people occasionally. Or maybe I'm just seeing things...

Oh, these... I see...

Not that I'm interested, but what do you mean, when you say "braces"?

Sorry, I don't quite know where else to place this, as this is too... kinky?.. to be in Incontinence forum, so... Anyway, my question is mainly to incontinent members, especially to other girls. As long as I can remember, ever since I started "playing with myself" (which was long before I discovered AB/DL), I was really worried about finding a partner. The problem is, I completely don't feel or control my bladder and if there is as much as a drop inside of it, 90% of time it will get released during... umm... well, during climax... And there is usually much more, than just a drop in my bladder... I'm not sure, how a guy would react to me suddenly losing control like that in the middle of a romantic encounter... Can anyone say anything about this?..

Don't feel anything unless my bladder gets overly full, which is really rare. I only get any kind of sensation, when already going and that is usually if there is a lot of it. If my bladder decides to have a leaking streak (that may last from ten minutes to about half an hour), then no feeling at all there, apart from spreading warmth..

That's the evening after-bath routine for me. =) Can't call it a day if I don't spend some time out of diapers before going to bed.

Like with many others, I totally lack any feeling of what's going on in the region of my bladder. I really have no idea, what causes that, but my bladder seems to live it's own life. It may build up a lot of liquid, until I actually start feeling the pressure or it may let some out and leave some for later, or just open up slightly and then I'll have a steady slow flow for a while. Sometimes flooding occurs and I hate that, 'cause while I can keep smaller accidents from showing in my behavior, when flooding I am kinda obvious. Even though I rarely leak.

I prefer Molicare Slip Maxi, but they lack capacity, so I usually wear Abena M4. They are way better than anything else we have available here.

What seems to be the problem? It may be unconformable at first, but you will get used to the discomfort. If you wear a tight diaper cover, there is totally nothing to worry about, when doing sports. Well, except for sweat. Also, try wearing a thinner diaper, when doing sports. Just change before and immediately after exercise and your should be all right. Oh, and one more thing. If possible, you should allow yourself some time without a diaper after sports. At least ten to fifteen minutes or something. Like, after you shower, lie down on an absorbent sheet and read or watch TV etc for a bit.

You're welcome. If you need anything else, don't hesitate to ask. And I hope you'll be all right, really.

Whether it's going to be bedwetting or worse, you should look up some barrier creams and try them to see, how they work for you. Like, some may be too oily, others, on the contrary, may dry up too quickly. And sometimes, although it's extremely rare, some may give allergy. But again, that's super rare. Applying a small amount to a sensitive part of your skin (inner wrist, for example) should be enough to check this out. Also, get a plastic or rubber sheet/ mattress cover, because sometimes diapers tend to leak. Apart from that... If you move a lot in your sleep, I'd recommend an onesie or a diaper cover. If you condition is going to be worse, than simple bedwetting, either of the two is a must have. Which one is up to your preferences. There is also a common mistake a lot of DLs make, when getting a legitimate reason for wearing diapers. They get themselves the thickest diaper possible. Don't do this. Start with some reliable medical brand, that has thinner ones. I'd suggest Hartmann MoliCare. If they leak, move up to thicker variants. Until the leaks stop. That way you'll be able to save a considerable amount of money. Now, if your problem goes past bedwetting, get a bag, where you can put spare diapers and other supplies. It doesn't have to be a bag ONLY for diapers, but can be a slightly bigger bag, than you usually wear, that has a "secret" pocket. Oh, and you should probably get a diaper pail in any case. Throwing diapers away one at a time, when you are at home may be tedious and they usually start smelling after some time, you know... Apart from that... I think that's about it. I can't think of any really necessary things to have in either situation.

Thank you, it's a pleasure to meet you too...

I'll be really glad to talk to you, but I'm not entirely comfortable doing it in an open discussion like this... However, you are always welcome in the private messages...

Thank you, English is indeed my second language, but I've been studying it since early childhood... And thanks for the welcome, too, it's nice to meet you.

So, umm... Hi, all! I'm glad to be part of this community and hope to stay here... I'm incontinent and several years ago I found, that I liked diapers and all and just got enough courage to try and find some people with similar interests... I also have other interests apart from ABDL, so if you want to chat, you're welcome...