In my opinion I would have to say that once you achieve that delicious wonderful state of being bladder incontinent, your moments of pure intimacy would be the same, if not better. I base that on the fact that when I am enjoying the feel of a lovely penis inside me it tends to stimulate my bladder that I wet during sex. Which really is an awesome feeling. So, if you do become bladder incontinent you would probably wet more freely and openly like I do. Just a personal opinion on my part